Apply as a parent yourself for an EHCplan . ignore what they say - it’s too much hassle for them to apply - I agree - you won’t get one easily - but if you are prepared to fight and prepared to go to tribunal you may/ may not get an ehc plan but you certainly will get her on the radar and get her more help than she is currently getting.
both of mine we were told ‘weren’t bad enough’ for an EHCplan. Both of mine got plans and both ended up in specialist schools, both at various times having 1:1 support . Mainstream didn’t have a clue what to do with them and didn’t understand the depth of their needs - only the assessment process unpicked it all and highlighted how much help they did require.
Include the timetable they have provided with your parental application . Shame the school and highlight this shoddy practice. . Also make a complaint to the sen governor including the timetable - If school think ‘playing with nursery kids’ and ‘craft’ is a suitable education for a 10 year old girl they’re is something very wrong. They are not trying to teach her - they are babysitting her. This is not education . I would be livid with rage .
From what you have said she is a clever girl who has severe learning difficulties around dyslexia and dycslculia. That doesn’t mean she can’t learn- it means she learns differently - She needs teaching to support her to achieve her potential - have they offered readers, scribes, teaching her touch typing, voice to speech software , precision teaching methods? What on Earth are they doing with her to help her to learn?
both of mine have multiple needs - dyslexia being one of them - both struggled hugely to read/ write - but both now can because of targeted specialist teaching that was skilfully taught and patiently practised until they got there. Mine were years and years behind their chronological age - but special school never just ‘accepted’ this as dyslexia. They knew it was the cause of their difficulties but they put things into place to teach them and close the gap… not just accept they are 4 years behind. They can’t just throw up their hands and say she is behind. There is so much they can do to help her.
Sounds like they are just letting her drift which is awful. She has a right to a decent education that is tailored to her needs. Not to be playing and crafting instead of learning to read and write. It is frankly insulting to her intelligence and to every child with sen to do this. The days of the ‘special needs kids’ colouring in in the corner table whilst the other kids learn should be well and truly relegated to history. Get angry on her behalf - start making a lot of noise to get her the education she deserves.
I have 2 kids with sen - had they been in mainstream at the year 6 sats it would not have been appropriate for them to sit them - as just too much and work would be too far above their attainment levels. By year 6 mine were both in specialist schools who were interested in teaching them at the level they were at - not teaching to test for government sats. But I would have expected them, if in mainstream still and not doing the normal sats work to be doing targeted work to help with her dyslexia snd dyscalculia. Suitable maths and English targeted to her level - not playing in the sand with nursery.
She is being failed - they are not providing her with an education suitable to her learning difficulties and you need to complain loud and hard to fight for provision.
How is she ever going to improve if they don’t actually bother to teach her?
mine couldn’t do sats at yr6 as they were too far behind at that stage - mainstream had failed them . Getting an EHCplan and into specialist schools changed everything - because finally they were taught properly and according to their needs - both ended up passing GCSE’s and both passed level 3 courses (BTEC) at very high grades by age 19. I am so proud of how much they have overcome and what they have achieved.
Get angry and take action. read SoSsEN, ipsea websites. Read the mumsnet sen boards and education boards. Don’t give in . Educate yourself on the law and start demanding some action.
She gets one chance at education and they are currently messing it up.
Fight for her - no one else will - get her the support and the education she deserves.