My boyfriend and I only see each other two nights a week, he stayed over last night. Usually he would stay again tonight but I am up at 5am for work, so will be going to bed early.
He said he hoped to be over for 7, but that he might end up working later. This morning he l said “see you later,” which led me to assume he was hoping to be coming over after work.
However, when I texted him at 7 pm, he (after 40 minutes) informed me he wouldn’t be coming because he’s working until 8:30 and his sister was visiting, so he will be with his family. Something he’d known about since 3 pm but hadn’t mentioned until I asked.
What really bothers me is that he often does end up working late, and while that is of course fine and I understand that’s part of his job, I’d appreciate a heads up if plans are changing rather than being left in the dark at the last minute.
He cannot wrap his head around why I am pissed off. His response that “if you’d cancelled plans or not gone out then it would be justified”. He thinks I am overreacting.
He has form for this, and not always when working late. Is often late, changes plans, doesn’t keep me in the loop etc. Though this is the first time in a while.
AIBU? I’m so annoyed!