Advise please thank you

Ang1231 · 2025-02-05T17:54:24+00:00

If someone said really horrible things to you, your a slag, you got no worth and putting you down as a person would you ignore these messages what they have said and just completely ignore them in the future if they try to be nice again

Bubblegumtatoos · 05/02/2025 17:55

Yes. Definitely.

Giggorata · 05/02/2025 17:57

Yes, I would ignore and block anyone who messaged me like that.

Ahsheeit · 05/02/2025 17:58

They'd be gone to me. Out of my life and thoughts.

xyz111 · 05/02/2025 17:58

Ignore and block. There's no reason to have that in your life.

Threewheeler1 · 05/02/2025 17:59

Nobody has to stick around to be spoken to like that.
Block and never look back.

lilytuckerpritchet · 05/02/2025 18:00

Yes anyone who can treat you that way doesn't deserve another chance. They will do it again, because they know they can

85pinkballoons · 05/02/2025 18:00

Someone who treats you like this does not deserve to be in your life. You are worthy of being treated with kindness and respect. Cut this person from your life and don't let them worm their way back in.

Threewheeler1 · 05/02/2025 18:01

Has somebody said those things to you OP?
If so, are you able to cut them out of your life completely or is it difficult?
Just wondering if you're feeling unsafe x

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Ang1231 · 05/02/2025 18:03

Threewheeler1 · 05/02/2025 18:01

Has somebody said those things to you OP?
If so, are you able to cut them out of your life completely or is it difficult?
Just wondering if you're feeling unsafe x

Don't feel unsafe all I did was try and talk for us to be back together becayse I love him and then just spoke to me like this but I've ignored it now

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ItGhoul · 05/02/2025 18:05

Ang1231 · 05/02/2025 18:03

Don't feel unsafe all I did was try and talk for us to be back together becayse I love him and then just spoke to me like this but I've ignored it now

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OP, you cannot have a good relationship with anyone who speaks to you like that. He's abusive. Stop trying to get back together with him. He doesn't love you.

noctilucentcloud · 05/02/2025 18:09

You love him, but he does not respect or care about you to say those things. That's no basis for a relationship, I think you're well rid whatever he says or does next. What advice would you give a friend in the same situation?

Threewheeler1 · 05/02/2025 18:09

You must be feeling so hurt but someone who can speak to you like that is only going to keep hurting you. The things he said are so nasty and disrespectful - would you really want a life with someone who treats you like that? You deserve better x

BreezySqueazy · 05/02/2025 18:10

Block and forget about them.
Never give people second chances who speak to you like that. I have in the past and it just gives them the green light to do it over and over again.

OpenFox · 05/02/2025 18:13

Ang1231 · 05/02/2025 18:03

Don't feel unsafe all I did was try and talk for us to be back together becayse I love him and then just spoke to me like this but I've ignored it now

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Ah OK this is an ex.

If someone you love says that then of course it's going to hurt, but he clearly doesn't feel that way about you so block him and move on and don't take it personally.

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Ang1231 · 05/02/2025 18:45

Maybe its best to just accept he wants it over and the stuff he said proves that so nobmore trying to fight for us, just gonna completely go ignore him if contacts and not feel bad for not talking to him anymore if reaches out

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Porkyporkchop · 05/02/2025 18:46

Block , move on and happily realise he did you a huge favour by getting you out of this sham.

85pinkballoons · 05/02/2025 19:14

Ang1231 · 05/02/2025 18:45

Maybe its best to just accept he wants it over and the stuff he said proves that so nobmore trying to fight for us, just gonna completely go ignore him if contacts and not feel bad for not talking to him anymore if reaches out

He doesn't love or respect you, as harsh as that sounds. Don't wait to see if he contacts you because if he does, it will only be for his own selfish reasons. Block him now and focus on yourself for a while, so that the next time you get into a relationship you'll be in a better place to recognise when someone isn't right for you

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Ang1231 · 05/02/2025 19:40

85pinkballoons · 05/02/2025 19:14

He doesn't love or respect you, as harsh as that sounds. Don't wait to see if he contacts you because if he does, it will only be for his own selfish reasons. Block him now and focus on yourself for a while, so that the next time you get into a relationship you'll be in a better place to recognise when someone isn't right for you

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What does it mean by for his selfish reasons

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Ang1231 · 05/02/2025 19:41

85pinkballoons · 05/02/2025 19:14

He doesn't love or respect you, as harsh as that sounds. Don't wait to see if he contacts you because if he does, it will only be for his own selfish reasons. Block him now and focus on yourself for a while, so that the next time you get into a relationship you'll be in a better place to recognise when someone isn't right for you

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Thank you for your advise appreciated

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XWKD · 05/02/2025 19:47

He's not good enough for you.