To have over 40 matches on tinder?

[Chinesewings]

Just that really. It’s actually giving me a head ache having the same conversation over and over again and worried I’ll never find somebody

Tinder was the main app 8 years ago so everyone was on it. Now with the rise of other apps the good'uns have switched to other apps where you are more likely to find someone looking for a meaningful connection. The proportion of good guys on tinder is minimal now

My experience is that you see the same faces on tinder, hinge and bumble.
What is interesting is the ones who sell themselves differently on each platform. Tinder is useful in that respect as if they're looking for short term fun on Tinder, but a long term relationship on Bumble they are easier to avoid I guess?! I have been failing miserably for too long on old, but you see the same faces over again.
I rarely swipe on people, 2 chats on the go at once would be getting too much for me, 40 is mind-boggling, but it depends what you're after I guess.

Likewise

Lol - tell us you've never been on tinder without telling us!

I disagree, I met my current partner of 2 years on tinder and my ex of 6 years too. Never had a bad experience on there just depends who you’re swiping on 🤷‍♀️