Hi everyone,
I would appreciate any feedback from ladies who are or were in a similar situation as me..
I've been divorced for over 3 years now, but still living with my ex husband and our children under the same roof..
House in both our names, mortgage is also under both names..
It started off with ex not wanting to sell, and playing games until we lost two viable buyers.. then the market slowed down, and I was made redundant from my job of 9 years..
Currently each one of us lives in their room, and we alternate the use of common areas (kitchen, living room, etc) each week.. basically, the parent who is looking after the kids gets to use the common areas, while the other parent stays locked in their room until it's their turn to look after the kids.
This situation has caused me so much anxiety and stress, I feel ashamed and I have been trying hard to hide it from people I meet.. I feel trapped, unable to move on with my life, or project myself into the future.
I would appreciate any advice or stories from women who have been through a similar situation.. maybe mine is not bad after all :(