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£100,000 free hours limit - means extra £40,000 gross income?

204 replies

FrightHorizons · 02/03/2025 14:15

I’ll be going back to work after mat leave in September.

I have two children, one will be 3 in September and the other 9 months in August.

The only childcare scheme I can claim is 15 free hours for the 3 year old.

For the 3 year old, the 15 hours I can’t claim is £300pcm. This is £5,600 inc TFC.

For the 9 month old, the 30 hours I can’t claim is £700pcm. This is £10,400 inc TFC.

This means I need to make about £16,000 net to pay those childcare costs.

This means earning an extra £40,000 gross to pay that £16,000 difference. Is that right?

I’d love to know how many other parents are finding themselves in this situation - nursery fees are now £2,250 a month for the littlest one too (they were £1,900 when the first started at the same age!).

I am wondering if I have got my sums wrong!

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Laralou999 · 02/03/2025 18:53

samarrange · 02/03/2025 18:03

Income tax is at a 45% marginal rate in Spain above €60k (£50k) per year. Plus there is the equivalent of NI at about 7% on income below that. So whatever you gain by not being on the (stupid) 60% effective marginal rate from £100-120k will be largely cancelled out by the fact that you're paying more in tax before you get to that number.

Also, salaries in Spain are typically a lot lower than the UK, unless you have a way to work remotely while staying on UK money. But then houses are cheaper if you avoid the absolute premium areas. In any case, uprooting your family to a country where (I'm guessing) not all of you speak the language is a hell of a life decision, and probably shouldn't be done purely for the momentary satisfaction of sticking it to HMRC.

We’re going on a nomad visa and keeping our UK based jobs. Nursery is less than £600 a month over there, so it makes financial sense for us

LondonNootropics · 02/03/2025 19:06

Yep it sucks, i’ll get hounded for this but £100k isn’t a high enough salary to just lose every bit of support available.
Definitely top up your pension to get you under £100k and submit a self assessment tax return to confirm this each year.

whompingwillo · 02/03/2025 19:13

We are in the same situation, I’m the lower earner and I earn barely anything once childcare fees are paid, it was a big discussion about whether or not to be a SAHM but i deciddd to go to work for very little pay for the benefits of continuing work

in our area (just outside London) there are a lot of SAHMs for this exact reason, to earn more than nursery fees you need to be on around £40k just for 1 child and a lot of people don’t want to have their child at nursery fulltime just to take home a couple of hundred exrra a month if they can afford not to but it’s taking a hugely skilled workforce out of the work place

samarrange · 02/03/2025 19:16

Laralou999 · 02/03/2025 18:53

We’re going on a nomad visa and keeping our UK based jobs. Nursery is less than £600 a month over there, so it makes financial sense for us

Ah yes, the digital nomad visa comes with tax breaks if I remember correctly. Good luck with settling into a new life. 🙏

CrispieCake · 02/03/2025 19:32

Some people are very, very stupid. There's no arguing with stupid.

Just work less and spend more time with your beautiful children. Chances are, you won't regret it and you won't be financially worse off due to our idiotic tax system.

80smonster · 02/03/2025 19:33

DonnyBurrito · 02/03/2025 18:30

News just in! Rich people not paying taxes impacts the poor and needy!

🙄

If you think rich people need any help with not wanting to pay their fair share, you obviously haven't been paying attention.

News not just in: in Scandinavian countries poorer and middle bracket tax payers pay vastly more tax.

ThePartingOfTheWays · 02/03/2025 20:58

DonnyBurrito · 02/03/2025 17:37

It's not 'everybody else' that can access free childcare. It's lower earners, to begin to repair the vast inequality in society. There has to be a cut off at some point, and 100k is extremely generous.

I'm not jealous, I'm disgusted by rich people increasing societal inequality by using loopholes to benefit themselves.

To compare paying for nursery (which is for 4 years at an absolute maximum) to lifetime access to the NHS is a false equivalence. Nice try, though.

Nope, it's not 'low earners'. A household can have 2 x £99,900 earners and still qualify. We have an idiotic system with a fuckwitted cut off that disproportionately fucks over single parents. It's not a remotely moral system, so trying to attribute a moral aspect to people playing it is always going to fail.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 02/03/2025 22:55

It's really unfair you don't get tax free childcare when you pay so much tax

BeDenimZebra · 03/03/2025 00:03

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 02/03/2025 17:17

The threshold is not based on earning over £100k but net adjusted income of that amount, which does not include pension contributions.

So is the means testing for the 30 hours funding? If they are basing their calculations on not getting one, they won't get the other either?

SonoPazziQuestiRomani · 03/03/2025 02:47

BeDenimZebra · 03/03/2025 00:03

So is the means testing for the 30 hours funding? If they are basing their calculations on not getting one, they won't get the other either?

Yes, but if they are able to get adjusted net income under 100k they will get both.

DonnyBurrito · 03/03/2025 09:00

80smonster · 02/03/2025 17:48

In the UK we do our best to decentivise hard work at every twist and turn. I have to chuckle when ‘growth mindset’ is mentioned, we’re an anti growth model, with a benefits system that underpins it. We should offer everyone free childcare, especially parents who have well paid careers to nurture. Intelligent humans kicking around finger painting and baking, whilst very rewarding for some, isn’t particularly productive for the economy. Working parents have to be really determined to work in this country, we openly encourage part time hours topped up by universal credit, whilst those desperately trying to accelerate their higher paid careers are penalised to cover the less ambitious.

You act like the only worthwhile 'hard work' jobs where people need to be 'intelligent' are in finance or something 😂 Ha.

Try working with the most vulnerable people in society, see how long you last and how your perspective on what constitutes hard work changes.

DonnyBurrito · 03/03/2025 09:05

Kitte321 · 02/03/2025 18:49

https://www.gov.uk/check-eligible-free-childcare-if-youre-working

It’s really quite clear but perhaps have a read to educate yourself. I’d particularly refer you to the section related to adjusted net income.

It doesn't say "Oh here's this thing we've made up specifically for parents of nursery aged children" though, does it?

If a rich person (yes, 100k+ a year in the UK is rich, Google it) is using this loophole specifically to access free childcare, which they do not need, which costs the government BILLIONS, and then once their kids start school they conveniently don't use this loophole anymore... Then yes, they're taking advantage of the system like those committing benefit fraud. The difference is, low wage workers actually need it.

DonnyBurrito · 03/03/2025 09:15

WimbyAce · 02/03/2025 18:32

I mean tbf I'd rather the OP got free child care than those that don't even work. At least she is contributing to society.

Well you've got your wish, because only working parents are eligible for 30 hours free childcare. All children from age 2 are eligible for 15 hours only. And by the way, the unemployment rate is 4.4%, which includes disabled people. Are you happy to see the children of disabled people have no early education at all?

I'd love to pretend to be shocked to read something so out of touch.

Araminta1003 · 03/03/2025 09:19

The free childcare hours should be tax deductible for those over 100k. It should not be an all or nothing cliff edge. That makes it a disincentive to work extra etc.
As these people are largely completing self assessment anyway, they should be able to make suitable tax deductions. That would be a reasonable compromise.

Araminta1003 · 03/03/2025 09:22

What you do not seem to be able to understand @DonnyBurrito is that it is in society’s interest to encourage smart rich women to have children and ideally at least 2, and not the opposite. There has to be a way to make this work in fairer manner. The life provided for the children actually born is easier for those children if they are born into higher levels of familial education and wealth. This is not about feeling sorry for people but doing what is in the best interests of society, in the long run. Just go look up what other countries do to deal with the falling birth rate. It is definitely not discouraging successful people from having kids, full stop.

Kitte321 · 03/03/2025 09:42

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FrightHorizons · 03/03/2025 09:55

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 02/03/2025 22:55

It's really unfair you don't get tax free childcare when you pay so much tax

It does raise the question ‘what am I paying so much tax for’.

Thank you for your replies. I think it might make sense for me to:

  • go to four days a week and reduce overall childcare bill
  • Put £50-60,000 into my pension to keep me under the £100,000 limit
  • Claim the additional £16,000 childcare support

This will leave me fractionally worse off in the short term, but putting £100,000+ into pension, on less hours.

Situation 1 (earn and pay childcare cost) I end up with about £20,000 in extra net pay over the year.

Situation 2 (part time and pension to £100,000) I reduce my childcare costs by ~20% and get the free hours and tax-free childcare (worth about £25,000 a year collectively post-tax). This means I’m about £10,000 ‘worse off’ in net income.

But I end up with £100-120,000 in my pension. And I work part time.

Now to see if I can get my employer to agree - and hope they don’t write me off for coming back part-time when I previously wasn’t going to.

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2thumbs · 03/03/2025 09:56

So you just put £40k into your pension each year, and then you can have your cake and eat it. I get that it’s annoying but (a) it’s temporary, and (b) it can be/could have been planned for, so I don’t have to much sympathy (and I say that from the same boat).

FrightHorizons · 03/03/2025 09:58

This will (I think?) cost the government about £56,000.

£40,000 in lost tax. And the £16,000 in childcare on top.

The government would actually generate more revenue from me, by letting me use the tax free childcare scheme and free hours.

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JoyousEagle · 03/03/2025 09:59

@FrightHorizons in that situation where you'd actually be worse off month to month (although I appreciate you'd have more time with your child), I wouldn't go part time unless I was confident that moving back to full time whenever I wanted would be easy, especially as you say you weren't considering going part time before.

Job2Do · 03/03/2025 10:00

Anewuser · 02/03/2025 17:48

I don’t understand why you don’t get an au pair/nanny?

Surely, that’s the cheaper option?

Agree with this.

Waterlilysunset · 03/03/2025 10:01

FrightHorizons · 02/03/2025 14:26

@Mia85 @Araminta1003 I think the only way of getting around it with pension contributions would be reducing my hours.

I had not been planning on going part-time but that could be the best option (looking at the overall financial picture).

lots into pension or reduce hours are your only options I think!

I am sahm as husband earns in between £100-£119 which is the pointless zone where you actually lose more than you gain

Job2Do · 03/03/2025 10:01

Why don’t you get a nanny? It’ll work out cheaper than both being full time nursery.

FrightHorizons · 03/03/2025 10:02

@Job2Do A nanny is not any cheaper than a nursery in London, unless you can house them - and we do not have space unfortunately.

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2thumbs · 03/03/2025 10:05

So your FT salary is £200k? I mean, well done, that’s great and I expect you’ve worked hard for that, but in my view you don’t need childcare funding from the state - sorry.