So we both work full-time and have a 7.5 month old daughter. We take it in turns to have a lie-in at the weekend but DH was bounding about in frustration on Saturday morning when it was my turn for a lie-in as DD had woken up at 5:20am for a feed. Also, he wanted us to leave the house early to go to an event. So, needless to say, I didn't get much of a lie-in.
She woke at 5:20am on the Sunday and so I went and fed her straight away. Put her back down to try to get her to nap again (she's generally in a better mood when she wakes then) and left her for 10 mins. When it became clear that she didn't want to sleep any longer, I got up with her and took her downstairs. DH got to sleep in until 8:30am.
We had DH's family over for lunch yesterday so I was running around like a headless chicken getting stuff done. DD is teething again so was very grumpy and whinging which was driving me crazy. DH suggested that I go upstairs for a nap but as his family were due over in half an hour and we lots to get done, I declined.
So I work from home on Monday's and EVERY single Monday, I am the one getting up with DD to feed her at 5:30/6am when she wakes. I said to DH that he should do alternate Monday mornings with DD to give me a break. He said that he gave me the chance to catch up with sleep on Sunday (half an hour before his family were due over....
AIBU to expect that I should not be left to try to "catch up on my sleep". That DH should take his bloody turn on Monday's and do a better job of allowing me to have a lie in on the weekend.
We had such a stinker of a row about it this morning with him saying "we won't last long with this" (we've been together for 10 years).