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To go to Qatar alone as a single woman?

80 replies

cerisierblossom · 12/02/2025 11:56

I am desperate to go to the formula one in Qatar. I've had a look and flights and hotels are nowhere near as expensive as I expected them to be.

The actual country looks beautiful and the excursions look cheaper than I expected. I'm very close to just taking the plunge and booking, but am I being unreasonable to go? My family are torn, I've discussed my plans with them and my mum in particular has some pretty strong opinions on the country and me going - she thinks I'd be treated like a second class citizen

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SometimesCalmPerson · 12/02/2025 12:00

I went alone to visit a friend and felt very safe. My friend was working for a few of the days I was there so I went a few places out and about alone and took taxis and it was fine. It’s a weird place, but not at all unsafe. You’re safer there than you are walking through plenty of UK cities.

SometimesCalmPerson · 12/02/2025 12:01

Also, westerners in my experience are treated more like royalty than second class citizens.

MarioLink · 12/02/2025 12:03

I couldn't do it and wouldn't want to go with DH either. I remember visiting somewhere more liberal in the area and speaking to someone at the airport about luggage issues and them saying their answers back to DH only even though he was trying to read something.

HundredMilesAnHour · 12/02/2025 12:06

I’ve been to Qatar alone as a single woman, just for 3 days, and it was fine. No problems getting Ubers or how I was treated at all.

I’ve also gone to a couple of F1 races/weekends alone (Melbourne and Singapore) and that was also fine. I can’t imagine Qatar will be any different as long as your make sure you’ve covered the logistics i.e. how you’re getting to the track and back given the crowds/high demand.

SallyWD · 12/02/2025 12:08

I've never been anywhere, where I've felt so safe as Qatar. I did go with DH but sometimes we did things separately and I was always treated with respect. I feel more nervous walking through my UK city on a Saturday night.

Hyperquiet · 12/02/2025 12:09

Qatar is really safe and they're really respectful of people including women

Estampie · 12/02/2025 12:09

Qatar is fairly similar to the UAE in terms of a hereditary ruler holding all executive and legislative authority, the judiciary is mostly foreign national judges whose contracts can be terminated at will, political parties banned, the press is heavily self-censoring, and almost no public participation in how the country is governed. Qataris are among the wealthiest in the world, but 90% of the population consists of noncitizens with no political rights and minimal civil liberties.

TLDR: You're fine as a visiting western tourist as long as you don't break the law. Your mother appears to be confusing it with Saudi Arabia.

Rugbyrover · 12/02/2025 12:12

Hyperquiet · 12/02/2025 12:09

Qatar is really safe and they're really respectful of people including women

Their human rights record would suggest otherwise
https://www.hrw.org/world-report/2025/country-chapters/qatar

Migrant workers move away parts of the stage used during the opening ceremony ahead of the Asian Cup Group.

World Report 2025: Rights Trends in Qatar

https://www.hrw.org/world-report/2025/country-chapters/qatar

Thelnebriati · 12/02/2025 12:13

Anti slavery charities will tell you that 20,000 people experienced forced labour or forced marriage in Qatar in 2020, and that migrant workers experience significant rights violations.

Dotjones · 12/02/2025 12:14

I wouldn't go to a Middle Eastern country alone as a single woman. There are just too many risks involved. To be fair, visiting the F1 is probably as safe as you can get. Just don't stray from the touristy areas, try to book a well-known hotel that is near and never go anywhere alone, always as part of tourist group. Be careful about doing anything that could be considered as insulting Islam as this can result in the death penalty, albeit Qatar rarely executes for crimes other than murder and executions are done by firing squad nowadays.

cerisierblossom · 12/02/2025 12:16

Dotjones · 12/02/2025 12:14

I wouldn't go to a Middle Eastern country alone as a single woman. There are just too many risks involved. To be fair, visiting the F1 is probably as safe as you can get. Just don't stray from the touristy areas, try to book a well-known hotel that is near and never go anywhere alone, always as part of tourist group. Be careful about doing anything that could be considered as insulting Islam as this can result in the death penalty, albeit Qatar rarely executes for crimes other than murder and executions are done by firing squad nowadays.

I think this is a bit hyperbolic!

Thanks to everyone who's given answers in good faith, it's oh so tempting to book the flights given the opportunity and the low cost, coupled with some winter sun!

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cerisierblossom · 12/02/2025 12:22

Thelnebriati · 12/02/2025 12:19

Is this hyperbolic?

''A court in Qatar has convicted a Dutch woman of having sex outside marriage after she told police she was raped.''
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-36516006

And I'm very sorry to hear of her experience.

However I asked if it was safe, and the consensus is yes it is. I don't drink, so consuming alcohol won't be something for me to be concerned by.

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Verv · 12/02/2025 12:23

I felt safe in Qatar. More so than in Dubai.

Endofyear · 12/02/2025 12:24

I haven't been but is it similar to Dubai? My neice lived and worked there for many years and felt very safe. As long as you're aware of the customs and expectations in Qatar think it's probably as safe as any holiday destination.

cerisierblossom · 12/02/2025 12:32

Endofyear · 12/02/2025 12:24

I haven't been but is it similar to Dubai? My neice lived and worked there for many years and felt very safe. As long as you're aware of the customs and expectations in Qatar think it's probably as safe as any holiday destination.

I'm imagining so? It looks very similar!

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Thelnebriati · 12/02/2025 12:36

In countries where women cannot safely report rape, the number of reported rapes tend to be very low.
It does not mean that they are safe countries.

thornbury · 12/02/2025 12:36

It's not like Dubai, more like Abu Dhabi or Bahrain. Book that ticket and have a great time - you'll be fine!

Printedword · 12/02/2025 12:37

My SIL regularly travels to Dubai alone, although when there she is visiting my nephew and family. If you are going for an event, then it's probably not that unusual to visit by yourself OP

Glowingworms · 12/02/2025 12:42

The reality is in a lot of these countries is that things are fine until they aren't. 90% of tourists will be completely fine and will go with the attitude of "local laws for local people only" and 90% of cops take that position

When people get in to trouble eg like if they need to seek help because they are sexually assaulted then they suddenly find the support isn't there and indeed they end up in trouble themselves

Lots of gay influences, and same sex couples regularly post about going to the middle east for example but there are also handful of stories of when it goes disastrously wrong on the account of meeting a police officer that decides to enforce a law. The same with drinking, there are still multiple stories of random people where laws are enforced and the consulate, insurance companies etc all abandon people because it's local law after all

Imo it's like traveling without medical insurance, 99% of the time you'll be completely fine but the 0.05% of the time it's needed, you get really stuck

cerisierblossom · 12/02/2025 12:44

I don't drink.

I also have the viewpoint that just as we expect people to respect our customs when they come to the UK, we should extend the same respect when we visit other countries - I tend to dress very modestly anyway (long shirts, shoulders covered, cleavage covered) so I don't think I'd end up falling foul of their local laws

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username299 · 12/02/2025 12:45

I believe these ME dictatorships only tend to abuse their own citizens (and cheap labour), not tourists. You should be fine if you don't break the law.

JoyousGreyOrca · 12/02/2025 12:50

Are you white? If yes you will probably be fine.

Estampie · 12/02/2025 12:51

cerisierblossom · 12/02/2025 12:44

I don't drink.

I also have the viewpoint that just as we expect people to respect our customs when they come to the UK, we should extend the same respect when we visit other countries - I tend to dress very modestly anyway (long shirts, shoulders covered, cleavage covered) so I don't think I'd end up falling foul of their local laws

Sigh, We're not just talking about decency laws. Don't get raped. Don't get into an altercation with a Qatari in a queue. Don't bring banned medicines (which may be over-the-counter remedies in other countries) etc.

cerisierblossom · 12/02/2025 12:52

@Estampie I wouldn't get into a fight or take medication either, and would obviously be careful about where I go and keep my wits about me - just as I have to do in the UK.

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