I mostly care about my nearest who live here, my fathers family live in another country so besides from having 1 cousin there on my facebook we don’t speak. But i know some people have expectations when you go on a trip where familiy lives there to visit or plan something togheter with them. I know a cousin got a bit like «um excuse me😭» when i posted something on my facebook story and i didn’t tell him i was there. My tought was «last time i so you was 9 years ago, and you arent terrible important in my life, and i don’t really care about you».
We ended up meeting him once, my bf liked him but it does take a whole day of your vacation where i could be spending my time elsewhere. Don’t get me wrong he is a nice person but yea. This time it seems like my dad will be traveling to same destination at the same time as me and my bf. But this year i have no plans in visiting or hanging with my cousin. But im pretty sure my dad will be calling me to meet up. With my uncle and his wife and cousins that really don’t care about me and same feeling back. So therefor i don’t want to waste a whole day of my vacation just because their my «family». So what is a nice way to say that i don’t have time or sthm?