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To think that if you are shy, quiet, have low self esteem, you attract red flag men?!

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Crisscro · 24/01/2025 17:56

Just that really. I was having a conversation about confidence with female colleagues at work and I said how confidence is so important for young women as if you don't have any, and from my experience, they always end up with shit men. This is all anecdotal but the really nice girls from school who were quite shy and quiet have all ended up in crap relationships. it's a shame as they are really nice, lovely women that wouldn't say boo to a goose.

Yabu- no that's nonsense
Yanbu - yes tis true

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Porcuporpoise · 24/01/2025 22:29

RobinHeartella · 24/01/2025 18:07

Yabu. It's nothing to do with what the abused woman is like. Abusers gonna abuse. It could happen to any of us.

Not all women stay around to be abused. Some walk straight out of the door.

Willyoujustbequiet · 24/01/2025 22:32

RobinHeartella · 24/01/2025 18:07

Yabu. It's nothing to do with what the abused woman is like. Abusers gonna abuse. It could happen to any of us.

This.

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