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Waer · 23/01/2025 02:58

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/150313073#/?channel=RESBUY

Dh and I have viewed this house. We decided it’s got gorgeous bones but probably a bit too much work needed. I wouldn’t normally mind the work but it is at the VERY top of our budget if not a little over. Just buying the property would leave us flat broke. It would be stunningly beautiful with a bit of work done to it. I’m not sold on the layout either so we aren’t talking just a lick of paint.

Dh and I have had a difficult few years. I just don’t know if it’s worth living with the stress of a house needing work.

An annexe is something that dh and I have on our dream house list as in an ideal world my mum would move in with us (but not for 5 or so years).

i just can’t get it out of my head. Wdyt?

Check out this 5 bedroom link detached house for sale on Rightmove

5 bedroom link detached house for sale in Bletchingdon Road, Kirtlington, OX5 for £1,000,000. Marketed by Cridland and Co, Caulcott

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/150313073#/?channel=RES_BUY

OP posts:
caramac04 · 23/01/2025 09:26

I love it but…. The grade 2 listing would absolutely put me off as alterations will be restrictive and probably cost twice as much as in a more modern house.
i think it’s beautiful.

BlondeFool · 23/01/2025 09:26

It needs a HUGE amount of work. Bedroom 4 is tiny.

Floralnomad · 23/01/2025 09:29

I wouldn’t even look at anything grade 2 listed , too much faff .

Bjorkdidit · 23/01/2025 09:32

As well as everything else, the cost of running the place in terms of heating is likely to be terrifying, plus keeping on top of the garden is going to be very time consuming or expensive to pay a gardener if you can't/don't want to do it yourself.

FoxtonFoxton · 23/01/2025 09:38

I love it and live very nearby -it's a nice place. The work wouldn't put me off BUT it would if I didn't have the funds to do it. Grade 2, from experience, it's a massive PITA. It's going to be expensive to run, council tax and maintain. Keep an eye on it and see if the price drops.

rainbowstardrops · 23/01/2025 09:44

Well I certainly wouldn't pay a million for it! If you could get it for a really cheeky offer then maybe

Joystir59 · 23/01/2025 09:47

Just buy a nice house. This is an absolute money pit.

chyail25 · 23/01/2025 09:48

It is a beautiful house with great potential but as everyone has said it is a money pit and the listing is a PITA.

We found the council very difficult to deal with when renovating a listed building. Everything tiny thing had to be approved and signed off before work could start and the conservation people were extremely unhelpful. They were delighted to tell us what we couldn't do, but wouldn't advise on what we could do. So for example, they wouldn't let us remove ceiling coving to fit fireproof boarding underneath, but they wouldn't let us cover the coving with the fireproof boarding either. Building Regulations required the boarding to be fitted. So we asked them what they would like us to do given we weren't allowed to fit the boarding under or over the coving. Their response 'Oh we can't tell you that...''!!!??? Utterly bonkers. That took about 12 months to sort out and required us to go digging around researching council renovated listed buildings where they had themselves covered the coving to adhere to Fire Regs.

Avoid unless you have a significant renovation fund and plenty of time.

ChristmasGrinch24 · 23/01/2025 09:51

It's beautiful but if I was spending just over a million pounds, I'd expect it not needing any work doing! Next!

Viviennemary · 23/01/2025 09:53

Just noticed it's a link detached. £1m.??? Wouldn't touch it with a bargepole for this reason alone. Linked to what.

Completelyjo · 23/01/2025 10:08

JacquesHarlow · 23/01/2025 09:14

I find it hilarious that people can look at photos of something a bit old and say “yeah that’s got good bones”.

Come on now… very few of you on here are surveyors. Just stop lying to yourselves

No one is making a judgment on the structural integrity of the property. It means the period style of the home is attentive and it has been well designed in terms of space and things like ceiling heights.

This is a weird hill to die on and all you’re doing is coming across stupid by making these nonsense claims. Accept you were wrong and move on.

TheSecondMrsCampbellBlack · 23/01/2025 10:10

I would view it and if you still love it, make a cheeky offer.

Grade 2 listed is a pain but doesn't stop you doing basics like decorating. It will cost loads to do and to heat and insure but if you're prepared to take years doing it it could be a lovely house. I think it's still on the market because of that and also, they haven't de cluttered at all, ewww at the cloths hanging over the bidet! And the dusty fake flowers in the bathroom!

FWIW we bought something similar (but cheaper) many years ago and it had been on for a while for similar reasons. We've done it up over many years and many £££ (over £200k) and now it's beautiful.

Thebellofstclements · 23/01/2025 10:15

Princessconsuelabananahammock9 · 23/01/2025 03:25

It looks like it needs a lot of work.

I would want all of the flooring replaced before I moved in personally, and that's just for starters.

If you've had a rough go of things, I would not take on more.

After my divorce I moved into a fully renovated home and it was so nice to not need to do a thing.

Unfortunately a flood meant a lot of work and all my flooring ripped out.

It reminded me of why I never want to live in a fixer upper again.

Was flooding the reason it was newly renovated when you bought it? It's very encouraging when houses have very old fittings. It means the house hasn't been affected by any acts of God.

SoupDragon · 23/01/2025 10:15

Viviennemary · 23/01/2025 09:53

Just noticed it's a link detached. £1m.??? Wouldn't touch it with a bargepole for this reason alone. Linked to what.

If you look at the aerial view, the long "out building" part of the house is attached to the house next door. So minimal really.

SoupDragon · 23/01/2025 10:18

I’m not sold on the layout either so we aren’t talking just a lick of paint.

This might be much more complicated and time consuming because of the listing.

Also, the stairs up to the annex look steep & not suitable for an elderly parent.

VickyEadieofThigh · 23/01/2025 10:19

chyail25 · 23/01/2025 09:48

It is a beautiful house with great potential but as everyone has said it is a money pit and the listing is a PITA.

We found the council very difficult to deal with when renovating a listed building. Everything tiny thing had to be approved and signed off before work could start and the conservation people were extremely unhelpful. They were delighted to tell us what we couldn't do, but wouldn't advise on what we could do. So for example, they wouldn't let us remove ceiling coving to fit fireproof boarding underneath, but they wouldn't let us cover the coving with the fireproof boarding either. Building Regulations required the boarding to be fitted. So we asked them what they would like us to do given we weren't allowed to fit the boarding under or over the coving. Their response 'Oh we can't tell you that...''!!!??? Utterly bonkers. That took about 12 months to sort out and required us to go digging around researching council renovated listed buildings where they had themselves covered the coving to adhere to Fire Regs.

Avoid unless you have a significant renovation fund and plenty of time.

Indeed! Merely the cost of new windows would be eye-watering, let alone everything else that needed doing.

Viviennemary · 23/01/2025 10:19

SoupDragon · 23/01/2025 10:15

If you look at the aerial view, the long "out building" part of the house is attached to the house next door. So minimal really.

Thanks. I couldn't see what building it was attached to.

Ppzd · 23/01/2025 10:21

I would only spend the top end of my budget or a bit over on a close-to-perfect house. If it needs work but you'll be flat out broke, it's a no! Also, if you don't love the lay out, then why are you even considering the house if you don't have money to change it? The layout of the house is so crucial to how the house works for you and your family, it isn't a "don't like the colour of the walls" kind of details, I'm afraid.

Tallblacktrees · 23/01/2025 10:23

I think realistically it would be more than what people are estimating. Even if you do everything yourself 150k would be tight. If you expect to use trades then I would think 200-250k. I love old houses and don't mind a project but this looks like it could come in similar to actually building a new house!

mindutopia · 23/01/2025 10:25

I think it’s a great looking house. Can’t say anything about the area. But as someone who lives in an old house, there’s nothing there I couldn’t live with for a few years. We bought a house that needed updating. We will do it eventually when the kids are a bit older (once we get out of the accidentally drawing on walls or spilling a drink phase of life), but we’ve lived in it 3 years and it’s been fine. The house and gardens bring me a lot of joy and we’ll get to the work eventually.

SabreIsMyFave · 23/01/2025 10:25

Laughably overpriced, and especially considering it needs loads doing to it. And it's not even properly detached!

Not for me!

KimberleyClark · 23/01/2025 10:28

Needs a lot of work for the money. Also very odd shaped toilet in photo 21, looks like it is sideways.

CharSiu · 23/01/2025 10:28

It’s a beautiful house, I grew up in a beautiful house thats was grade 2 listed. It was a nightmare for my parents.

Never choose to be flat out broke, things happen and then it’s a major problem.

LoafofSellotape · 23/01/2025 10:31

It's been on for ages,there's a good reason why, it's over priced. You could go in with a rock bottom price and see if they accept,I doubt they will but you never know.

bilbodog · 23/01/2025 10:50

OP lovely looking house - i agree with others that you would easily need £200k plus but it will be stunning one day!