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Is 6:1 3 y/o too much?

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Catterpillarsflipflops · 16/02/2025 19:26

My little girl is 3. She's joined the local leisure centre swimming lessons. She loves fun swimming but I thought it was time for lessons.

She's getting bored though as there is 1 instructor in the water with 6 children. Am I being unreasonable to think this ratio of children is too high with such small children?

I can't really afford the fancy mum and baby £16 a lesson jobbies & I've got 3 children now (1 y/o twins too) so I can't fun swim on my own with them and DH can't swim at the moment so this is my best option but it doesn't feel right.

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Springadorable · 16/02/2025 19:27

Well it sounds like the best solution for now given ratios and finances.

BlueMum16 · 16/02/2025 19:49

That's the ratio recommended by Swim England. It's about water confidence at first. With the right teacher it should be fine.

Needanewnameidea · 16/02/2025 20:17

I wouldn’t be keen on that ratio. My children attend a swim school with a maximum six children in level one, with two adults in the pool with them. And they won’t take preschoolers, so they’re all a bit older too.

That said I wouldn’t pay for group swimming lessons for a three year old full stop - I think in a lot of cases they’re too young to get much out of it and even some of the four year olds I watch are pretty poor at engaging and following the instructions.

If your daughter isn’t enjoying it then just stop and try again in a year or two. Maybe if your DH can’t swim he could look after your twins while you take her swimming for fun occasionally.

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