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School is asking children to say ‘peace be upon him’ anytime Mohammed is mentioned

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Kitkat189 · 15/02/2025 16:55

My child’s teacher asks the class to always say ‘peace be upon him’ if the prophet Muhammed is mentioned in RE, for example. Used in a sentence it would be something like ‘Muhammad peace be upon him is the founder of Islam’

The teacher explained that this is to show respect to the Muslims in the class.

This is the first time I’ve ever heard of this. Is there an expectation that non Muslims use this expression? Or is it more of a courtesy? I am guessing the latter?

And if it’s the former, should people be compelled to utter this phrase out of respect? To literally wish peace upon a prophet of a religion they don’t belong to? I realise this is not a problem for the majority of people but out of interest, would a devout follower of another religion have objections to this?

(This is year 6, teacher is not Muslim, there is one Muslim in the class whose family are pretty secular, he told the teacher he doesn’t use this expression himself.)

OP posts:
Dkdndndw · 15/02/2025 23:43

ThejoyofNC · 15/02/2025 16:56

It would be a no from me. I doubt they'll show Christianity the same respect.

All the Muslims will say "jesus peace be upon him"

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 15/02/2025 23:44

I find the claim rather unbelievable.

malificent7 · 15/02/2025 23:45

I think it is respectful and teaches them religious tolerance.Couldn't get worked up.

Lostcat · 15/02/2025 23:46

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 15/02/2025 23:44

I find the claim rather unbelievable.

This.

maltravers · 15/02/2025 23:57

I wouldn’t accept kids being told to say “holy is his name” after Jesus either. This is inappropriate.

BluebellsRinging · 16/02/2025 00:00

SuperTrooper14 · 15/02/2025 22:21

Islamophobia is not a good look.

Nor is claiming every little thing is Islamophobic 🙄

Lavenderblossoms · 16/02/2025 00:02

Wtf 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don't believe this is real.

Whammyyammy · 16/02/2025 00:05

100% inappropriate

EmmaEmEmz · 16/02/2025 01:27

HoraceCope · 15/02/2025 18:55

oh dont forget its half term so no school next week

it's not half term everywhere. We have another full week to go.

UrsulaLongshanksTheFlamingo · 16/02/2025 02:12

BeJollyNewt · 15/02/2025 19:58

So teacher should ask the dc's in the class for each RE class and then teach the class? hilarious.

? sorry, I don't understand your comment. I don't think the teacher should be asking kids to say 'peace be upon him' ever.

RamsestheDamned · 16/02/2025 02:25

So they tell any atheists to do this too? I've made a point of not withdrawing DD from religious studies because it's important to learn about all religions regardless of belief in any. I'd make a point of pulling the teacher up on this.

Kitkat189 · 16/02/2025 02:42

ChompandaGrazia · 15/02/2025 18:23

I suspect three things.

  1. this happened. - unlikely.
  2. the RE teacher mentioned it and the op’s dc got the wrong end of the stick - possible.
  3. the op is not genuine, had dropped this as a racist dog whistle, and run off into the the distance - most likely.

Still here. Really tiresome that you and some other posters see racism in my post. I had a genuine question about something I didn’t fully understand and thanks to some of the replies I am now satisfied with the situation. I wanted to know whether this happens in RE in other schools, particularly as I’d never heard of this with my older children, and it seems the answer is yes. That’s all I wanted to know. If people want to read outrage and racism into my post I can’t change that

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mathanxiety · 16/02/2025 02:52

Dkdndndw · 15/02/2025 23:41

I mean Muslims would also say "peace be upon him" when talking about Jesus or Moses etc. What's the issue?

In school, though?

There's a difference between being taught about a religion and being required to adopt one of its practices by an authority figure.

Kitkat189 · 16/02/2025 02:54

TwinklyRoseTurtle · 15/02/2025 18:33

You have made a post about it on a public forum, the phrasing you have used such as ‘ to literally wish peace to a prophet of a religion you don’t belong too’ when it’s obviously being used in an educational setting
sorry I missed the part where you asked if it is normal to say ‘amen’ in assembly if you are not a Christian … oh wait you didn’t 🙄

you took that somewhat out of context, I specifically said that this will not be a problem for most people, and that I was interested in the perspective of devout followers of other religions and how they would feel about this. My understanding of ‘peace be upon him’ is that the person uttering the phrase is not just going through motions, it is an expression of a genuine wish. For someone religious, would this be a problem? That would have been interesting to understand.

I am not outraged and I have not even considered raising this with the school, you are confusing my posts with what others have written here. My child is ten years old, of course there is a fair chance that there has been a misunderstanding. That’s why I spoke to some of the other parents, and that’s why I asked here, on this public forum. It helps me if I understand a) what actually happened in our school, and b) what is happening in other schools in this regard. It’s been helpful to read all the replies here and I have nothing further to say on this topic

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MsAnderson · 16/02/2025 03:17

If schools are going to teach about religion, I wish they'd teach about the consequences of religion. Men making shit up to control everything. Women in many religions having no autonomy, yet teaching their daughters the same nonsense. Brainwashing from birth.

MissTrip82 · 16/02/2025 06:33

Rainingalldayonmyhead · 15/02/2025 17:04

Sure and in the same class I would expect the teacher to ban “Oh my God”, “Jesus Christ”, “Jesus wept”, “Holy crap” etc. blaspheme.

As in it’s never going to happen so not going to say PBUH either. One rule for all or none at all I’m afraid.

Edited

That’s not remotely the same, and I would hope phrases like that are banned? Your primary school aged children attend a school at which it is ok to say ‘Jesus Christ’ like a swear word?

This is not the same as asking children not to blaspheme, which is reasonable. It’s akin to asking them to venerate a religious figure. Fine to do that in a school of that religion; not fine elsewhere.

HeyThereDelila · 16/02/2025 06:35

Not ok, complain to Head and Governors. Totally OTT by the RE teacher. Compelled speech is unacceptable.

Why should Muslims be afforded a level of respect not given to other religious groups?

BlueSilverCats · 16/02/2025 06:41

@Kitkat189 if you want to understand what actually happened, you need to ask the teacher, who was actually in the classroom and doing the lesson.

As to how Muslims feel about it, in general, they don't mind , but they do see it as rather pointless when people of other/no faith do it.

ChompandaGrazia · 16/02/2025 07:13

Kitkat189 · 16/02/2025 02:42

Still here. Really tiresome that you and some other posters see racism in my post. I had a genuine question about something I didn’t fully understand and thanks to some of the replies I am now satisfied with the situation. I wanted to know whether this happens in RE in other schools, particularly as I’d never heard of this with my older children, and it seems the answer is yes. That’s all I wanted to know. If people want to read outrage and racism into my post I can’t change that

Edited

You have made it very clear that you are not racist or have a problem with it. However you must have seen that this would set other people flying off the handle. A cynical person would think that you did this on purpose.

Hoppymclimpy · 16/02/2025 07:39

Retired secondary teacher here. I taught GCSE RE for a number of years. All text books had (pbuh) after Muhammad's name, I'd explain why and use it myself but never expect the students to. It is seen as a sign of respect/deference. When writing, students did put (pbuh) as this was a requirement within the GCSE course- understanding why he's seen with this respect within Islam x

WhatDaHell · 16/02/2025 08:23

Oh no, absolutely not

DoItBetter · 16/02/2025 08:51

liquoricetorpedoes · 15/02/2025 17:04

I teach RS and explain that Muslims say it as a mark of respect and write (pbuh) after the name of a prophet. I do model it when teaching Islam and suggest they do the same when writing, but don’t insist on it especially when speaking.

Do you know it's what Muslims want though? Or are you just assuming that they would like non-Muslims to say it.

BeJollyNewt · 16/02/2025 08:57

UrsulaLongshanksTheFlamingo · 16/02/2025 02:12

? sorry, I don't understand your comment. I don't think the teacher should be asking kids to say 'peace be upon him' ever.

So what happens if they say so for a couple of times a year? will they get brain washed ? isn't that parents does by making these kind of statements?

BeJollyNewt · 16/02/2025 09:11

Kitkat189 · 16/02/2025 02:54

you took that somewhat out of context, I specifically said that this will not be a problem for most people, and that I was interested in the perspective of devout followers of other religions and how they would feel about this. My understanding of ‘peace be upon him’ is that the person uttering the phrase is not just going through motions, it is an expression of a genuine wish. For someone religious, would this be a problem? That would have been interesting to understand.

I am not outraged and I have not even considered raising this with the school, you are confusing my posts with what others have written here. My child is ten years old, of course there is a fair chance that there has been a misunderstanding. That’s why I spoke to some of the other parents, and that’s why I asked here, on this public forum. It helps me if I understand a) what actually happened in our school, and b) what is happening in other schools in this regard. It’s been helpful to read all the replies here and I have nothing further to say on this topic

Edited

op, obviously your first reaction drew the 2 different perspectives and am glad you are not that what looked like in your first post.

some dc are more sweet and they remember what is taught in RE, and them who actually spread the love and piece by reflecting outside the school.
great boy!

Hekett · 16/02/2025 09:23

Fine in an RE class.

We did this 25+ years ago. It’s not new.