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Couple held in Iran

660 replies

StrawDonkey · 15/02/2025 16:44

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c626p6pz7xlo

AIBU to not understand why anyone would go on a motorcycle trip to Iran? Advice is not to go there at all but I can understand that someone desperate to see family would take a risk.

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LostMyLanyard · 15/02/2025 16:45

It's breathtakingly stupid...what on earth were they thinking?

Wherearemymarbles · 15/02/2025 16:46

I must admit to having little sympathy for them.
Total idiots

MushMonster · 15/02/2025 16:47

I would not go.
I have been, in the past, like ten years ago or so, but I would stay well out of it in these days.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 15/02/2025 16:47

I agree. I was amazed when I read this. I hope they are speedily released but what a pair of chumps.

FatAgain · 15/02/2025 16:48

My dads from there and I’d never go near the place - neither would he. Idiots

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/02/2025 16:50

I have zero sympathy- classic middle class arrogance, assuming they know better than all the advice.

username299 · 15/02/2025 17:07

They knew the risks.

toomuchfaff · 15/02/2025 17:13

she acknowledged that travelling to the Iran, against Foreign Office advice, and to Pakistan was risky and "slightly scary".

Absolute idiots.

JHound · 15/02/2025 17:19

I know many people who have travelled / travel to Iran and love it (it’s not as depicted by Western media).

I would not go right this instant with the current hostilities in the region but it is definitely on my bucket list

AcquadiP · 15/02/2025 17:21

"British and British-Iranian dual nationals are at significant risk of arrest, questioning or detention," advice says. "Having a British passport or connections to the UK can be reason enough for the Iranian authorities to detain you."

But they went anyway and now they're detained. Idiotic behaviour.

IkeaJesusChrist · 15/02/2025 17:21

No sympathy, they're a pair of idiots.

saraclara · 15/02/2025 17:29

Iran is a wonderful place, and I'm so glad that I went when I did.
But they were stupid, because apart from anything else, even when I went, it was compulsory for Brits to travel with an agent. Being there independently of a travel company was not allowed. To do so at a less stable time was just foolish.

ETA apparently they WERE with a tour guide. But still, really not a safe time to be there.

CaptainMyCaptain · 15/02/2025 17:32

No sympathy for them.

ElatedShark · 15/02/2025 17:33

It's just pure arrogance and entitlement

NotTerfNorCis · 15/02/2025 17:33

I have sympathy. They obviously had a naively optimistic view of human nature. They aren't bad people.

Rugbyterms · 15/02/2025 17:34

I have no sympathy I am afraid. Surely they must have heard of Nazanin Zaghari-Ratcliffe.

Jeschara · 15/02/2025 17:35

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 15/02/2025 16:50

I have zero sympathy- classic middle class arrogance, assuming they know better than all the advice.

100% this.

Davros · 15/02/2025 17:36

After Nazanin there's no way they should have gone

GlitchStitch · 15/02/2025 17:36

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14400895/Captive-British-couple-Craig-Lindsay-Foremans-haunting-post-ignoring-advice-travel-Iran.html

The link above shows posts from them saying they are ignoring advice from their family, friends and the foreign office. I hope nobody is put at risk to rescue them.

itsgettingweird · 15/02/2025 17:39

I've just read this and thought "idiots who think they know best" so I'm glad to find a thread here where the general feeling is the same.

It was like the family who travelled abroad to free birth and then seemed shocked their child didn't have a nationality and couldn't get a passport. 🤦‍♀️

Squiggles23 · 15/02/2025 17:43

It cost us £400m to get Nazanin and the other hostages back (yes technically money we owed).

Its breathtakingly arrogant that someone would willingly put themselves at extreme risk and I have no sympathy.

ERthree · 15/02/2025 17:44

Arrogant reckless and entitled.

LoudSnoringDog · 15/02/2025 17:47

Utter morons

FormerlyPathologicallyHappy · 15/02/2025 17:49

Maybe they’ll meet some incredible people in prison and memories.

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/02/2025 17:57

saraclara · 15/02/2025 17:29

Iran is a wonderful place, and I'm so glad that I went when I did.
But they were stupid, because apart from anything else, even when I went, it was compulsory for Brits to travel with an agent. Being there independently of a travel company was not allowed. To do so at a less stable time was just foolish.

ETA apparently they WERE with a tour guide. But still, really not a safe time to be there.

Edited

This.

I'd LOVE to go to many beautiful places in that part of the world. But the risks are just so high if it goes wrong.

I already to go to places people can't fathom anyone wanting to go, that's a step further.