Not sure if this is the right board but have seen ladies get great advice in the past. Husband and I have been married 10 years. 2 children, 6 and 2. He’s from a different culture and we’ve had issues in the past that we’ve resolved, but recently there’s been an ongoing theme of ‘I’m the man of the house, don’t have a different opinion to me, what I say goes’ especially when it comes to the kids, even though I’m the main carer and earner. We had a fairly trivial disagreement this morning where he told me not to do something and I said I don’t agree with you but ok. He was really annoyed that I had a different opinion to him and even came home at lunchtime to check I hadn’t done ‘said thing’ I hadn’t, but told him I can’t live like this for another 40 or so years and he’s making me feel trapped that I can never do much moan about anything to him or have a different opinion to him. He got really arsey, saying he’s not going to change so what am I going to do about it. Goading me. This is the ‘his surname’ house, the kids have my surname, you have my surname. This isn’t the ‘my maiden name’ house. I finally said ‘I’m done’ and he started acting like he was so happy, he’s been waiting for this etc. he went back to work and I haven’t heard anything since. Where do I go from here? I am the main earner luckily so could buy him out of the house. But I feel like in the mood he’s in he won’t go easily. Any advice or anything I should be thinking about? Obviously I’m devastated for the kids but don’t want my daughter growing up thinking she’s inferior to men. How do I make sure they’re as unaffected as possible? Worried about money as well. I earn well but will obviously be down on what I’m used to if I have to pay for everything. Thanks in advance for the handhold x