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AIBU to think that WASPI women should not be entitled to compensation?

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mugglewump · 24/02/2025 10:11

They've been on the news again marching for compensation in a climate where the government is having to make very difficult decisions about funding to stop our debt ever increasing.

I think there are far more deserving cases for goverment money than women who didn't act on information at the time and sort their pensions out or keep working (p/t or f/t) until retirement age.

Moreover, the people paying this compensation are those who will be working until they are 67 to 70 to claim a state pension. Surely, it's a bit ick to expect them to bail out women who retired at 60?

OP posts:
Diningtableornot · 24/02/2025 14:38

It's very unfair to say that WASPI women didn't read the letters when the government admits they didn't send letters to a large number of the women concerned (including me). I did happen to hear about the change a few years later, but it wasn't 'all over the news' when it was put in place.

Completelyjo · 24/02/2025 14:39

Moier · 24/02/2025 14:37

I'm a Waspie.
We were not informed. We didn't have the Internet.
It wasn't on the news or TV this was about to happen.
Most didn't have work place pensions .
Loads of us were SAHM.

Who told you retirement age was 60 then? Seems odd you didn’t know anything about current affairs but would assume it was 60 even though your DH would be retiring at 65.

Badbadbunny · 24/02/2025 14:40

Moier · 24/02/2025 14:37

I'm a Waspie.
We were not informed. We didn't have the Internet.
It wasn't on the news or TV this was about to happen.
Most didn't have work place pensions .
Loads of us were SAHM.

Total crap. It was ALL OVER the news and TV and newspapers/magazines. Not only when it was announced, but repeatedly over the months and years afterwards. Unless you were living in a cave, it's hard to know how anyone wasn't aware of the changes.

BejewelledCat · 24/02/2025 14:41

Badbadbunny · 24/02/2025 11:25

Same here. I've just turned 60. If they'd not changed the rules, I'd have retired with a pension now. As it is I've got 7 more years to work. 7 years of paying taxes and NIC. 7 years of not receiving £12k per year state pension. The "cost to me" is going to be around £100k. Yes, it's annoying. BUT I knew all about it. I knew the first round of changes. I knew the second round of changes. None of it was secret. The information/news was everywhere.

This.

I am also 60, still working f/t and can't claim my SP for another 7 years. When I left school at 16 and started work, I understood I'd be retiring at 60 but due to health issues, I am not sure I have another 7 years of work left in me.

Rhayader · 24/02/2025 14:43

I've never received a letter about a change in gov policy.

When they changed child benefit so that you had to pay the "high-income charge" I did not receive a letter. When they increased student loans meaning that I would end up paying more than anticipated I did not receive a letter. When they scrapped childcare vouchers for people who changed employer, I did not receive a letter.

It is not fair to expect people with expected retirement ages of 68-70 (or possibly higher, or even not to qualify at all for a state pension) to pay compensation for people who had to retire at 61-66 because they "did not receive a letter", it was all over the news.

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 24/02/2025 14:43

twistyizzy · 24/02/2025 13:57

All these MC, educated women saying they were fully aware of the changes etc. Many women weren't in that position eg my MIl who is a WASPI.
Mining town in NE England. Left school at 13 to work in a mill, got married at 19 and left all financials up to her husband. Worked 2 hours per day as she was at home raising her kids + carer for her parents. She would never have even opened a letter, let alone understand the content. She doesn't watch news or read any paper other than the local rag. 1000s of women were in a similar position.

Very easy to judge from a position of education and awareness.

Edited

But what different choices do you think she realistically would have made if she had known?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 24/02/2025 14:43

Antiopa12 · 24/02/2025 14:36

I have no idea whether I received the notification letter or if I did whether I read it or understood it . I was caring for my severely disabled son 24/7 and was chronically and almost catastrophically sleep deprived, I eventually got some respite care when my brain was so tired that I could not remember if I had given my son his medicine. Even if I had received the notification what could I do as a full time carer? What preparations could I make other than put my son into a full time nursing placement?? There is no additional pension for full time Carers . Even today if you have to give up work early on in your working career you will have to survive on the state pension as your reward. It is usually women who sacrifice their jobs ( and associated pensions) for their loved ones . These women like their predecessors will be especially financially vulnerable in old age because when a child has complex medical needs or severe behavioural issues the husband / partner very often scarpers off . Something more should be done for these women . I was fortunate because I did work a few years before my son was born but I am aware that are younger women at the start of their careers who have to take on a full time caring role who will not have much opportunity to contribute to a private pension.

I would absolutely support action to help those women who have been forced out of work due to caring responsibilities, including the many who have no option but to carry on caring well past the normal retirement age. I think this would be a much better and fairer use of taxpayers' money than providing compensation to waspi women who don't really need it.

Applesonthelawn · 24/02/2025 14:43

Yes I agree they are not entitled to compensation on the basis that they had plenty of time to plan. I'm 65 and still working full time so I don't really see it as such a hardship anyway. Everyone has to work. I feel the same about young people who just don't feel like working - you have to expect to work, to contribute to the economy.
I don't agree on the basis that it's people who will work until 67 who have to pay for it though. I'm paying for them too until I'm 66 when NIC stops, and have paid in way beyond the 35 year cap. That really is just the way it goes. The WASPI women and the people who say they would be paying for it should stop feeling sorry for themselves and get on with it. There are bigger fish to fry.

Sahara123 · 24/02/2025 14:45

Soontobe60 · 24/02/2025 13:16

It affects me. I didn’t get any information about it.

I didn’t get a physical letter I don’t think, but it was all over the media, leaflets at the GP, hot topic at work etc etc. So I checked online myself 🤷‍♀️

Mumsgirls · 24/02/2025 14:48

Agree that many of my age chose to ignore newspapers and programs or adverts about this, it was very well discussed ,in all media for years. Only your fault if you choose to ignore stuff, then retire without checking your pension rights. Have not seen any evidence of waspi women having to live in cars. Many also chose to depend on a man, who then let them down. If I get a payment, I will pass it on to next generation, who are definitely more in need of it.
Think nhs or army are more in need of scarce funds.

thepariscrimefiles · 24/02/2025 14:48

Perseimmion · 24/02/2025 12:26

Along with many other women of my age, I didn’t have an opportunity to pay into a workplace pension. This was employment in a bank, where my DH also worked. He could pay into a pension and he also qualified for a cheap mortgage, I did not.

When I got pregnant, along with most women of my era, I gave up work. Back then we didn’t have nurseries, so most women became SAHP. I supported my DH, whilst he progressed his career. I gave up my career.

You young women need to be grateful for far more equality than us older women have lived with. The attitude of young women towards us older women is utterly disgusting.

I'm a WASPI woman born in 1958 and I got my pension at 66. Most women of my age didn't give up work when they got pregnant. There were nurseries and childminders so giving up work to be a SAHP was a choice. The Labour Government that was elected in 1997 brought in Child Tax Credits which helped working parents. Young women today will probably need to wait until they are at least 70 for their pensions, most of them will have student loans to pay back and getting on the housing ladder is almost impossible unless they have help from their parents. In lots of ways, they have it much worse than we did.

Sahara123 · 24/02/2025 14:48

PhilomenaPunk · 24/02/2025 14:13

'If you move abroad like I did in my 40’s then you often don’t hear about pension changes and the Dept. concerned are not easy to communicate with.

I’m several years short of a full pension because I moved abroad and trying to find out how to pay to top up my contributions is extremely infuriating as I can’t seem to get any definitive answers from anyone. They make it as hard as possible to find out information.'

@fuckityfux really? Because you can just log onto the government gateway online with your NI and passport numbers and it will tell you exactly how many years of contributions you have, how many years you can top up, and how much you would need to top up for each of those years. It's ridiculously simple.

And call me crazy but I would never assume that I would just be notified by something so important as my future financial security and pension by "the government" and would take active steps to keep updated on policy changes.

Hallelujah! This is exactly what I was going to say, go into the Government Gateway website!!

Sahara123 · 24/02/2025 14:49

PhilomenaPunk · 24/02/2025 14:13

'If you move abroad like I did in my 40’s then you often don’t hear about pension changes and the Dept. concerned are not easy to communicate with.

I’m several years short of a full pension because I moved abroad and trying to find out how to pay to top up my contributions is extremely infuriating as I can’t seem to get any definitive answers from anyone. They make it as hard as possible to find out information.'

@fuckityfux really? Because you can just log onto the government gateway online with your NI and passport numbers and it will tell you exactly how many years of contributions you have, how many years you can top up, and how much you would need to top up for each of those years. It's ridiculously simple.

And call me crazy but I would never assume that I would just be notified by something so important as my future financial security and pension by "the government" and would take active steps to keep updated on policy changes.

Hallelujah! This is exactly what I was going to say, go into the Government Gateway website!!

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 24/02/2025 14:49

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 24/02/2025 14:43

But what different choices do you think she realistically would have made if she had known?

Exactly. Compensation for the waspi women isn't the issue here. If the lady in question is vulnerable due to learning difficulties, childhood trauma, domestic abuse or other factors which have left her living in poverty in her later life, then the state should absolutely step in to provide the support that she needs. The changes to the state pension sound like the least of her problems.

MichaelandKirk · 24/02/2025 14:51

I dont think they should be 'compensated'. I knew about these changes but they didnt affect me. How people can claim they have to live in cars because of this.

I am well into my 60's and still working. The pension age has changed during my working lifetime a few times. You quite honestly need to take personal responsibility rather than in many cases pretending you didnt get the letter or got it and didnt understand it so it ended up in a drawer. Claiming that women worked full time from 15/16. Really? So no time off for children, no working part time - just solid working? Sorry but that generation didnt always have careers or work full time.

sillybillydh · 24/02/2025 14:51

@twistyizzy what do you think should have happened in your MIL's case? From what you're saying, she isn't able to access any way of getting updates or new information on anything, apart from through her DH. So what could have been done for her? Other than keep things exactly as they were forever.

I agree with the government that the £10b absolutely cannot be justified. Most women these days can only dream of retiring at 65, in reality they may not get a state pension at all. That's because there is no money. So there is certainly no money to pay compensation for those who did get to retire at 65 but are angry the goalposts moved.

JoyousEagle · 24/02/2025 14:51

Completelyjo · 24/02/2025 14:26

How can you claim to have no information re the pension age changing which was announced 15-25 years before coming into effect but somehow also have assumed you would retire at 60?
There isn’t a lot of logic in this.

Yes, no one is written to when they start their first job and told "this is when you'll retire". No one thinks that's the gov's job.

YourHappyJadeEagle · 24/02/2025 14:51

Ladysodor · 24/02/2025 11:01

Sorry but they did get the info at the time. It doesn’t even affect me and I knew about it.

Edited

I didn’t. Didn’t live in UK but got letters regularly as I paid UK tax and continued to pay my NI contributions. Obviously I read all my mail or the UK Govt wouldn’t have received my tax payments so saying women didn’t read letters is insulting.

I only found out because another ex Pat mentioned it in a conversation.

PhilomenaPunk · 24/02/2025 14:52

@Sahara123 I genuinely worry about how much spoon feeding some people expect from their government.

DelaneysOnTheWineAgain · 24/02/2025 14:52

Chaseandstatus · 24/02/2025 10:12

They didn’t get the information at the time, the goalposts were changed and they had no way to avoid it. They absolutely should get compensation.

First post
Spot on !

👏👏👏

Completelyjo · 24/02/2025 14:52

@Perseimmion When I got pregnant, along with most women of my era, I gave up work. Back then we didn’t have nurseries, so most women became SAHP. I supported my DH, whilst he progressed his career. I gave up my career.

The percentage of women in work in the early 70s was 53% which only rose to 67% in 2013. Hardly the stats of a generation forced out of work.
Seems like many posters here have a very tinted memory!

Meadowfinch · 24/02/2025 14:53

Diningtableornot · 24/02/2025 14:38

It's very unfair to say that WASPI women didn't read the letters when the government admits they didn't send letters to a large number of the women concerned (including me). I did happen to hear about the change a few years later, but it wasn't 'all over the news' when it was put in place.

It really was everywhere. On billboards, in national newspapers, on tv and radio, it was in my mum's Women's Weekly. I was working in a small company and even their payroll clerk sent us all a brochure. We got brochures from the council too.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 24/02/2025 14:53

YourHappyJadeEagle · 24/02/2025 14:51

I didn’t. Didn’t live in UK but got letters regularly as I paid UK tax and continued to pay my NI contributions. Obviously I read all my mail or the UK Govt wouldn’t have received my tax payments so saying women didn’t read letters is insulting.

I only found out because another ex Pat mentioned it in a conversation.

But if you choose to live abroad for a while (as I did too for many years) surely the onus is on you to stay up to date with any changes?

Completelyjo · 24/02/2025 14:53

YourHappyJadeEagle · 24/02/2025 14:51

I didn’t. Didn’t live in UK but got letters regularly as I paid UK tax and continued to pay my NI contributions. Obviously I read all my mail or the UK Govt wouldn’t have received my tax payments so saying women didn’t read letters is insulting.

I only found out because another ex Pat mentioned it in a conversation.

Well presumably you only heard the retirement age was 60 because it was mentioned in conversation too and that didn’t seem to have bothered you?

JoyousEagle · 24/02/2025 14:54

Rhayader · 24/02/2025 14:43

I've never received a letter about a change in gov policy.

When they changed child benefit so that you had to pay the "high-income charge" I did not receive a letter. When they increased student loans meaning that I would end up paying more than anticipated I did not receive a letter. When they scrapped childcare vouchers for people who changed employer, I did not receive a letter.

It is not fair to expect people with expected retirement ages of 68-70 (or possibly higher, or even not to qualify at all for a state pension) to pay compensation for people who had to retire at 61-66 because they "did not receive a letter", it was all over the news.

I agree. Loads of things affect people without them being personally told.

And I've never been officially informed of my pension age, so wouldn't expect them to write to me if it changed.