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Ex’s GF stopping him seeing our Son!

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hugsandpugs · 20/02/2025 21:15

Long story short one of her sons (around age 16) has moved out of the home she shares with my ex and has gone to live with his dad.

She has messaged/called me saying he’s moved out because of my ex - apparently they don’t get on.

Whether that is the reason he moved out who knows.

She is obviously not happy he has moved out and is now trying to hurt my ex by stopping him from seeing our Son as a way of getting back at him!

She has literally texted me tonight and said ex will no longer be seeing our son until she gets her own place so he can hurt like she’s hurting!

I’m absolutely fuming that she’s trying to use my son as a way of getting back at my ex!!

AIBU for thinking she’s off her head and not wanting my son to be anywhere near her as she seems unstable?!

Obviously I don’t want my son to not be able to see his Dad but I have had no communication from him and can’t believe he’s just letting her call the shots!

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thinktwice36 · 20/02/2025 22:18

Why do you even communicate with her, you have no reason to? Just block the number and speak to your shithouse of an ex who could easily see his son if he chose to.

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hugsandpugs · 20/02/2025 22:21

It is crazy, I’d never put a man over any of my children either and as a mother can’t understand why anyone else would tbh! Children always come first no matter what.

He only lives a 20 min drive from us so he’s got no excuse really! Even if he just takes him out for a few hours on a weekend….

We will see how it goes though, if he doesn’t then like I said it’s his loss and my son will still have me.

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hugsandpugs · 20/02/2025 22:23

thinktwice36 · 20/02/2025 22:18

Why do you even communicate with her, you have no reason to? Just block the number and speak to your shithouse of an ex who could easily see his son if he chose to.

Yes I think I’m gonna have to do this now. I’ve always tried to be amicable with her for the sake of my Son but if she’s planning to leave him and not be in my sons life then she has no reason to be in touch with me anyway

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FindusMakesPancakes · 20/02/2025 22:32

Tell her that if you receive any further communication from her that you will report her for harassment. You don't say how old he is, but can your ex communicate with your son direct?

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hugsandpugs · 20/02/2025 22:51

FindusMakesPancakes · 20/02/2025 22:32

Tell her that if you receive any further communication from her that you will report her for harassment. You don't say how old he is, but can your ex communicate with your son direct?

Good idea. My son is 13

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MummaMummaMumma · 20/02/2025 22:56

The gf can't stop you ex from seeing his son.
She can tell him not to. It's up to the ex whether he sees your son or not.
What an absolute shit dad. Poor child.

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