I’m so mad at my husband. His friend/ colleague invited him out to a football stadium and wanted me to accompany his wife (the friend did) as we both have young children so she wouldn’t have to struggle by herself. I have 2 under 2 so any motive is more a chore than fun but I agreed. Well I spent all day in a busy shopping centre chasing after my toddler and it was far from relaxing while my husband enjoyed a nice football tour and a great child free day. I’m not resentful for this part I’m glad they enjoyed themselves and tbh I’m glad I was in the company of another female adult who understands. My baby still doesn’t sleep through the night so if you can imagine I’m crazy tired always. Well, we get home and my husband says immediately he needs a chill from this amazing day and goes into our bedroom that doesn’t have a lock. After an hour of this, while I look after both kids, attempt to make dinner and clean (literally juggling the world on my back), my toddler starts banging on the door and tries to come in and see him. Guess who he tells off. Me!? He says I’m not respectful of his time when he can step outside or go somewhere else and I’m always juggling a million things. Not to mention his on a business trip tomorrow and I’ll once again have to look after the kids myself which I do all the time (SAHM.) when do I get to chill? Or catch up on my sleep? I’m the only one who wakes up with the baby. And although I had a great day I still had to tend to the kids needs all day when he went basically all day childless and will for the next couple days. I was horrified he was so nasty to me when I am so tired, burnt out and in desperate need of a break. My home should be my safe place I forgot I had to chase the kids around there 24/7 too when I’m trying to get on dinner.