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To be annoyed by the number if dogs in local coffeeshops

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Hocuspoc · 07/02/2025 08:39

I really like dogs - sounds like I am a hypocrite here, but hear me out. I do, really, however...
I go to a local coffeeshop for 20 mins early morning before work and just want to enjoy a cup of coffee. Is it the time of day - don't know, but literally every table has at least one dog sitting still or barking or trying to walk around while the owner/walker is struggling. And this is a small space. I can always smell the animal next to me and not my coffee - there is a distinctive and not a pleasant smell.
Go to another place I hear you say - I try but it is the same in the few local coffee shops with decent coffee.
Once I tried politely asking a lady who joined my table just to steer her 2 huge dogs away from me, as one was waving his tail over my pastry brushing it in process - the looks I got, and also from the neighbouring table.
These places are dog friendly yes, but they are not dog only.
I apologise if I offend anyone here, I know very well they are a part of the family for all of their owners, and dogs actually like me, often try and squeeze in and sit on my feet or just next to me (maybe part of the issue here) and if I was on a bench in the park fine, but I am eating or drinking coffee and the smell is just offensive.
I don't know how other people feel - both dog owners (are you aware that this may be inconvenience for some people) and the rest who don't own...

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YeOldeGreyhound · 12/02/2025 16:17

ViolinsPlayGentlyOn · 12/02/2025 16:12

Is this the same dog that you mentioned on another thread has continence problems and doesn’t always make it outside?

How do you make sure these problems don’t happen in the cafe? I do think it’s a little bit selfish if your dog isn’t reliably continent, even if it’s a dog-friendly cafe.

She has never done her business in a cafe. She is comfortable in my house, her space, which is why she does it there. That is what our vet said to us about it.
She just settles on her bed in cafes anyway.

I did see a dog pee in the cafe a while back. The owner was mortified, as they said their dog had never done that before. Staff were fine with it.

Porcuporpoise · 12/02/2025 21:37

Yeah I bet it made their day 😆

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