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Is your kitchen full of food all the time?

131 replies

Croissantsfordinner · 26/02/2025 20:49

I was at a friend’s house last weekend and she opened a few shelves and fridge in front of me and noticed every single inch was stocked with lots of food - I mean lots! It made me realise that the only times when my fridge is full is when we get our bi-monthly grocery delivery and then we eat what’s in it and it gets emptied quickly. I do a weekly refill of fresh products but generally I don’t keep loads of stuff around, just enough to feed us for the next 3-4 days. So in my fridge, even when well stocked, you will only find 1 pack of meat (we don’t eat much of it anyway), 1 type of fish, some eggs, some cheese, plenty of veg and fruit and 3-4 condiments. And milk. That’s it. Cupboards are generally stocked with a few packs of pasta/rice, some canned tomatoes, coconut milk and a pack of porridge and one of cereal + some peanut butter, tea and coffee and 1 or 2 packs of snacks for DC. I don’t tend to store lots of snacks and other type of food unless I am having guests over.
I wonder if I am a bit unusual and most people are more like my friend?

OP posts:
ehb102 · 26/02/2025 23:39

I dislike not being able to get something. Tesco has had various shortages over the years. If I have one or more spare it gives me a buffer of time for the thing I want to come back into stock.

Some things I can't get from Tesco so I keep more of them e.g. my preferred self raising flour. You never know when you might need an emergency cake.

I also like being able to host spontaneously.

Copperoliverbear · 26/02/2025 23:39

Yes cupboards and fridge full x

Disneydatknee88 · 26/02/2025 23:44

Yes. I meal plan and snack plan and always have extras. Our cupboards, fridge and freezer are always stocked. We always had bare cupboards growing up so I probably stock up more than we need. Our only options were bread from the freezer (plain) and UHT milk for tea. Our kids are bottomless pits for snacks (healthy weight before anyone asks). So I always like to have fruit, sandwich options etc when they are hungry.

BloodandGlitter · 26/02/2025 23:46

I really relate to the posters with over stuffed cupboards and freezers, I too hoard food to an extent that we could easily go 3 months without shopping if not more. I experienced food scarcity when I left home and moved in with DH we lived on £42 a week and often went hungry and I'm always scared it will happen again despite it having been a good 20 years since we or the kids went hungry.

AllGonePeteTonged · 26/02/2025 23:47

Bi-monthly delivery?

We have two a week!

VikingLady · 26/02/2025 23:54

I like a full fridge. I grew up on the edge of what's now called food poverty, so I stress massively about not having enough. Plus we've had lockdowns, illnesses when we couldn't shop, sick kids we couldn't leave to go shop, and I like a choice!

Is your kitchen full of food all the time?
VikingLady · 26/02/2025 23:59

minipie · 26/02/2025 21:29

Freezer and larder are always full - actually I need to use some of the older stuff up to clear space.

Fridge waxes and wanes with the weekly shop.

I don’t know how people could have an always-full fridge without throwing lots away? Unless they have vast amounts of condiments and drinks in there I suppose.

For us it's choices. Condiments, at least half a dozen jams (I get carried away making them), leftovers, batch cooking that's likely to be eaten soon, drinks, multiple types of cheese etc.

jackstini · 27/02/2025 00:01

DH always jokes that if we go to war we could feed the whole street for a month!

My Mum always had a well stocked freezer and tins cupboard and think it rubbed off on me

I'm grateful I'm able to feel secure by doing this though, I know not everyone can

takealettermsjones · 27/02/2025 00:01

I grew up poor and often starving so I will never, ever let my children experience there being no food in the house. I have full cupboards and a full fridge (usually a main weekly shop at the weekend and a top up of milk and fruit in the week).

VikingLady · 27/02/2025 00:15

But even with a very full fridge, freezer abs cupboards we barely waste anything and spend relatively little. We just like security and choice!

Out of the fridge photo I posted, the top shelf is DH's stuff and he handles that. The rest is all things we like. If something is near its end we use that first, or freeze it. I go through the freezer when I defrost it each year, but I use everything in there too.

I buy in bulk where it's cheaper, I buy largely from the clearance section, I batch cook most of the time since we all eat different stuff in our house (allergies, ARFID/ASD, shifts) so it's easier. There are currently two tubs of cooked sausages and one of burgers so DS can nuke them for his breakfast. Reduced smoothie will become ice lollies when I can be bothered. Various yogurts, half sauces, McDonald's sauce sachets for when just eat forget them, veg, butter etc - don't other people have those?

We've discussed having a second smaller fridge for making cream cheese and bresaola or bacon too.

mondaytosunday · 27/02/2025 01:04

Yes. I mean I have a weekly shop so it dwindles down somewhat but I have loads of cupboard items - on another thread last week I said I could probably last a week at least on non fresh food (it would get boring but we wouldn't starve)!
So should my son bring home a couple mates at any time I could (or rather he could as he's a great cook) cook a decent pasta dinner, soup, something rice based... bake a cake or make bread!

Floralnomad · 27/02/2025 01:07

We are always fairly well stocked up but I shop a few times a week .

coxesorangepippin · 27/02/2025 01:19

Yeah it is

2 freezers, pantry and fridge, rammed

Also have stuff in garage

coxesorangepippin · 27/02/2025 01:19

i think we could last a month at least (4 people)

Killam · 27/02/2025 01:24

I have some staples like rice, flour, beans, lentils but otherwise, no. I like to eat down my stores. I mean, I've always got something tasty in, I just don't fill my fridge to bursting, maybe at Christmas or for a really big feast. I'm more likely to nip out for a specific thing if absolutely needed, but we do have a supermarket, deli, bakery, and a grocers on our block so it's hardly a mission. Food is available.

I don't like to throw food away. I like to eat it! My parents had experienced hunger a lot as children and had anxiety around it. We always had too much food when I was a kid - too much stuff just generally - and I don't feel the need for it.

RhubarbAndFlustered · 27/02/2025 01:35

My mum didn't buy food in much. She would eat at work and smoke instead of eating much at home so when she wasn't hungry, she didn't make dinner or shop for food. I recall once as a teen we had stacks of eggs given by a local farmer and that was pretty much it. DSis and I ate a handful of boiled eggs each for dinner every night for 3 or 4 days straight.. No toast, just the eggs because there wasn't even bread in. Another go to meal was frozen peas or sweetcorn in a bowl in the microwave. Nothing with them but salt because the cupboards were bare. We weren't poor. Mum had money. Her multiple pets were fed quality food, on time, at least twice a day, every single day without fail.

Now I have an insane need to keep loads of food in. I have two packed full freezers, multiple cupboards full (one half of a cupboard is 8 or 9 different kinds of pasta alone!) and even a large box on the kitchen table and under the table has food tins stacked up. My children will never go without.

SoHighSchool · 27/02/2025 02:13

Absolutely not. I’ve been living off spaghetti and cheese all week until I get paid on Friday. Even still, I only have the food required for evening meals in my fridge each week. But I’m a lot poorer than the general MN demographic I think. 😂

skyeisthelimit · 27/02/2025 02:21

I grew up on a farm where we often got snowed in so I grew up with my mothers siege mentality and have enough food for a few weeks, so cupboards stocked with tins and cereal, fridge full , full freezer including bread and milk in winter and a small gas hob in case of power cuts.

I’m still rural , there is a village shop where I live now but we are 20 miles from the supermarkets so I still keep well stocked.

i always have 4 weeks deliveries booked too which paid off when Covid hit and I ended up getting food for neighbours who couldn’t get delivery slots.

Hoarderoffood · 27/02/2025 02:32

As my name suggests, I guess you could say that I hoard food as my cupboards are always full, and I have a lot of them. I see it more as being prepared/ being a prepper.

This was great in covid because it meant that apart from the odd bit of fresh salad or something, we didn't need to do any food shopping for about 5-6 months. This was with 2A and 2DC (teens).

Apart from meaning we didn't add pressure onto a stretched system, it also meant that I was able to make up food parcels with toilet paper, hand gel, uht milk, homemade bread, tinned stiff, etc, for 2 families that we knew were struggling, eg, after losing work (eg, 0hr contract and place being shut).

I've always bulk bought non perishables such as toilet paper, toothpaste, wipes, toiletries, cleaning and laundry products as well as dry goods such as pasta, rice, flour (25kg sacks), tins, jars, etc.

I've done this on various scales for as long as I can remember, and generally have enough in for about a year's worth, eg, of toilet paper.

Outside of, and before covid, I'd replace 1 pack as it was used up, so when covid hit, we didn't need to buy any toilet paper for about 10 months.
It would've been a year, but I gave some of our supplies to others that were in need.

I have 4x 2m tall freezers plus 2 fridges, although 1 is mainly used for medications and drinks, unless it's Easter/Christmas, etc, when it has the extra/defrosting meat, etc, as well.

I also have a fully stocked pantry, that my DC joke is like a shop, which is a room 2mx3m with 2m high shelving all around the edges. It's where I store tins, cleaning products, baking stuff, and flour, etc.
I have about 12 of each item, built up over time and then just replaced as and when each one is used. I cook from scratch and menu plan, and everything is listed and used according to dates, etc.
When new stuff is added/ old items replaced, they're moved to the back of the shelf as it should be in a shop.

The Dc have now flown the nest, so it's usually just the 2 of us, although I invite and cook for family regularly, at least every month.

We bake our own sourdough bread, crumpets, pizza bases, English muffins, rolls, etc.

I'd say, with just the 2 of us now, we'd be able to live off the food we have in for about 10-12 months, although it would eventually get boring/ repetitive.
Pre/during covid, it would've probably been longer, but I've spent the last year or so scaling down our stores now there's generally only the 2 of us. I've always only bought things we like to eat, and now the dc aren't at home, I've naturally stopped buying the things I used to get for them, which in itself has reduced my stores.

I have things like dried egg yolks, whites, etc, plenty of spices, etc and we mostly buy our meat from the local butcher, where we'll buy half a pig or a whole lamb, etc, at a time, hence the 4 freezers.

At the moment, I'd say we have the equivalent of 1 lamb, ½ a pig, 15kgs chicken breasts, several ducks, 1 turkey, 2 kgs bacon, 2kgs sausages, about ¼-⅓ of a cow and several kilos of various fish, as well as lots of home prepped veggies and some fruit and batch cooked meals. Most of the meat has been frozen in portions of 2 or 4.

We have almost no food waste. Max 1 small tub per week and that's things like banana peels, used teabags, etc. I also keep a tub in 1 freezer for veggie peelings. Once full, I'll make soup from it.

We had very little money when the dc were young so I learnt to buy in bulk when things were on offer, and to adapt what we bought to what we could afford.
I guess it became a habit.

My health also isn't great, so it means it's useful if I'm having a bad time as I don't need to go out to the shops very often. Eg, this year I've only been shopping for perishable goods like salad and fruit, so I've only spent about £200 on groceries so far this year.

Hoarderoffood · 27/02/2025 02:39

Oh, wow, sorry, that was a long post!!

TwinklyNight · 27/02/2025 02:48

Yes like pp we are always stocked up in case of (frequent) illness.

BitOutOfPractice · 27/02/2025 07:18

GretchenWienersHair · 26/02/2025 22:32

I’m a careful planner fridge-wise. I know what meals we’re having each day of week and shop accordingly in the weekly supermarket visit. I always pick up cupboard stuff (pasta, rice, tinned stuff, cereals, etc.) whether it’s running low or not so there’s always enough. Plus containers of leftovers in the fridge which never seem to bloody get eaten.

Did you see my stats on food waste - 25% is unwanted leftovers. You need to build leftovers into your careful planning.

FrenchFancie · 27/02/2025 07:23

I have what is known as the ‘siege cupboard’ - if we couldn’t get shopping in we could probably last a couple of weeks. Milk and fresh fruit / veg would be the main issues.

I’ve got worse since covid - we lived outside of the uk and, for a while during covid, if you tested positive your whole household had to isolate for 5 or 7 days. It was possible (and happened to us at one point) where you couldn’t go out for 14 days as a household, and there was no internet or online food shopping. I had to ask friends to drop things on the front door.

i got into the habit of having loads of food available and haven’t really stepped back from that.

caringcarer · 27/02/2025 07:30

2 full freezers of food due to growing fruit and vegetables in the garden in the summer. Full cupboards and full fridge. 2 teen boys always hungry here.

Natsku · 27/02/2025 07:40

My kitchen is always well stocked except for fruit running out by the end of the week. And bottled water and tins in the basement. We are told to keep 72 hours supply of food and water at all times in my country, so I try to do that.

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