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AIBU?

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To feel my boyfriend has messed me about with lunch plan?

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Celia24 · 12/02/2025 10:09

I’ll preface this by saying I’m going to a funeral in a few days so I’m all over the place generally. I’m still sorting my eulogy among the general stress of it.

My boyfriend lives a couple of hours away so we plan his transport in advance of what suits. I mostly work from home and I’m working home tomorrow.

Yesterday he said I’ll come to yours early if that’s ok, so we can have lunch together. Around 12. I replied this would be lovely, and mentioned I have a meeting at 1.30pm to reiterate the eating early part.

This morning he tells me he’s arriving on the 1.50pm train ‘so we’ll need to have a late lunch’. I feel so bloody annoyed about this and find it inconsiderate. AIBU?

OP posts:
biscuitsandbooks · 12/02/2025 15:40

I totally get why you're upset but I really don't think this is a hill to die on.

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