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To be hurt and annoyed at being dropped by the BBC?

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Ladyof2025 · 12/02/2025 18:14

BBC contacted me asking me to speak on camera about an aspect of local history I happen to know a bit about. I agreed and spent the next few days brushing up on the facts and then writing and rewriting a script and reading it out loud again and again until I knew it by heart and could speak confidently to camera as though I'd never said it before.

I do not have a pretty face, and am in my 60s and rather podgy, but I went to the trouble of going through my wardrobe for the perfect outfit that flattered my podginess, and had my hair cut specially and put on some make up, so I could be the best possible version of me that I could.

The production team visited, took me to the site and filmed me speaking. I did it smoothly and confidently and was glad that I had put in all the rehearsal so I came across as knowledgeable, professional and confident of my material. They said my performance was perfect, thanked me profusely and left.

After about a week they rang me to say that due to time and space issues the section of the programme that featured my input had been dropped. I felt absolutely gutted, not because I want to see myself on TV but because I had used up a lot of my valuable free time for several days preparing and rehearsing for it (for no fee I should add).

A few months later the programme I was dropped from came on TV and to my utter astonishment an attractive, slim young lady appeared, at the same site I was filmed at, and she spoke the exact words I had written and rehearsed! I nearly fell off my chair - the absolute bloody cheek of dropping ME but stealing the script that I had written. Thinking about it, I realised that they wanted my expert input, but not my saggy face or ample figure.

AIBU to be hurt and angry?

OP posts:
NormasArse · 12/02/2025 18:16

Do you still have the producer’s details?

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 12/02/2025 18:17

I'm be pissed off too the cheeky fuckers.
Message them with the invoice for your script.

Eyesopenwideawake · 12/02/2025 18:17

Were they the words in your script? Did they have a copy of your script?

Screw being hurt - they've stolen from you, anger is very justified. Get in touch with the producer (text/email) and ask coolly what happened?

JimHalpertsWife · 12/02/2025 18:17

Why did you even agree to do it for free in the first place? They usually pay £75-£100 for stuff like this (then £££s for well known experts).

Wanttobutdithery · 12/02/2025 18:18

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Emptyflames · 12/02/2025 18:19

No way!

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 12/02/2025 18:19

So they stole your script?

31stJune1973 · 12/02/2025 18:19

Did you sign away the copyright of your script?

YANBU at all, I would be livid.

teaandyarn · 12/02/2025 18:20

Put it on TikTok! It’s an outrage and I’m fuming on your behalf.

ILoveAnnaQuay · 12/02/2025 18:20

I was going to say that TV programmes are always cutting segments so YABU, but then read the bit about them replacing you with a younger model using your script and you definitely ANBU!

Vitriolinsanity · 12/02/2025 18:20

Is it verbatim? As in they've put a face on your intellectual copyright?

Please say you have a copy and a contract OP.

Bedecked · 12/02/2025 18:20

How horrible. Complain!

MyFlightWasAwfulThanksForAsking · 12/02/2025 18:21

What a great story. Do you mind if I go and tell it to a camera crew?

RadStag · 12/02/2025 18:21

Hmmmmmm

DroppedOff · 12/02/2025 18:21

Did they discuss paying you?

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 12/02/2025 18:21

at the same site I was filmed at, and she spoke the exact words I had written and rehearsed

This warrants a complaint

Danioyellow · 12/02/2025 18:22

I’m outraged on your behalf 😡 surely there’s laws about stuff like this?

Simplynotsimple · 12/02/2025 18:22

That is surprising, if I’m honest. The bbc have always seem to use those who know their stuff rather than make a ‘pretty young thing’ read a script. Have you followed up on this?

Gravitasdepleted · 12/02/2025 18:23

That's intellectual property theft, Id be contacting a lawyer

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 12/02/2025 18:23

www.bbc.co.uk/contact/complaints

Redheadedstepchild · 12/02/2025 18:23

Of course you are not being unreasonable! A very long time ago I submitted articles to BBC Good Food magazine. They published them more or less word for word under another name.

It was a six part series on essential ingredients, their nutritional values, historical provenance, classic recipes that used them through the British and international culinary traditions. I got zero, zilch, nada.

WilmaTitsDrop · 12/02/2025 18:25

I've been on the BBC for a similar reason and I find this very strange.

All the clothes sorting, hair cutting, writing your own script (who even does that??) was entirely your own choice.

They normally just want people to chat naturally about the subject, which is probably what the other woman did.

Littletreefrog · 12/02/2025 18:26

If she did actually say the exact same words and you have evidence this was your work I would complain. Did this person have any expertise in the area or were they literally a mouthpiece?

scorpiogirly · 12/02/2025 18:26

Wow. Just when you think the lowest of the low couldn't sink any lower. The BBC really are scum in more ways than one. Thankfully they no longer get a penny off me.

Sallyslider653 · 12/02/2025 18:27

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It sounds exactly like the sort of thing that happens if you ask me!