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Employers hell bent on working in the office full time

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NewDayNewLife25 · 06/02/2025 13:41

Anyone else currently job searching and noticed the same thing?

I'm utterly miserable in my current role which is unfortunate as I've been there for 4 years and use to love it, but a new manager has changed things. I've always worked from home.

Anyway, I've been applying for jobs, mainly remote/hybrid working but also a few office based roles. I always state in my cover letter what I'm looking for, and my address is on my CV too.

A few employers have contacted me, saying that I'm perfect for the role, have all the experience/skills that's required and that they think I would make a great addition to the team. But as soon as I've asked about the working set up, that's it, done. They won't entertain it and decline my application.

I just think it's a shame. I know that they probably have plenty of applications, but surely it's more important to hire the right person, with the right skills and experience. Not just because that person happens to live near the office. Half the time they can't even explain why they need the person in the office. Is it control?

I'm fed up already!

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Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:37

Wexone · 09/02/2025 13:12

Oh you again 🤣🤣sorry there is about 20000 people in my company in this country across all sites. I am not paid enough nor is my job to care about their morale. I am just a number and I look after my morale as if I don't no once else will. that's is a fact of life my dear.

You may be only thinking about you but the company will be thinking about morale for everyone. Why should you have preference?

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:40

YourArtfulPlayer · 09/02/2025 13:33

What the biggest load of BS 😂

I couldn’t agree more. I love it when someone says you are being defensive when you have a different viewpoint. I wonder if they teach that at business school?

Wexone · 09/02/2025 13:41

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:19

And it won’t affect the company at all if a potential candidate turns down a role. There will be hundreds of others all to willing to take up the opportunity. There is no such thing as a talent pool. It’s more a talent ocean with a high there would be a pick of people

will there you know the industry location and what is required so well do you for every single job ??? not every job will have 100s people lined up. by the time of offering the job they company will probably have interviewed a good few people and turned majority away ans settled on about two finalists. Once medicals references etc and offer gone through that's about more likely 2 or 3 months time gone by. then person turns it donw second preferred candidate has got another job. then they have to go through the whole rigmarole of interviews again which takes time and cost money

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:44

Wexone · 09/02/2025 13:41

will there you know the industry location and what is required so well do you for every single job ??? not every job will have 100s people lined up. by the time of offering the job they company will probably have interviewed a good few people and turned majority away ans settled on about two finalists. Once medicals references etc and offer gone through that's about more likely 2 or 3 months time gone by. then person turns it donw second preferred candidate has got another job. then they have to go through the whole rigmarole of interviews again which takes time and cost money

Th is life and that is what happens when you recruit. And you know what the business survives and keeps on going. It really is not the end of the world

YourArtfulPlayer · 09/02/2025 13:45

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:40

I couldn’t agree more. I love it when someone says you are being defensive when you have a different viewpoint. I wonder if they teach that at business school?

It always makes me laugh when someone throws in their education, some line on their senior management experience and psychology when they are posting anonymously online, like everyone is suddenly going to listen to them 🤣

BunfightBetty · 09/02/2025 13:45

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 09/02/2025 13:14

@BunfightBetty , Quite. Those who offer the best conditions and pay attract the best staff.

Believe it or not, the best conditions for some is being in the office.

On the chance that it isn't, then they can look at a different company that offers conditions that suit.

Win win.

Yes, agreed. Some love to be in the office. Some don’t. Best to offer flexibility, where possible. Win win.

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:49

YourArtfulPlayer · 09/02/2025 13:45

It always makes me laugh when someone throws in their education, some line on their senior management experience and psychology when they are posting anonymously online, like everyone is suddenly going to listen to them 🤣

It made me chuckle

Wexone · 09/02/2025 13:50

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:44

Th is life and that is what happens when you recruit. And you know what the business survives and keeps on going. It really is not the end of the world

maybe ife but if business don't adapt to the changing world they won't survive and then it will be like the end of the world
weather you like it or not

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:52

Wexone · 09/02/2025 13:50

maybe ife but if business don't adapt to the changing world they won't survive and then it will be like the end of the world
weather you like it or not

Businesses have survived long enough without your opinion and this maybe shocking but they will continue to survive without it

Wexone · 09/02/2025 13:54

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:52

Businesses have survived long enough without your opinion and this maybe shocking but they will continue to survive without it

they also have survived and failed with out your opinion too 😁
shocking to say that on a forum that your allowed to give advice and your opinion 🤣🤣🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:56

Wexone · 09/02/2025 13:54

they also have survived and failed with out your opinion too 😁
shocking to say that on a forum that your allowed to give advice and your opinion 🤣🤣🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

How absolutely childish. All because someone doesn’t agree with you

Wexone · 09/02/2025 13:59

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 13:56

How absolutely childish. All because someone doesn’t agree with you

🤣🤣 your the one who started it. I don't quote you to begin with today so I am not the one being childish
you don't agree with me but chose to keep disagreeing with me 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 14:02

Again another childish comment. I don’t “start” anything merely disagreed with your opinions We are not in secondary school “staring” anything. And I can keep disagreeing with you if I disagree

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 14:02

Starting anything

thesoundofmucas · 09/02/2025 14:04

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Wexone · 09/02/2025 14:09

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 14:02

Again another childish comment. I don’t “start” anything merely disagreed with your opinions We are not in secondary school “staring” anything. And I can keep disagreeing with you if I disagree

Ah you missed this one and didnt quote me. do you need retaining again?
🤣🤣 you started it by quoting me disagreeing with my opinion, which wasnt directed at you in anyway then kept the table tennis back and forth disagreeing with me again
I can keep up the "childish" responses to your disagreeing responses to my opinions

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 09/02/2025 14:12

Wexone · 09/02/2025 13:15

he does but he also has a choice to deal with individuals properly instead of tarring everyone with the same brush
it's not shallow or self absorbed but it might hurt when a potential candidate they offer turns it down cause another companie has offered better wfh options and they then have to search again

So you agree he gets to decide.

Who said that was the only reason though?
We don't know that, he could have other reasons. But like I said, even of he doesn't, that's his choice.

Same as it's a candidate's choice to take the job or not.

Wexone · 09/02/2025 14:16

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 09/02/2025 14:12

So you agree he gets to decide.

Who said that was the only reason though?
We don't know that, he could have other reasons. But like I said, even of he doesn't, that's his choice.

Same as it's a candidate's choice to take the job or not.

he can decide yes I agree however the two who were not productive didn't happen overnight and he could have dealt with the them individually on a performance plan or even fire them before a complete oh two people are not working properly while wfh let's bring the whole team back to office instead. it's worked now but in the future could fail might have no choice but accept in future

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 09/02/2025 14:17

BunfightBetty · 09/02/2025 13:45

Yes, agreed. Some love to be in the office. Some don’t. Best to offer flexibility, where possible. Win win.

You agree but then say it's best to offer flexibility where possible.

Point is, it's the company who decides whether to offer wfh.

It may seem possible for some companies to do so, but if they choose to have people in, there's not much a candidate can do than accept it or look elsewhere.

If the company fails, it fails.

Loads of companies that do well without a wfh policy.

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 14:20

Wexone · 09/02/2025 14:09

Ah you missed this one and didnt quote me. do you need retaining again?
🤣🤣 you started it by quoting me disagreeing with my opinion, which wasnt directed at you in anyway then kept the table tennis back and forth disagreeing with me again
I can keep up the "childish" responses to your disagreeing responses to my opinions

I can quote you anytime I want to. You unfortunately are the reason why businesses are not offering you wfh or hybrid as much as you would like. Self entitlement is not an attractive feature and it really has t got you anywhere because businesses still aren’t going to listen to you

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 09/02/2025 14:23

Wexone · 09/02/2025 14:16

he can decide yes I agree however the two who were not productive didn't happen overnight and he could have dealt with the them individually on a performance plan or even fire them before a complete oh two people are not working properly while wfh let's bring the whole team back to office instead. it's worked now but in the future could fail might have no choice but accept in future

But you don't know the procedures behind the scenes and whether that's the only reason he brought everyone else back.

Whatever the case, as you agree, he decides.

Reetpetitenot · 09/02/2025 14:24

JimHalpertsWife · 09/02/2025 12:07

Employers want staff back in to justify their massive office costs.

Not really - even if they're paying rent, not having staff in the office still reduces power bills, insurance etc. And the contracted rental period comes to an end so companies can divest themselves of the bricks and mortar office space. However, many companies are finding staff taking the absolute piss while supposed to be 'working' from home.

Wexone · 09/02/2025 14:26

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 14:20

I can quote you anytime I want to. You unfortunately are the reason why businesses are not offering you wfh or hybrid as much as you would like. Self entitlement is not an attractive feature and it really has t got you anywhere because businesses still aren’t going to listen to you

yes you can if you want 😁😁🥱
can you explain to me exactly why "I" am the reason why business are not offering me wfh or remote ??🤔
how has it not got me anywhere ? please have a look at my life where I live what stage at my career and my bank balance etc that can tell you it has not got me anywhere ??

Wexone · 09/02/2025 14:28

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 09/02/2025 14:23

But you don't know the procedures behind the scenes and whether that's the only reason he brought everyone else back.

Whatever the case, as you agree, he decides.

no I don't I only went by what you said and probably telling everyone
that two people were not working properly when wfh and decided to bring everyone back to the office
which appears to say a few not performing so instead of dealing with directly let's bring everyone back

BunfightBetty · 09/02/2025 14:50

Munnygirl · 09/02/2025 12:42

I’m not being defensive at all it’s you actually. And it seems slightly strange if productivity is low and people are working from home-could there possibly be a link?. But businesses aren’t listening to you are they because some want their staff in and you either abide by that or look for something else. It’s quite simple.

I’m not defending anything personal, I have my own business and get to set my own conditions. It’s brilliant. I have no skin in the game, per se, I just have a general irritation with blinkered thinking and would love the UK to have a thriving economy.

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