I have a 3yo and 1yo (next week turns 1) and 2nd time round I struggled I was depressed and my youngest has been quite clingy and me and DH have been apart.
We’ve had no alone time and I can see in this year we’ve bickered more resented eachother more etc. we’re apart in a sense but living together. Both willing to work on it now
But with this and me breastfeeding last year, I lost my sex drive until December time I’d say? I stopped Bf in August but it was now My period returned and it felt my hormones did !
However, I still felt a bit of a shell of a person. Wasn’t looking after myself. My kids got everything new and I was looking like an awful version of me tbh! No new stuff no self care.
I am working on this.
I don’t know why but I’ve always , growing up too, had a bit of shame towards being sexual? So much so I didn’t do anything with boys growing up I thought it was wrong if I did. DH is the only man I’ve ever been with and I met him at 21. So I’m a bit of a prude maybe. Having sex is a different story I feel bit more confident then.
but we haven’t had sexfor a little bit. Bit of a dry spell. My confidence is gone and I just want to feel sexy and young. I’m only 25! (I do turn 26 really soon too) but yeah I just want to feel sexy and pretty and a bit more young!
I feel old haggard and just wonder am I done for sex wise