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To wonder why all girls have long hair?

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Mightymoog · 06/02/2025 15:27

Just driving past the secondary school at home time and every single girl had long hair. Different colours, some wavy, some straight, but every last one of them had long hair.
Where are all the short cuts or even mid length.
when I was at school (admittedly many moons ago )there was a huge range from short and spiky to mid length bobs to long.
just a little something I've been musing on for a while and prepared for people to tell me the local school is an aberration of long hair lovers

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Pirating55 · 06/02/2025 17:09

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user2848502016 · 06/02/2025 17:09

Fashion?
Short styles were quite popular in the 80s but by the 90s when I was in secondary school I can't think of any girls who had hair shorter than a bob.
My DD and all her friends have long hair

handsdownthebest · 06/02/2025 17:09

I love the long hair on the girls and they seem to look after it really well too. I had really lovely thick hair when I was younger and regret never letting it grow long.
My daughter has gorgeous thick long hair and doesn’t straighten or abuse it.

Sadcafe · 06/02/2025 17:10

Fashions change,have a few pics from school days, no social media or phones with cameras then so only a few, almost every girl on them has short hair, doubtless in time it will change again

Hillarious · 06/02/2025 17:10

Catza · 06/02/2025 15:30

I had long hair growing up because we had no money for a regular hairdresser

This exactly. When my daughter was a teen, she had very long hair. Now she's earning well, she has a high maintenance bob.

EconomyClassRockstar · 06/02/2025 17:11

It's because they've seen photos of their parents in the 80s and 90s and realize what we should have known. We looked stupid. 😀

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Crazybaby123 · 06/02/2025 17:12

There were no pixie cuts in my school and I went to school in the 90s. There were short bobs. Ir thibk its a fashion thing. Tbe short pixie cuts look really dated now I think, but were all the rage in the 80s and early 90s. Now they are for older ladies. Maybe they wil come back round one day?

jellyfishperiwinkle · 06/02/2025 17:13

Talking to people on here about how wonderfully original they thought they were in their teens reminds me of the people at sixth form college who thought they were more individual and original than anyone else because they were goths.

Mightymoog · 06/02/2025 17:13

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Okaaaaaay.
maybe step away from what is a very innocuous uncontroversial thread and chill out a bit?

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NeedANewOne25 · 06/02/2025 17:14

Whycanineverthinkofone · 06/02/2025 17:07

How many girls were in those classes at a’level?

I did my physics a’level in a mixed comprehensive in the late 80’s. I was the only girl in a class of 30. GCSE was slightly more balanced as we had to take maths and 3 sciences if we were top sets, it wasn’t a choice. I was the only girl in the woodwork class though!

there’s always been girls doing those subjects, and you doing them does not mean it negates the statistics showing vastly more boys study those subjects than girls.

I didn’t do A levels but plenty of my female school friends did. I did ONC/HNC and did engineering at university. I’m not disputing that maybe more males than females do some subjects but would never call them boys’ subjects.

MikeRafone · 06/02/2025 17:14

noworklifebalance · 06/02/2025 15:34

Because the like it?

some will and others as they want to fit in endnote be different

Mightymoog · 06/02/2025 17:15

Pirating55 · 06/02/2025 17:12

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And maybe take a nap. you just replied to yourself!

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Pirating55 · 06/02/2025 17:15

Mightymoog · 06/02/2025 17:13

Okaaaaaay.
maybe step away from what is a very innocuous uncontroversial thread and chill out a bit?

If that is all you have to worry about then please swap lives hahaha I've got to get on with my normal life! Next you'll be saying 'oh I've seen a lot of boys at school having spikey hair, back in my day it was curtains' seriously get a life hun

noworklifebalance · 06/02/2025 17:15

SantaToSSD · 06/02/2025 17:00

I agree it is a trend that has been going on for some time. Easily 20 years, I would guess. Obviously everyone has the right to style their hair as they wish, but I do find the homogenous appearance of all girls and young women wrt their hair a bit boring. Some variation would be nice. 10 years ago, my then teenage daughter had a pixie cut. She was the only girl in her very large year at school to have such a short cut. I was against her doing it at first (sentimental for her amazingly thick long hair) but we still talk about it today. She looked stunning with a pixie cut, all the teachers at parents evening were talking about how her confidence had grown and how amazing she looked. But within a year or having the cut she was growing it back out again. I don't know exactly why, but I suspect she had some cruel comments from her peer group.

We just need one woman with influence to go for it and the appearance of girls and young women would change overnight!

Obviously everyone has the right to style their hair as they wish, but I do find the homogenous appearance of all girls and young women wrt their hair a bit boring. Some variation would be nice

Why do girls have to look interesting for other people? If the want to look homogenous and boring (in your option) then that is up to them. If society is forcing them to, as other PPs have alluded to, then that definitely need to be called out.

And I don’t think it is a good thing that teachers are commenting on your daughter’s hairstyle, unless it is to say that it is in some way inappropriate for school.

Mightymoog · 06/02/2025 17:16

jellyfishperiwinkle · 06/02/2025 17:13

Talking to people on here about how wonderfully original they thought they were in their teens reminds me of the people at sixth form college who thought they were more individual and original than anyone else because they were goths.

I don't think anyone is saying that: we're commenting on the lack of variety.

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Mightymoog · 06/02/2025 17:17

Pirating55 · 06/02/2025 17:15

If that is all you have to worry about then please swap lives hahaha I've got to get on with my normal life! Next you'll be saying 'oh I've seen a lot of boys at school having spikey hair, back in my day it was curtains' seriously get a life hun

Looks a bit sad now you had to post it twice 😁

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Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 06/02/2025 17:17

noworklifebalance · 06/02/2025 17:15

Obviously everyone has the right to style their hair as they wish, but I do find the homogenous appearance of all girls and young women wrt their hair a bit boring. Some variation would be nice

Why do girls have to look interesting for other people? If the want to look homogenous and boring (in your option) then that is up to them. If society is forcing them to, as other PPs have alluded to, then that definitely need to be called out.

And I don’t think it is a good thing that teachers are commenting on your daughter’s hairstyle, unless it is to say that it is in some way inappropriate for school.

Exactly. Teenage girls aren't there for others to find visually pleasing. Oh its so boring for me for all these little girls to look the same. I like a bit of variety. Hmm

RaininSummer · 06/02/2025 17:17

My granddaughter has a pixie cut and if some tit tells her she must be a boy we will be so angry.

Mightymoog · 06/02/2025 17:17

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gosh, that escalated!!
Would love to see you on a controversial thread!

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ruethewhirl · 06/02/2025 17:18

Fashion, but I know what you mean, I was a teen in the 80s and short hair was pretty trendy then - unfortunately for me, as I look awful with mine short! After a couple of traumatic brushes with the scissors I learnt my lesson and grew it back out. 😄

I often look around me at the moment and notice very few girls/women have short hair at the moment, long is definitely having a moment and I agree with pp, this is partly driven by influencers I think.

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Dramatic · 06/02/2025 17:19

I can't remember many people in my secondary having short hair (2000-2005) almost everyone had long hair

Mightymoog · 06/02/2025 17:19

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seriously, are you having a bad moment as this is a massive over reaction.
I'll not reply again as you sound very irrationally angry.
Hope your day gets better

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