Hey, Just wondered if anyone has any advice or similar experience. I sadly lost my dad 5 months ago, he'd had a stroke 8 years earlier and also had inclusion body mysotis which lead to his death as he lost the ability to swallow. It has been a tremendously traumatic time. I was an only child and definitely a daddy's girl. He took an interest in me and my life, We would talk for hours. My mum neglected me emotionally as a child. Always been quite jealous and loves playing the victim. I have recently been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Thought to have stemmed from the emotional neglect. My mum walked out on me and dad several times growing up. It's always been about her. Since my dad's death it's all about her, not once has she asked me how I'm doing. I've encouraged her to seek professional help but no there's always an excuse. I saw her briefly today and I just wanted to scream. She's acting like a frail old lady , she's not. I feel she wants me to look after her and I resent that alot. Then of course I feel guilty that I actually don't like her, and I don't know if I ever have. Even as a child I hated her at times. I find out later in life that my grandad sexually abused her. As I child I was regularly sent on camping holidays with him. I am very angry about that. I can't walk away, she literally has nobody else, no friends nothing. I wonder why. X