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Why is he doing this? Mind games?

16 replies

OneBrightAzureBiscuit · 01/02/2025 14:30

Hi,
I can’t understand something. I was with a guy but I dumped him a week ago because he was controlling rude and did something unforgivable. Anyways, I don’t understand. He blocked and unblocked my number texted it making out he didn’t know who it was. I ignored and then I found out two days ago I was unblocked on social media. However I got drunk yesterday and went to see if the number was still unblocked. He had blocked me AGAIN. But I still remain unblocked on Facebook. Why’s he doing this? I don’t understand- it’s clearly intentional. He hasn’t reached out, called or expressed any desire to sort things. He’s still single his social media says and it looks the same with his attention seeking post. I don’t see any women either. Any input would be nice

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saveforthat · 01/02/2025 14:32

If you dumped him why do you care? Stop looking at his SM.

MounjaroNewb · 01/02/2025 14:33

What's to work out if what he did was unforgivable? Block him and move on. Don't be tragic

MrTiddlesTheCat · 01/02/2025 14:34

Why are you doing it?

Hadalifeonce · 01/02/2025 14:34

Don't give him a second thought. Block him on everything and move on.

Strawberryfruitcorner · 01/02/2025 14:35

Sounds like you care? Why? Block him and stop looking.

yourmaw · 01/02/2025 14:55

Theres no way back from "unforgiveable"
Your engage in "mind games" -when really "block"him is all thats required.
Also- am \afraid getting drunk is NOT any kinda exemption certificate for unreasonable actions +behaviour. Especially important to realise when you also prowling his soc media.
treat people how you want them to treat you.
sorry tht input wasnt particulrly nice.dont waste yur time on assholes-best i can do x

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 01/02/2025 15:01

If he's done something unforgivable girl, you don't need to worry whether he acts like a twat

Block and delete and get yourself on hinge x

Ella31 · 01/02/2025 15:54

You have multiple threads about this man that all contradict each other. I advise other posters to read the past threads because you have ranged from him being a great person 5 days ago to horrible a month ago, to self harm just before Christmas. You need to seek counselling op.

CarliLove35 · 01/02/2025 15:56

Block him on every single social platform and move on, for your own sanity.

MumChp · 01/02/2025 15:57

Move on.

Serenandnova · 01/02/2025 15:58

saveforthat · 01/02/2025 14:32

If you dumped him why do you care? Stop looking at his SM.

Yep , don't look, who cares what he's doing

Poppyseeds79 · 01/02/2025 16:10

Block him on everything and delete his number. It's over 🙃

FOJN · 01/02/2025 16:24

As pp have said, block him on everything and move on. His motives are irrelevant. It all sounds quite childish, no need for you to donate your dignity to the game.

Gloriainextremis · 01/02/2025 16:29

Don't give him any more headspace.

You are doing this to yourself so stop looking and move on. Job done.

ItGhoul · 01/02/2025 16:36

He’s doing it because he knows you’re obsessing over it and it’s a way that he can continue to control you and mess with your head. And it’s working, because you’re doing exactly what he wants you to do by constantly checking and thinking about it.

Endofyear · 01/02/2025 19:47

Who cares? Just block him on everything and move on 🙄

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