Split with my children's father last year. We've even spoke about getting back together if he sorted himself out. Until about a month ago. He's not had his kids coming up on 4 weeks. We have 3 children.Up until recently he's the 2 younger ones most Saturdays though rarely kept them till lunch time Sunday. Older ones 16 and he's hardly bothered with him.
All of a sudden after I went out with friends I've known all my life. He's somehow made up a story that I was out sleeping with someone which is absolutely not true. He's gone off like this before but hasn't used the children until now.
He's now decided he won't be doing anything like take them to school and will only see them every other Saturday that's it. Didn't even ask if his son was ok when he was unwell..
How can guys do this just not seeing them. As much as I moan I need peace 24 hours and I'm demented without them. How can he do this to his kids just up and change their routine and not even bother with them.
Story is far too common dad's need to be helped accountable for this. Absolutely disgusted with him. How do I even explain this to my children.