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A&E or wait for GP – 16mo poorly

110 replies

vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 18:43

Hi all,

Looking for some quick advice – not sure if I should take DS (16mo) to A&E tonight or wait for the GP tomorrow. He’s had a high temp (39.5°C) since this afternoon, calpol brought it down a bit but it’s creeping back up. He’s also very clingy and not himself, whimpering a lot. No rash, breathing seems OK, but he’s refusing fluids and only had a couple of wet nappies today.

Would you wait it out or go in? I don’t want to overreact but also don’t want to leave it too long if he needs help.

TIA x

OP posts:
vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 19:41

KatieB55 · 03/03/2025 19:31

If not drinking then you can give water from syringe.
Trust your instinct - if you are worried then best to get him checked over.

Good idea re: syringe, I’ll give that a go. He’s just so miserable, which isn’t like him at all. Temp still high even after nurofen. I think I’ll see if 111 can advise, but I am leaning towards getting him checked – just don’t want to waste anyone’s time!

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Amethystanddiamonds · 03/03/2025 19:41

Use the Calpol syringe and syringe in 5-10mls of water every 5-10 minutes for the next hour. Sometimes just getting them hydrated makes a huge difference to the fever and improves their symptoms.

woowooba · 03/03/2025 19:42

Use nurofen for temp

woowooba · 03/03/2025 19:45

When did you give the nurofen op? If temp still doesn't go down after an hour then I would be going to a&e. Ime nurofen is so much better than calpol for temps

Crunchymum · 03/03/2025 19:45

I read this exact thread earlier today (except the OP had already called 111 and had been advised to "monitor")

It disappeared as I was composing my reply.

Donotgogentle · 03/03/2025 19:46

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/fever-in-children/

The nhs advice is here (link above didn’t work for me). But personally I wouldn’t go to A&E with a high temperature unless something else additional was of concern eg, non blanching rash, dehydration, abnormal breathing.

DS1 often had 39/40 temperatures when he was a toddler and it was usually a tonsil/chest infection, often needing antibiotics. I’d call 111 in the first instance as suggested by pp.

vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 19:47

Amethystanddiamonds · 03/03/2025 19:41

Use the Calpol syringe and syringe in 5-10mls of water every 5-10 minutes for the next hour. Sometimes just getting them hydrated makes a huge difference to the fever and improves their symptoms.

That’s a good shout, I’ll try that now. He’s just so out of sorts, it’s worrying to see. Hoping a bit of fluid helps, but if he’s still the same in an hour I think we’ll have to get him seen. Thanks for the advice!

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PurpleSpottedLeopard · 03/03/2025 19:47

I’d definitely give 111 a call OP. We’ve always been lucky in that they’ve called back quickly and the responses have varied from a video call with a doctor, an appointment made with our own GP and an appointment at A&E booked (which sped up the triage bit as they’d done most of that over the phone). I’ve been really impressed with their responses and they clearly prioritise calls for young children. It’s worth calling them if you’re worried.

thehonscupboard · 03/03/2025 19:48

Had similar. 111 advised to go to A&E but think this was over cautious as never actually got admitted, was handed rehydration sachet and syringe in waiting room, advised to give 10ml every 10 mins. Sent home once had a wet nappy, Syringing water into DC much easier at home than crowded A&E waiting room.

thehonscupboard · 03/03/2025 19:49

Alternate calpol/nurofen every three hours. GP appointment asap in morning so they can check what cause is.

BlueMum16 · 03/03/2025 19:51

vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 19:47

That’s a good shout, I’ll try that now. He’s just so out of sorts, it’s worrying to see. Hoping a bit of fluid helps, but if he’s still the same in an hour I think we’ll have to get him seen. Thanks for the advice!

Have you called 111 yet for some medical advice?

vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 19:52

PurpleSpottedLeopard · 03/03/2025 19:47

I’d definitely give 111 a call OP. We’ve always been lucky in that they’ve called back quickly and the responses have varied from a video call with a doctor, an appointment made with our own GP and an appointment at A&E booked (which sped up the triage bit as they’d done most of that over the phone). I’ve been really impressed with their responses and they clearly prioritise calls for young children. It’s worth calling them if you’re worried.

That’s reassuring to hear, thank you! I think I’ll give them a ring and see what they say. He’s still really unsettled and not drinking much, so I feel like he probably needs checking over. Fingers crossed they get back to us quickly!

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Ritzybitzy · 03/03/2025 19:53

I would wait it out. You’ve said nothing to me to warrant A&E.

Ameliepoulainandthephotobooth · 03/03/2025 19:54

Ice lollies are good for getting in fluids when they are otherwise refusing.

MargaretThursday · 03/03/2025 19:58

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 03/03/2025 19:29

@vitjab1988 you need to get baby's temp down. you do not want a febrile convulsion happening. temp is nearly 40degrees more calpol if within the reasonable time and get yourself with baby to a/e now. take off clothes and try to cool them a bit. do you have a fan/

Febrile convulsion is not a high temperature - it's the temperature rising quickly.

Kizzy192 · 03/03/2025 20:00

I wouldn't go to A&E personally, but trust your gut. Definitely give nurofen - much better than calpol for temps. And ignore the advice above about bringing their temp down with baths, stripping off clothes etc. Febrile seizures are caused by a rapid change in temp, not having a high temp. Nappy and a vest, calpol and nurofen every 4 hours, water in a syringe and a lolly. 111 might just send you to A&E anyway because of their age, you will be top priority for a call back anyway. It shouldn't be long. Worth calling if you're worried.

Bearbookagainandagain · 03/03/2025 20:00

If you're worried definitely call 111.

Purely based on the symptoms you've described I wouldn't be worried though, it's only been a few hours and they have wet nappies (2 in a afternoon seems pretty normal to me as well).
I would continue to try milk and water, or any drink they like, but again it's only been a few hours without drinking so as long as you have wet nappies and they don't have sign of dehydration that's fine.

For the fever, alternate Calpol and neurofen every 3h (sticking to the max dose per day on the patient leaflet unless recommended otherwise by a medical professional). Calpol has never worked in my kids for high fever, neurofen is much more efficient in my experience.

ringmybe11 · 03/03/2025 20:01

In my experience it takes half hour for meds to start working ie reduce temp by 0.1/2 something like that and then up to an hour to get the temp down. So I would bear that in mind before taking further action. Definitely try the syringes too to get fluids in as that's what they'd do in hospital to hydrate not an IV initially. It's awful when they're ill and temps are really unsettling. Being clingy and unwell isn't a red flag - a temp that doesn't come down with meds is a red flag as is not taking fluids/dry nappies but you're not quite there with that yet.

vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 20:02

Ritzybitzy · 03/03/2025 19:53

I would wait it out. You’ve said nothing to me to warrant A&E.

I get what you’re saying, and I don’t want to overreact, but he’s just so unlike himself and not drinking much, which is what’s worrying me. I’ll see what 111 say and go from there.

OP posts:
Ameliepoulainandthephotobooth · 03/03/2025 20:04

vitjab1988 · 03/03/2025 20:02

I get what you’re saying, and I don’t want to overreact, but he’s just so unlike himself and not drinking much, which is what’s worrying me. I’ll see what 111 say and go from there.

In that case, trust your instincts. Hope he’s better soon.

Waffle19 · 03/03/2025 20:06

I’d wait it out.

Wet nappies indicates he’s drinking some. A temperature itself isn’t a reason to take them in.

111 will just direct you to A&E in my personal experience so might as well decide whether you think it’s an emergency or not and it doesn’t sound like one based on what you’ve said.

Fluids, medicine and rest.

thaegumathteth · 03/03/2025 20:06

I wouldn't go to A&E I would ring 111. They've never sent us to A&E with anything like us. They've been sent to out of hours though. He's still so little is call. Might have a sore throat if he won't drink.

Tiredmomma86 · 03/03/2025 20:06

Apologies if I haven’t read all replies or up to date from you OP but I personally would go to A&E-before I get berated about going in ‘just with a fever’, my little boy has had bacterial tonsillitis about 3 times (he is just 2), however, one of the times he stopped drinking anything but sips for 2 days (a GP had said on day 2 that he would likely be fine as he had been!) and then stopped weeing and then needed admitting for fluid replenishment. It’s not to say it is tonsillitis of course but I never take chances with my boy after that fact and I have been a further twice to A&E with him and have never been made to feel a fool with him as I know how bad it can get very quickly. You could be in for a lengthy wait of course according to what else is in but at least if there’s any deterioration you’re in the right place. I hope your little one feels better soon ❤️

thaegumathteth · 03/03/2025 20:06

*anything like this

LucyMonth · 03/03/2025 20:07

Wait for GP…if even that tbh. Kids that age get fevers all the time. It’s the bodies natural reaction to fight off illness. Without any other symptoms there’s really nothing to worry about.

Having been to A&E about a year ago with a child of a similar age, same symptoms but also had a rash (turned out to be hand, foot and mouth) I was sent away with a leaflet about under 5s with temperatures. Basically it really isn’t an A&E or even a GP situation and not to “try and bring the temperature down”. Calpol and Nurophen are fine to make him more comfortable but tepid baths, cold flannels etc is all outdated advice and very much discouraged.

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