Talk to me about mediation. Separated a year. 2 kids both under 8. Liar, cheat, possible narcissist…definite cunt.
Works shifts. Seems to think that he would get his own way in mediation and he’d have the kids when he’s off. I also work, weekly pattern somewhat flexible…I get childcare when I’m at work. I’m like a fucking clown juggling all of the balls, I’ve lost half of them if I’m honest. But still going non-the-less. Dad gets them when he’s off…fuck all to do…clothes are clean, bags are packed, homework done…”fun uncle” vibes. But it’s not enough. He puts in the calendar when he’s unavailable, when he wants them. Just days not times. But he wants them more, yeah it’s great he wants to see them. But I have very little quality time. Am I bitter? No I'm better. But hate this controlling hold he has because he knows I’d have the kids whenever!!!
Anywaaaay back to the question. How does mediation work? Do they look at both of our shift patterns? And will he get them on his days at work and have to find childcare?