I can’t pretend I know the entire ins and outs of the issue, but I can speak from experience of my ex-mil who is a WASPI woman.
She 100% knew about the changes, I remember speaking to her about it years ago.
Her main gripe (and in my opinion this is true for many of the women), is that she feels angry that she didn’t get the earlier pension/retirement.
She too will speak on all the inequalities of days gone by, how much harder women had it and that they deserved to retire at 60 for various reasons.
I just wanted to say that I don’t think women have it a whole lot easier these days, it’s not my experience and that of my friends anyway.
My ex-mil didn’t work for years once she had children. This was 100% a choice, she’s told me herself there was a nursery in the village. Nothing wrong with not working, was more common then I suppose as families could survive on one income. She simply won’t accept that this was a privilege though. When she did go back to work very part time when all the children had left home and were grown up, it was just her “fun” money.
Her husband had a professional job which would now require a degree, however back then didn’t. They were able to afford a lovely home and decent standard of living on one income. The house value skyrocketed.
I feel like men took more responsibility for the family in those days and didn’t just take off as easily as they do now (but I could be wrong!).
Me on the other hand- her son took off and left me as a single parent, pays the legal minimum through CMS which is a terrible service as anyone has used it knows. He’s self employed so can play the system, less than £40 a month he pays towards his kids.
I have no choice but to work. I would have loved to stay at home while my children were young, I was devastated leaving my 6 month old in nursery for 50+ hours a week.
I had to go to university to get a degree, to get a job earning less than 30k a year. As others have mentioned it’s near on impossible to get any kind of “decent” job without it now. Oh and the student finance I have to pay back, what a privilege!
I did all this while juggling the kids on my own, ex has them two nights a month. I’d love to have a better job but not everyone has the intelligence to get a high paying job. I struggle mentally to do what I do already and juggle the family.
It's been hard to stay in the workplace as a woman with children. I find talk of equality in the workplace is just that- talk. Getting flexible working is difficult and you are penalised for it career wise without a doubt. Taking time off for ill children gets you further penalised and treated badly. It's not fun.
I am lucky compared to many of my counterparts in that I managed to buy a property, but it’s not in a nice area. The house is falling apart but I cannot afford repairs. It makes me sad that I am not bringing my kids up in a safe area.
Yes I get “help” towards my childcare. I would have much rather been able to spend time with them though for a few years at least and had a supportive family unit, and when I went to work just had my money for “fun”.
Don’t get me wrong I do feel sorry for WASPI women, just like I feel sorry for anyone that gets a bit “screwed” over by government changes… like those who were better off on tax credits being moved to universal credit and being worse off etc etc. but changes happen!
And I think there will be a few genuine women who were not aware, or didn’t understand. As others have said it was well publicised. I can think of circumstances such as women with very limited literacy, or living in a DV/controlling relationships that may not have had the opportunity to be ready for the change.
My ex-mil will tell people now that she wasn’t told, never had any letters etc. but I know this is a lie because she discussed it with me years ago and just says that now as it fits with the narrative.
And I know not all women will have been like my ex-mil and had that life and some did work and things like that but between herself and her friends I gathered the set up was very common in those days.
People of my age have no idea really what age we will be able to retire or take a state pension as the goalposts will more than likely change again and again, if we get one at all.