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To be hurt and annoyed at being dropped by the BBC?

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Ladyof2025 · 12/02/2025 18:14

BBC contacted me asking me to speak on camera about an aspect of local history I happen to know a bit about. I agreed and spent the next few days brushing up on the facts and then writing and rewriting a script and reading it out loud again and again until I knew it by heart and could speak confidently to camera as though I'd never said it before.

I do not have a pretty face, and am in my 60s and rather podgy, but I went to the trouble of going through my wardrobe for the perfect outfit that flattered my podginess, and had my hair cut specially and put on some make up, so I could be the best possible version of me that I could.

The production team visited, took me to the site and filmed me speaking. I did it smoothly and confidently and was glad that I had put in all the rehearsal so I came across as knowledgeable, professional and confident of my material. They said my performance was perfect, thanked me profusely and left.

After about a week they rang me to say that due to time and space issues the section of the programme that featured my input had been dropped. I felt absolutely gutted, not because I want to see myself on TV but because I had used up a lot of my valuable free time for several days preparing and rehearsing for it (for no fee I should add).

A few months later the programme I was dropped from came on TV and to my utter astonishment an attractive, slim young lady appeared, at the same site I was filmed at, and she spoke the exact words I had written and rehearsed! I nearly fell off my chair - the absolute bloody cheek of dropping ME but stealing the script that I had written. Thinking about it, I realised that they wanted my expert input, but not my saggy face or ample figure.

AIBU to be hurt and angry?

OP posts:
Isittimeformynapyet · 13/02/2025 10:51

Was it filmed in Harrogate OP?

thepariscrimefiles · 13/02/2025 10:56

Namechangey23 · 13/02/2025 09:05

That's the real problem here. You told all your friends you'd be on TV and now have egg on your face because it's not. It's like straight out of Gavin and Stacey when Mick's whole family gather round to see his 'interview' which gets cut to a 2 second comment! It could have been worse OP!

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.facebook.com/StreamOnU/videos/gavin-and-stacey-mick-on-the-telly/496459165864263/%3Flocale%3Dhi_IN&ved=2ahUKEwjxiu7ZpMCLAxUMZ0EAHVqPFEMQwqsBegQIChAF&usg=AOvVaw30YicxO2mO5EOJ4BZ-ddLs

That's what you picked up from OP's explanation about why she made an effort to talk knowledgeably about her specialist subject without making a fool of herself? Your lack of empathy and even a smidgeon of kindness is staggering.

Producethis · 13/02/2025 11:00

Namechangey23 · 13/02/2025 10:15

If it took you YEARs of research, then why on earth did you share that information knowingly for FREE to the first person who came knocking...was it for 5 minutes of fame?! If you feel that strongly...write a complaint! It hasn't really been stolen even if they did reuse it, you gave it away like an anecdote? Why did you do that really if it mattered so much to you? I think I and you know the reason, but if I say the word you won't accept it and I'll be told I'm too harsh! It's horrible when life is unfair and people take advantage of others, but sadly, as I myself have learned the hard way many many times, other people will do many unscrupulous things to further their own ends..isn't the media industry in fact well known and stereotyped exactly for this...? If you've been sheltered from these kinds of behaviours until this point in life, you've done well. Gnashing your teeth about it now won't change it, best you can hope for is an apology unfortunately and that they don't run it again/credit it you if they do.

Because many people share their knowledge as a way of spreading it and hoping to educate.

Not everyone measures importance in monetary terms.

Certain experts (especially university researchers) have public communication remits within their jobs or as a condition of grant funding. Being a talking head on TV is an excellent and low effort way of fulfilling that.

Just because you can’t see the value in sharing knowledge for the betterment of everyone, not just your own wallet, doesn’t mean there isn’t any.

Katisha · 13/02/2025 11:00

I wonder if it was an inexperienced team. - if so they need to learn as well. @producethis is right that they didn't prepare you properly - the second they realised you had prepared and rehearsed a speech, however naturally you feel you delivered it, they would have realised it was unlikely to be usable. It needed to be conversational but by then it was too late as you had a very fixed idea of how you wanted it to go.

However I would have thought they could have tried a different tack once you'd done your bit, unless they didn't realise until they'd got the material back to base.

I would get back directly to whoever contacted you in the first place because they need to learn from their mistakes in how they set up interviews. You will probably get a standard reply, but it is still feedback for them.

Weefox · 13/02/2025 11:02

OK...
If these where your words exactly you could take legal action against the BBC. They will have your recording (ask for it if they didn't give it to you - this is your right). This could be verbal plagiarism.

But first, speak to the producer (he/she could be difficult to reach, so maybe you need to write) and ask why you were not used and your words spoken by another interviewee. Do not let this go.

And, did the BBC give you expenses? Your time etc. If not ask for them.

Producethis · 13/02/2025 11:04

snowmichael · 13/02/2025 10:36

Send them a bill for your time, pointing out that you wrote the 'script' and you have the (dated) original files to prove it
You did not sign a release for your script, I assume?
BBC generally pay piecework for scripts, and a 10min PTC would expect to be in the region of £30-50

Not in docs they don’t. In fact, where do they pay piecework for scripts? Never heard of that but would quite like to get in on it 😁

churrios · 13/02/2025 11:05

Ask the person you have been dealing with to send you a copy of your ‘take’ load it to social media along with the ‘take’ that was used. We all want to see it. It may even go viral, I’d go onto tic tic to see it! I know it’s a faff but please? You are quite right to feel hurt, angry, used. They could have asked you for content and acknowledged your input without asking you to present from the get go. Lying about not having time is not on.

I2amonlyhereforTheBeer · 13/02/2025 11:08

I'm so sorry. Of course YANBU. And well done for exposing the BBC. I would confront them and ask for an explanation which probably won't get you anywhere. You could say you're taking legal advice as there is a copyright issue (someone else took your work) to give them the wiggins. Is the woman who did your piece well known? I'd be going after her too.

Producethis · 13/02/2025 11:09

theduchessofspork · 13/02/2025 10:49

If you’re a producer, you know people get dropped from shows for all sorts of reasons - and the producers on the ground don’t always have control over that.

In the case of history docs, it’s normal to tell contribs what you want them to cover because they are appearing as experts and you need them to be on top of the content. As the OP is an amateur enthusiast they should certainly have told her not to rehearse lines, but it is possible they did, and the OP didn’t take that in in her enthusiasm.

It’s hard on people when this happens, but it’s most likely that this section of the programme simply didn’t need to be as long as originally anticipated and so the presenter delivered a few key points in a PTC.

If the OP feels the material was hers, she’s quite entitled to write and point out she should have been acknowledged, either in the credits or by letter of that wasn’t possible. It’s possible other experts they spoke to had the same material - but either way she’ll get an apology or an explanation.

The OP doesn’t need to feel bad about what happened, and she’s entitled to ask for an explanation, but neither should she be encouraged to think that anything terrible or out of the ordinary happened.

I am a producer, so ‘as a producer’ would be a more appropriate opener.

I’m not sure why you have quoted me, as I have written the same in my previous posts.

Of course people get dropped, but good practice is to explain to anyone who has given their time and expertise why the decision was made.

So in that sense, something untoward has happened.

There are actually lots of quite strict rules around the ‘with thanks’ section in the credits and it has to be signed off by the channel, so it’s not as easy as that.

LarnaArm · 13/02/2025 11:09

Ladyof2025 · 13/02/2025 09:50

Oh dear more posters accusing me of being wooden.

Or of making up the entire thing.

If I change my username to Pinocchio that would nicely reflect both accusations!

Mumsnet is such an awful place at the minute.

So much for advice and support from fellow females.

Another interesting thread spoilt by other females.

LadysMantle · 13/02/2025 11:10

Producethis · 13/02/2025 11:00

Because many people share their knowledge as a way of spreading it and hoping to educate.

Not everyone measures importance in monetary terms.

Certain experts (especially university researchers) have public communication remits within their jobs or as a condition of grant funding. Being a talking head on TV is an excellent and low effort way of fulfilling that.

Just because you can’t see the value in sharing knowledge for the betterment of everyone, not just your own wallet, doesn’t mean there isn’t any.

Well, yes, I’m one of those university researchers, but I’m not going to spend days learning a script, or getting a haircut, plus while talking about my subject on tv is absolutely a useful way of disseminating it to non-specialists, it won’t be the primary way I’m disseminating it. I’ll publish it in peer-reviewed journals or a monograph. Being a tv expert is a useful convergence between an aspect of my role and something a tv/documentary needs — if I can do it without taking a big chunk of time out of my schedule, I will, but it’s not ‘to be on tv’, or the main way I put my research into the world.

crankytoes · 13/02/2025 11:11

WilmaTitsDrop · 12/02/2025 18:25

I've been on the BBC for a similar reason and I find this very strange.

All the clothes sorting, hair cutting, writing your own script (who even does that??) was entirely your own choice.

They normally just want people to chat naturally about the subject, which is probably what the other woman did.

The other woman did not naturally . She copied the recording of the OP talking about the topic which means the producers took the recording analysed it and gave it to a 'face' to learn and 'perform' it

crankytoes · 13/02/2025 11:12

Givemestrength1000 · 12/02/2025 18:31

Yeh sure. Why don’t you post a link to the programme for us all to see. The BBC has strict rules about things like this. I can’t see any journalist jeopardising their whole career for a short piece on local history

The OP won't have the original though as it wasn't broadcast

Producethis · 13/02/2025 11:14

churrios · 13/02/2025 11:05

Ask the person you have been dealing with to send you a copy of your ‘take’ load it to social media along with the ‘take’ that was used. We all want to see it. It may even go viral, I’d go onto tic tic to see it! I know it’s a faff but please? You are quite right to feel hurt, angry, used. They could have asked you for content and acknowledged your input without asking you to present from the get go. Lying about not having time is not on.

They can’t. The footage belongs to either the production company or the broadcaster, depending on the commissioning terms.

In very limited circumstances we will provide clips for contributors but always with the explicit instruction that it cannot be uploaded to social media - unless posting on socials is part of their agreement, in which case it will be clips approved by marketing.

Either way, something that didn’t make the cut isn’t being released to anyone.

crankytoes · 13/02/2025 11:14

C0ULDBE · 12/02/2025 18:38

I work in television.

This sounds incredibly unlikely.

Time and money is tight and they just wouldn't spend it on these types of shenanigans.

If it is true then complain to the production company or team.

Maybe you were rubbish but they still needed to cover the info?

And another expert would be expected to say more or less the same thing wouldn't they?

More or less the same isn't the same as word for word verbatim

Floofle · 13/02/2025 11:15

I am also a University Researcher who could quite reasonably be asked to talk about my area on BBC breakfast - type programs. I have actually had media trainign on how to do this sort of thing.

I would absolutely do what the OP has done - make sure I look my best (find a smart outfit, iron something, style my hair, do my makeup properly), and that I know what I'm talking about (look up key stats, check I have coherent answers to their question) etc... I'd probably write bullet points rather than prose so it flowed more naturally but that's it.

I think you have acted perfectly reasonably and they have screwed you over OP!

LostittoBostik · 13/02/2025 11:15

hydriotaphia · 13/02/2025 10:47

I think if she was delivering similar information it is obviously not impossible that they simply found two experts on the same subject who set out similar information, and therefore it only made sense to use one of the interviews.

I would also check any contract you signed - did you give permission for your research to be used for the show more generally?

If not, then you could make a complaint. I wouldn't mention the looks of the person they used, as it is not relevant and could be seen as demeaning to her.

It's not just "not impossible" it's very highly likely.

It's almost certainty exactly what happened

crankytoes · 13/02/2025 11:15

@WilmaTitsDrop

There is no script, otherwise they wouldn't bother interviewing randoms.
Clearly there was a script for the new presenter. The OP wrote it. That's the whole point of this thread

crankytoes · 13/02/2025 11:16

Baggingarea · 12/02/2025 18:41

My ears prickled at "rehearsed". Nothing comes off worse on telly than someone who has memorised what they wanted to say and spouts it out like a robot. Its really jarring and not engaging for the viewer. Be honest with yourself op - did you do this?

Well that's exactly what the second presenter did seeing they learned the script off what the OP wrote. That's the whole point of the thread

Producethis · 13/02/2025 11:16

Weefox · 13/02/2025 11:02

OK...
If these where your words exactly you could take legal action against the BBC. They will have your recording (ask for it if they didn't give it to you - this is your right). This could be verbal plagiarism.

But first, speak to the producer (he/she could be difficult to reach, so maybe you need to write) and ask why you were not used and your words spoken by another interviewee. Do not let this go.

And, did the BBC give you expenses? Your time etc. If not ask for them.

No they can’t.

Standard release forms - which even the most inexperienced runner knows to get signed before you turn over - include a clause that waives all rights over the contribution. Likeness, content, everything.

If she had refused to sign it, they wouldn’t have filmed.

LostittoBostik · 13/02/2025 11:16

crankytoes · 13/02/2025 11:15

@WilmaTitsDrop

There is no script, otherwise they wouldn't bother interviewing randoms.
Clearly there was a script for the new presenter. The OP wrote it. That's the whole point of this thread

This is the bit of the story I doubt. It will be two people working from the v same knowledge base (the facts/research) so it sounds the same but it really isn't

LostittoBostik · 13/02/2025 11:17

exactly as @Producethis says

crankytoes · 13/02/2025 11:17

@WilmaTitsDrop

The fact the OP took it on herself to write a script completely unprompted, was probably why they decided against showing it.

These things are supposed to flow naturally
Well they ended up with the opposite of what you suggest. The new presenter didn't speak off the cuff. They studied what the OP said, learned it by rote and repeated it. .

BoogieBoogieWoogie · 13/02/2025 11:20

Namechangey23 · 13/02/2025 09:05

That's the real problem here. You told all your friends you'd be on TV and now have egg on your face because it's not. It's like straight out of Gavin and Stacey when Mick's whole family gather round to see his 'interview' which gets cut to a 2 second comment! It could have been worse OP!

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.facebook.com/StreamOnU/videos/gavin-and-stacey-mick-on-the-telly/496459165864263/%3Flocale%3Dhi_IN&ved=2ahUKEwjxiu7ZpMCLAxUMZ0EAHVqPFEMQwqsBegQIChAF&usg=AOvVaw30YicxO2mO5EOJ4BZ-ddLs

WTF. Get a life

pinkgrevillea · 13/02/2025 11:22

LostittoBostik · 13/02/2025 11:16

This is the bit of the story I doubt. It will be two people working from the v same knowledge base (the facts/research) so it sounds the same but it really isn't

The OP has said the information she covered was very specific to the location and had taken her years to dig out. It was not two people working from the same knowledge based, it was one person's knowledge that the BBC then used without giving her any credit. It is unprofessional of them.