since the day my good friend got her first litte girl i swear, ive been recieving snapchats almost daily, about milestones and baby just doing baby stuff. baby is 1 years old. Im done with comments, I have myself a daughter who is 6 years, but i have never spammed my friends with pictures or videos of her unless it was her grandparents that wanted updates. I do know myself even how much i love my own child i understand that she is not that interesting and special to everyone else besides me and her dad n family. And i honestly feel the same about other peoples child and babies, but sometimes some mums forget about that. I mean yea sure a picture or video once a while is nice. But it have reached the point where i stopped replying to baby milestones and stuff and when her child get the flu and is sick. She sends snaps about that to.
«Like yea your kid will get sick looots of time once they start in kindergarten its not that uncommon» i think to myself. I think i miss when her snaps wans’t just 99% focused on her baby. Or when she sends me a snap and then i don’t reply and then she send them on snap messages. Feels a bit overwhelming to me. Like she wants my attention trough her baby? I may be wrong, but even tough her LO is lovley i don’t want our frinedship to be based on her child. Since im a mom myself i do try to be understanding but as said, even as a mom i get tired of baby talk and daily updates and videos/pictures. Maybe because myself never over talked about my baby to my friends, then i can’t really relate besides having a child to. This may have camed a bit blunt out..
btw im from norway so my english is not the best