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Got called a f-ing b*tch today (parking related)

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Kitkat189 · 12/02/2025 21:53

I guess I’m just venting as this was a bit upsetting.

narrow garden square, resident parking on both sides of the road. Usually the right hand side of the road leading out of the square is left empty as 99% of the time us residents always find a space on the left hand side, and it’s so narrow that SUVs and delivery vans struggle a bit. At the moment there are suspensions in place in a part of the square, so every now and then we have to park on the right hand side.

That’s what happened today: I had just parked and was gathering my things and my daughter when I noticed a range Rover approaching, he stopped a few metres back so I approached to ask if he was struggling to get past us. I offered to move my car a bit closer to the garden fence for him, even if I was within the line and even if that means I have to climb out on the passenger side to exit my car. I had only just about finished moving my car when he starts squeezing past - there’s a crunch: he drove into my car. He reversed; I climbed out through the passenger door and approached him. I said he just drove into me, he said he has a camera that filmed it all and he didn’t. I replied that it’s good that he filmed it all as it will show the whole sequence of events. He then called me a bitch several times, and finished it off with f-ing bitch, all this in front of my daughter.

The whole situation felt very hostile so I locked the car and just left to go into my house. I was calm throughout all of this, particularly as I had my daughter with me and did not want things to escalate in front of her.

I called the police for advice as we didn’t exchange details due to the hostility of the moment. As a side note they misheard me when I described the incident and thought I’d been called a slur, and said they’d send a car over immediately as the man was still there, busy reversing to exit the other way. When I corrected them to say that the man called me a f-ing bitch and nothing else they said oh ok then just contact your insurance. I’m not clear on the legal side of this, is that because none of this is considered a slur? But an actual slur would somehow have been cause for possible intervention?

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Kitkat189 · 14/02/2025 08:26

Turns out he’s fairly local to us… got my morning coffee today and mentioned the incident to the staff, and they told me he lives a few streets over. I’ve neve seen the car before so I assume it’s brand new. I’m not looking forward to seeing this man ever again but luckily I’m a bit face blind so doubt I’d recognise him without his vehicle - ignorance is bliss.

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Kitkat189 · 14/02/2025 08:37

MadameSzyszkoBohusz · 14/02/2025 07:53

Of course it was a bloody Range Rover! We live in a small crowded city with mostly on street parking (you know, as opposed to most Mumsnetters who all seem to live in 5 bed detached houses with huge drives) and we are plagued by idiots in massive Range Rovers constantly getting stuck on narrow roads and expecting everyone else to make way for them. One of them expected me to reverse onto a busy main road for them just last night. And none of them even need the bloody things because they live in a city centre not on fucking farm!

Anyway, if you’ve got photos and his license plate I’d be tempted to take it up with your insurance just to teach the arrogant twat a lesson, OP.

Not only was it a Range Rover, it also had a really stupid vanity plate

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HotCrossBunplease · 14/02/2025 09:20

Interested how you described him to the coffee shop staff such that they knew exactly who you were talking about! Sounds like he must be a notorious twat.

Kitkat189 · 14/02/2025 22:35

Just described the car, it stands out…

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