I[m a physio. Some 20+/- years ago I was treating a young woman student who was panicking as she had to work part time and it was having a really bad effect on her studies.I had been in the same situation when I was studying, paying my own way with a grant and what I could earn as a temp. sec. during the holidays, so I really felt sorry for her. My mother had left me some money so I lent her several thousands of ££££.
Some years later she posted holiday photos of FB. I was peeved and asked her to pay me back, which she did. All good? NOPE:
Fast forward to now. Retired I have a small pension. Had emergency repairs to my car at the same time as bills for car insurance and tax, etc.I asked her to lend me £2,000. starting payback next month at £150 monthly.This is what she wrote back:
I gave more thought to your request but it won[t work for me. The timing is bad.
Me: Strange, I thought you would be happy to help me in need . Obviously I was wrong.
Her: I paid back everything you lent me back then, even had to take out a loan that cost me lots of interest because you put a lot of pressure. You already cut me out of your will.
NB I did not put a "lot of pressure" on her and she didn[t tell me that she had taken out a loan to pay me back.
I did not cut her out of my will - I asked her if she would mind as I had a very needy friend, She was upset so I told her that of course I wouldn[t change it, that she will still be in the will.
She[s now saying that I don[t care for her, although I[ve been very supportive during her health and fertility problems.
PS She[s in charge of 60+ employees at a major bank and her husband is also a high earner.
PPS I own my own flat which is worth a lot but I don[t want to sell.
I haven[t answered her and seriously thinking of cutting her out of my will, going NC. What do you all think?