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Is it acceptable to use the word poof as a joke in Pantomime?

70 replies

girlfriend44 · 01/02/2025 19:18

Just wondered.
Gay man has part in panto that I've recently been too.

Tries to get laughs like Julian Clary and Larry Grayson did, on the back of being gay.

Comes on stage and at the same time there's a loud bang noise and he said something like always good to have a poof in the panto or words to that affect or its not a panto without a poof.

I guess alot of the youngsters wouldn't understand it, and it goes over their head anyway.
Alot of panto jokes are not just for children.
Just wondered what do you think of using the word poof in a panto today.
Wasn't it more an old fashioned saying?
AiBU mentioning this quite prepared to be told I am no worries.

Just wondered what others thought.

OP posts:
Cherry8809 · 01/02/2025 19:21

Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. Panto is notoriously camp.

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 01/02/2025 19:21

I would be writing to my local MP

Livelaughlurgy · 01/02/2025 19:22

I think there's a difference between being camp and derogatory. Our panto had a few fairy jokes.

Tricho · 01/02/2025 19:23

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 01/02/2025 19:21

I would be writing to my local MP

I'd be going to their surgery, only face to face would do

Butchyrestingface · 01/02/2025 19:24

neverknowinglyunreasonable · 01/02/2025 19:21

I would be writing to my local MP

Not logging it with 101?

amyshep · 01/02/2025 19:25

You do need a poof in a panto though

girlfriend44 · 01/02/2025 19:26

It's abit of a derogatory word these days though.

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LlynTegid · 01/02/2025 19:27

It is so last century.

Justcallmebebes · 01/02/2025 19:27

It's panto. Let it go

Waltdisnerd · 01/02/2025 19:27

Non issue

FanofLeaves · 01/02/2025 19:28

In the context of panto I wouldn’t bat an eyelid.

User67556 · 01/02/2025 19:28

girlfriend44 · 01/02/2025 19:26

It's abit of a derogatory word these days though.

I think similar to other words- if they are using it towards themselves then it's OK. I am part traveller so I often call myself a gypsy queen (joke) and that's ok for me because it's my own thing. If that makes sense!

JandamiHash · 01/02/2025 19:28

Tricho · 01/02/2025 19:23

I'd be going to their surgery, only face to face would do

I’d be calling 101

MsPug · 01/02/2025 19:28

My nans got a poof though

Jipsi · 01/02/2025 19:28

It's exactly the kind of jokeI would expect at a pantomime. He's a gay man. I think he can decide what is acceptable himself.

YoungGunsHavingSomeFunCrazyLadiesKeepEmOnTheRun · 01/02/2025 19:29

In the context of a gay man using it about himself in a panto it's absolutely fine.

Tricho · 01/02/2025 19:29

JandamiHash · 01/02/2025 19:28

I’d be calling 101

A&E. Now.

HPandthelastwish · 01/02/2025 19:29

In panto, said by a gay man no problem.

  • Panto season was over a month ago, have you been letting this gnaw at you all this time and couldn't help but post on MN on a Saturday night.
DevilWitch · 01/02/2025 19:30

Maybe he’s reclaiming it, like queer

Adamante · 01/02/2025 19:34

I’ve no doubt that this would fit the remit of a None Crime Hate Incident.

Perhaps contact your local constabulary to ascertain..? 🚓

girlfriend44 · 01/02/2025 19:35

HPandthelastwish · 01/02/2025 19:29

In panto, said by a gay man no problem.

  • Panto season was over a month ago, have you been letting this gnaw at you all this time and couldn't help but post on MN on a Saturday night.

Panto still goes on into Feb, shows you you know lol, it was today.

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Runningoutofthyme · 01/02/2025 19:36

Call the police
Call the coastguard assuming theatre is not to far from sea?

I would go batshit about this

perhaps a sad face photo and story in the daily fail too?

NoWordForFluffy · 01/02/2025 19:37

MsPug · 01/02/2025 19:28

My nans got a poof though

Do you mean pouffe (footstool thing)?

MegTheForgetfulCat · 01/02/2025 19:37

HPandthelastwish · 01/02/2025 19:29

In panto, said by a gay man no problem.

  • Panto season was over a month ago, have you been letting this gnaw at you all this time and couldn't help but post on MN on a Saturday night.

Pantos often run until the end of January.

MegTheForgetfulCat · 01/02/2025 19:38

MsPug · 01/02/2025 19:28

My nans got a poof though

A footstool/cushion is a pouffe.