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Fruit and veg for 9 year old

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bigfluffyclouds · 27/02/2025 14:01

He is tall, slim and active but can look pale and does get most colds going. He has issues with texture (bits) so no solid fruit or veg with skin on or salad. He will eat:

Broccoli
Carrots
Baby sweetcorn
Smoothies (no bits in)
Fruit yoyo
Raisins
Mango sorbet (won't eat mango)

Most meats are 'too chewy' or roasted meat is 'too dark'. Even in the slow cooker. He only likes sausages in the slow cooker, breaded chicken and fish (nuggets) or gammon and spag bol but does pick the mince out.

He drinks a lot of milk and loves cereal. His fav carb is pasta and he isn't a fan of potatoes (only boiled baby ones and chips). He always leaves most of his mash.

I try to give him a smoothie after school as he's hungry. He will eat grated cheese and carrot. Peanut butter sandwiches and a smoothie most days after school. He likes scrambled egg on toast and loves baked beans.

He has a multi-vitamin and a probiotic. Am I worrying too much?

OP posts:
caringcarer · 28/02/2025 00:37

Will he eat strawberries and raspberries, blueberries?

bridgetreilly · 28/02/2025 02:06

I’d focus more on vegetables than fruit, tbh. If he likes fruit, that’s okay, but it’s not an essential part of a healthy diet. Broccoli, carrots and baby corn are great. Give him some of those everyday, plus a smoothie and you’re doing well. For the rest, I wouldn’t worry. It’s not a wide range of food, but there’s a mix of protein, carbs, dairy, veg and so on. It could be a lot worse.

coxesorangepippin · 28/02/2025 02:09

One thing DD likes is homemade coleslaw

It's literally full of veg, sweetish mayonnaise sauce

coxesorangepippin · 28/02/2025 02:09

https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/240784/easy-coleslaw-dressing/

^
I use this recipe

JaninaDuszejko · 28/02/2025 08:31

He's just enjoyed a Lidl smoothie with avocado and spinach in it.

That reminds me, you can make a vegan/dairy free avocado chocolate mousse. I've not made it myself but it's all over the internet.

holly1483 · 28/02/2025 08:35

Chuck a handful of baby spinach into a sweet fruit smoothie

JaninaDuszejko · 28/02/2025 08:38

Texture wise avocados sound like they might suit him generally so you could also try making home made guacamole (although it's more textured than shop bought).

Oh, on the sausage front. DS (who is very fussy about meat) likes sausages but as well as eating normal sausage also likes black pudding, haggis and chorizo because we've introduced them all as kinds of sausage. Going on holiday abroad has forced his hand somewhat as well, he now drinks cloudy apple juice because that was the only option in Denmark and likes greek meatballs aftergoing to Greece (but not burgers or any other kind of shaped mince product 🤷🏼‍♀️).

everygreenleaf · 28/02/2025 11:14

He is doing pretty well overall. He won’t eat blueberries, raspberries and strawberries as they have skin and seeds but he will drink a smoothie with those flavours.

He choose some salmon and rice sushi at the supermarket recently which he loved x

HopIslandHopper · 28/02/2025 11:28

Avocado brownies

I have tried, you would not know that they contain avocado !

Ablondiebutagoody · 28/02/2025 12:54

AnxiouslyAwaitingSpring · 27/02/2025 22:58

How on earth is any of that processed besides cereal!?!? You're just being contrary for the sake of it!

OP, you're worrying over nothing his diet is far better than many children with sensory issues. My child has ARFID & ASD and believe me, I'd be over the moon with what you listed! Even her NHS dietician has all but given up trying to get her to try new foods and believe me we've been working with her (the dietician) for 8 years now.

Where do you think sausages, breaded chicken, fish nuggets, gammon, baked beans etc come from?

If I was being contrary, I would add peanut butter to the list too 😉

Mandylovescandy · 28/02/2025 13:19

ASD with ARFID here and that would be a long list for us and we'd be so happy. We have had nutritional bloods and all was fine so I would think that you don't actually need to worry but obviously always good to be working on increasing options and choice

mrsm43s · 28/02/2025 13:36

AnxiouslyAwaitingSpring · 27/02/2025 22:59

You need to educate yourself! Have you never heard of ARFID???? Millions of children have sensory issues surrounding food. 🙄

How rude! No, I don't need to educate myself. I'm well aware of ARFID, but most fussy eaters are simply fussy eaters, a tiny, tiny minority will have ARFID, and I think the OP would have mentioned that extemely relevant fact if her DS did have ARFID.

My point stands, at 9 he's at the age he should be able to understand the importance of good nutrition, and should be accepting a healthy range of foods because he understands they are good for him, even if they are not his favourites.

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