Need advice
been talking to this guy for 9 weeks and we have met twice and spent a night together he’s a bit older than me I’ll be 29 In 2 weeks and he’s 41 my attraction for him is a bit 50/50 sometimes I feel attracted to him and sometimes I just flat out don’t he has aged a we bit the past few years as iv seen pics of him from 5 years ago and he looked more attractive back then I know it’s not all about looks and personality is more important I agree but there still have to be a level of attraction
we just spent Friday and Saturday together we went out for a meal and some cocktails and had a great night he is a lovely guy and we have clicked really well and had such a laugh together so I do really like him as a person but there was one thing that really put me off this weekend and I noticed he didn’t brush his teeth once on the Friday or Saturday and his breath smelled which I think is disgusting brushing your teeth should be a mandatory thing to do everyday I felt to awkward to say anything to him and he was trying to kiss me tongue and everything it was giving me the boke
Iv had a think about it and even though I like him and think he’s a lovely guy I don’t myself being in a relationship with him but I don’t know how to go about it as he seems really really into me and wants to pursue a relationship he’s even been posting pics of me and him on social media and I feel so guilty it’s not just that fact he didn’t brush his teeth it’s also that I don’t feel fully attracted to him and we also live far away from each other and I don’t think the long distance would work I know I need to put a stop to it now cause I don’t want to lead him on or hurt him
it’s just such a strange one cause I like his character and he makes me laugh and we bounce off each other but like I said I don’t feel I want to pursue anything with him