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to think supermarket shelf stackers shouldn't get annoyed because I want to get items that have a later best before date?

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supersup · 17/02/2025 10:12

When I am food shopping, I always choose the items at the back with the later best before dates. The items at the front are sometimes out of date in the next day or two. When I am planning ahead, I want to get food with a later date as possible.

I know the dates don't have to be strictly followed but I prefer the later dates.

Shelf stackers are getting increasingly annoyed when I pull out items from the back and I was told I should just get one from the front. I put everything back properly so it is not as if I am messing up the shelf.

AIBU?

OP posts:
DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 17/02/2025 11:50

Christ0nABike · 17/02/2025 11:37

You’ve given me a flashback re the vegetable codes, I overheard a conversation about it recently but couldn’t work it out. What are they doing now instead of BBE date, a letter and a number?

They tend to keep the number for the date, but use a letter instead of a month.

It may be the initial letter of the month (or another letter in the month's name where more than one month has the same initial) or A for Jan, B for Feb, C for March etc.

Thus D14 will mean displayed on or best before 14th April.

They claim it's to help customers not throw away still-fine food after they've bought it, by making the date slightly less obvious; but it's really to stop customers from selecting the newer stock before they buy it.

tallcurvey · 17/02/2025 11:52

@supersup

tell them to
mind their own business

ProfessionalPirate · 17/02/2025 11:52

JudgeBread · 17/02/2025 10:16

Depends. Are you capable of doing it without leaving the shelf looking like a bomb hit it, or are you one of those people who absolutely demolishes everything on the shelf in search of that one thing that's got an extra day on it?

Read the OP

LillyPJ · 17/02/2025 11:53

Christ0nABike · 17/02/2025 11:37

You’ve given me a flashback re the vegetable codes, I overheard a conversation about it recently but couldn’t work it out. What are they doing now instead of BBE date, a letter and a number?

When you buy vegetables from a market or farm shop, you just judge freshness by its appearance or feel - no need for dates or codes. And even an old, slightly wilted carrot is edible.

GretchenWienersHair · 17/02/2025 11:53

No YANBU. Something about calling them “supermarket shelf stackers” in the title seems a little off to me though. I can’t quite put my finger on why, but it feels like a scathing, judgmental label. Kind of with a “you stack shelves for a living, don’t question me” tone. I could be reading it wrong, but “supermarket staff” or something similar doesn’t convey the same feeling.

supersup · 17/02/2025 11:54

LillyPJ · 17/02/2025 11:50

What shelf stackers are these? I don't think a shelf stacker has ever commented on what I'm taking and if someone's rolling their eyes at me, I've never noticed.

Do you need their photos, names and addresses?

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Auburngal · 17/02/2025 11:55

Don’t start me on poorly printed dates! As a former code checker, that really pissed me off along with my fellow code checkers. Black ink on royal blue? Muller Corner yoghurt multi packs. Yet the single yoghurts are printed with white ink and easier to read.WTF is that about?

There are manufacturers whose 6 and 8s look similar.

thebrollachan · 17/02/2025 11:55

You are benefitting other customers, by increasing the number of items that will end up in the 'last chance to buy' section at a reduced price.

It's us against them, and if supermarkets don't like it they can improve their stock rotation.

ProfessionalPirate · 17/02/2025 11:56

Which supermarket was this OP?

I’d be seriously unimpressed at being ‘told off’ by the stackers for this. I do essentially the same in the greengrocers - no BB dates but I will examine the fruit/veg on display and choose whatever looks the freshest / best. Same in the butchers. Surely everyone does this?

Auburngal · 17/02/2025 11:56

Most supermarket chains have this coding the letter is the month. So February it’s B, March is C then number is the date

MrsSunshine2b · 17/02/2025 11:58

Where are you shopping that the shelf stackers are stood watching you?

If I can see that shelves are in the process of being stacked, of course I do not start rummaging around at the back of the shelf, because that's rude and annoying. I go and do the rest of my shopping and then come back.

MermaidMummy06 · 17/02/2025 11:59

I shop in store specifically to get the freshest items with longest dates. If I shop online I end up my weeks worth of milk expiring in two days & bruised, old fruit. I've pulled items out of date, like yoghurt & meat, off the shelf to give to staff, so they obviously don't care enough to check.

I leave it tidy, though.

OriginalUsername2 · 17/02/2025 11:59

It’s an absolutely normal shopping habit. Tell them you’ll take the one you want, thanks very much. As long as you leave it how you found it.

BunnyLake · 17/02/2025 12:06

Some items can be put in the freezer if they have a shorter expiry date. Like most people though I do try and get longer life items. I think they need to discount more stuff that only has a day or so left. Online shopping is so annoying because I can end up with half a dozen meat products all with a Use by Date the next day.

ElBandito · 17/02/2025 12:06

If I go shopping I want the slices of chicken that will be in date for the week for sandwiches. I don't want to go shopping twice. If it won't last then I won't buy it.

if they've got loads going out of date tomorrow then that's on them. They should know roughly how much they're going to sell and stock up accordingly.

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 17/02/2025 12:07

Maybe the supermarkets should start using reverse psychology and putting the newer stuff at the front!

Then, the keener shoppers will take the trouble to reach right to the back and take the short-dated food with a mistaken sense of self-satisfaction at having 'won' Grin

LimeGoose · 17/02/2025 12:10

supersup · 17/02/2025 10:12

When I am food shopping, I always choose the items at the back with the later best before dates. The items at the front are sometimes out of date in the next day or two. When I am planning ahead, I want to get food with a later date as possible.

I know the dates don't have to be strictly followed but I prefer the later dates.

Shelf stackers are getting increasingly annoyed when I pull out items from the back and I was told I should just get one from the front. I put everything back properly so it is not as if I am messing up the shelf.

AIBU?

Have you posted this before supersup? I remember reading an identical thread a while ago. It seems an unusual issue to have and not one I’ve ever experienced or seen. Is this in smaller supermarkets like Spars or mini marts?

Keepingittogetherstepbystep · 17/02/2025 12:12

I'm impressed you can get near the shelves to actually look at the dates.

Ariela · 17/02/2025 12:13

If they're doing the exact product I want I say 'May I take one of these? Gives you less to put out.'

YouDeserveBetterSoAskForIt · 17/02/2025 12:15

Arrggghhhhhh · 17/02/2025 11:21

No it’s there responsibility to stack the shelves. If it were on them to make sure the old dated stuff was sold, they would be on a much higher wage. It’s whoever is in the big office out back that does the ordering of stock that has that responsibility.

I literally did the job.
We had to check the dates and got in trouble if any were left past their dates on the shelves.

I am unsure why you are telling me the job I did isn't what happened lol.

supersup · 17/02/2025 12:23

LimeGoose · 17/02/2025 12:10

Have you posted this before supersup? I remember reading an identical thread a while ago. It seems an unusual issue to have and not one I’ve ever experienced or seen. Is this in smaller supermarkets like Spars or mini marts?

Never posted about this before.

It was Tesco Express.

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Snorlaxo · 17/02/2025 12:24

I’ve been a shelf stacker and think you’ve done nothing wrong. If I’m working on a fresh section and a customer asks me to pass them something then I pick from the back or give them an item fresh out the box. I’d rather then ask me to pass them something than make a mess.

Aldi will discount if it’s 2 (maybe 3?) days until expiration which is a good policy and works well for those who shop multiple times a week.

MeanderingGently · 17/02/2025 12:25

I always take products from the back, with the longest dates on them.
In fact, anything with a date only a day or so away, I put back and don't buy the product if there isn't anything with a longer date available.
I always leave the shelves neat and tidy, and no staff member has ever accosted me about it. It makes good sense as I'm on my own and need items to last a while.

Catsbreakfast · 17/02/2025 12:28

MrsClatterbuck · 17/02/2025 10:28

Lately in my local M&S I have lifted items dated that day. These usually have a yellow sticker. Noticed this well into the day. Not going to buy something dated today unless definitely going to use it that day unless price has been reduced.
Dates are not great atm in Marks was especially bad at Christmas. Everything practically dated 25th Dec. They close 26th and who wants to be food shopping on the 27th 28th

So you just steal
them?

IsThisOkorWhat · 17/02/2025 12:31

Tbh I doubt they give a shit