My son’s dad has recently got a job as a lorry driver. It’s known he smokes cannabis daily and does harder stuff basically every weekend. I don’t know if lorry drivers get drug tests, but in family court he dyed his hair to try and warp the test and still failed (but it was a lower amount than what it was prior to him dying it). I just don’t think it’s safe for him to have a career operating machinery where other people’s lives can be at risk with him being highly intoxicated. And before people say ‘what proof’, he’s been smoking daily since he was 13 years old. I know his upstairs neighbour who says that he gets a whift on his balcony every evening of my ex smoking weed as it rises up onto my friends balcony. My child’s clothes come back stinking of it every weekend and he ‘accidentally’ left a baggie with it in in my sons bag one weekend.
He doesn’t work weekends so I think he refrains from doing the harder stuff whilst at work but he literally cannot go a few hours without the ‘green’ so I wouldn’t put it past him to be doing it whilst working. I’ve always turned a blind eye to things that are not my business but I cannot just sit here knowing people can be in danger surrounding him. I just have a bad feeling as he’s someone who’s always been enabled and got away with things and I feel like this would be the reason he doesn’t, because it won’t end well - I have an awful sweaty sinking feeling about it all.