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To think I shouldn’t have to attend 100% of meetings if I’m part time?

129 replies

parrrtime · 21/01/2025 20:09

I work three days a week, but our staff meetings fall on a day I work.

AIBU in thinking that I shouldn’t actually have to attend all of these? Not to be purposefully obtuse about it but sometimes I could really do with leaving a bit earlier and tomorrow is one of these. I am wondering if it’s worth arguing that I really shouldn’t have to stay.

There is never anything important covered in the meetings, by the way.

OP posts:
Mumstheword1983 · 22/01/2025 08:43

Zanatdy · 22/01/2025 08:02

Of course you should if they fall on your working days. We have the bulk of meetings Tues-Thurs so if you’re in those days, you have more meetings. You can’t ask to attend 70% of meetings for example, that’s ridiculous and I’d laugh if someone asked me that

There is no need to ask. OP is only contracted to work a certain percentage of the meetings. OP is correct in what they are saying.

noblegiraffe · 22/01/2025 08:47

The real truth is that the OP wants to get off work early

No, why do people keep acting like the OP is lazy and bunking off when she simply doesn’t think she should attend a meeting that she isn’t being paid to attend when every other colleague at that meeting is being paid to attend?

It’s not getting off work ‘early’ it’s getting off work ‘on time’. Realistically she is probably going to do another 2-3 hours work after ‘getting off work’ and adding the meeting would mean 3-4 hours work after she has ‘got off work’.

Mumstheword1983 · 22/01/2025 08:47

JacquesHarlow · 22/01/2025 08:25

What I find fascinating is how British workers (and depressingly it’s us women a lot of the time) have to be absolute sticklers for what is fair, and will read the small print for anything which they think is a minor infraction on their rights.

the number of people saying on here “yeah you don’t understand how teaching contracts work”…

So if it’s that black and white, then why hasn’t @parrrtime gone to her line manager and said “I contractually don’t have to be at this meeting, can I skip it?”

Come on. The real truth is that the OP wants to get off work early, doesn’t want to say it to their manager, is huffing about the fact contractually she’s part time and doesn’t have to be there, and wants a sympathy echo chamber.

In the meantime, surely we can just establish whether she can leave work early or not according to what her contract specifies?!!

I'm sure now that OP is aware they will attend the correct percentage. Perhaps they have only recently gone part time.

wombat15 · 22/01/2025 08:52

I think if depends on how long the meetings are. If they are taking up a significant portion of your working time then I can certainly see why you would want to cut down.

Mumstheword1983 · 22/01/2025 08:53

noblegiraffe · 22/01/2025 08:47

The real truth is that the OP wants to get off work early

No, why do people keep acting like the OP is lazy and bunking off when she simply doesn’t think she should attend a meeting that she isn’t being paid to attend when every other colleague at that meeting is being paid to attend?

It’s not getting off work ‘early’ it’s getting off work ‘on time’. Realistically she is probably going to do another 2-3 hours work after ‘getting off work’ and adding the meeting would mean 3-4 hours work after she has ‘got off work’.

Exactly this.

If OP had stated in their question that they have a specific part time agreement stating that they do not need to attend the full percentage of meetings the responses would be different.

OP your union can confirm this for you but you are absolutely correct.

Bjorkdidit · 22/01/2025 09:00

It sounds like teaching is different in that there's a contractual expectation that part timers only attend a percentage of meetings according to their WTE as opposed to most other workplaces where if the meeting falls on your working day, you'd be expected to attend meetings, which would be scheduled to fall on as many people's working days as possible.

Plus if the meeting is very important, people who's non working day falls on that day would be expected to swap a day unless this was impossible for them.

But the bigger question seems to be why you're having meetings that never cover anything important? What a waste of time.

LostMyLanyard · 22/01/2025 09:16

I'm a .6 teacher too OP and I think some posters (who are not teachers) are not understanding the issue.

In teaching, we have both 'directed' and 'non-directed' hours. We only get paid for the 'directed' hours'...everything else is done 'because the children' 🤦‍♀️ and is unpaid. We work many, many 'unpaid' hours.

Our directed time calendar INCLUDES staff meetings, and is directly related to our paid hours. Therefore, a full time member of staff is 'directed' to attend all meetings 'within the directed time calendar'.

As a part time member, we CAN ONLY BE DIRECTED to attend a percentage that equates to our working hours...ie in mine and the OP case, 3 out of every 5. The same is true of INSET days, regardless of what day they fall on, as we are ONLY PAID to attend 3 out of the 5 inset days.

We get a list of termly staff meeting topics at the start of each term, and I negotiate with my head which of these she would prefer me to attend.

I only attend 3 inset days...but again, I negotiate with my head which of these she feels are most important. If she wants me to attend more I get paid to do them, but can also say no if I don't want to.

OP your union will support you with these negotiations if your school are being unreasonable. Please don't be bullied into working even more hours 'for free' than you already are doing.

OCDmama · 22/01/2025 09:44

But meetings are a part of your job?? What's the problem if it's on your working day??

As a manager I would not be impressed at this at all. Especially if you later started whining about not being told things. Staff meetings are one of the most important steps towards ensuring we're all in the same page.

noblegiraffe · 22/01/2025 09:50

OCDmama · 22/01/2025 09:44

But meetings are a part of your job?? What's the problem if it's on your working day??

As a manager I would not be impressed at this at all. Especially if you later started whining about not being told things. Staff meetings are one of the most important steps towards ensuring we're all in the same page.

If they’re part of her job, she should be paid to attend them, right?

If a manager moaned about a staff member not being up to date because the manager hadn’t paid them to attend the meetings, nor disseminated minutes, then that’s a shit manager.

wombat15 · 22/01/2025 09:54

OCDmama · 22/01/2025 09:44

But meetings are a part of your job?? What's the problem if it's on your working day??

As a manager I would not be impressed at this at all. Especially if you later started whining about not being told things. Staff meetings are one of the most important steps towards ensuring we're all in the same page.

The problem is that meetings can be time consuming and often not very useful. If you are part time it can leave not much time to do the actual job.

user2848502016 · 22/01/2025 09:58

If you're working and they're in working hours you go to the meetings surely?
What if your colleagues "could do with leaving earlier"?

noblegiraffe · 22/01/2025 10:04

user2848502016 · 22/01/2025 09:58

If you're working and they're in working hours you go to the meetings surely?
What if your colleagues "could do with leaving earlier"?

It isn’t in her working hours.

It’s in her colleague’s working hours, but not hers.

How hard is this to understand?

Cattreesea · 22/01/2025 10:08

I work three days a week on set days.

I attend quarterly staff meetings when they fall on one of my working days. I don't attend them if they are outside my set days.

Onemorespoon · 22/01/2025 11:26

OCDmama · 22/01/2025 09:44

But meetings are a part of your job?? What's the problem if it's on your working day??

As a manager I would not be impressed at this at all. Especially if you later started whining about not being told things. Staff meetings are one of the most important steps towards ensuring we're all in the same page.

You need to re read the guidance around it then because you are wrong (or clearly not a teacher!)

Onemorespoon · 22/01/2025 11:27

noblegiraffe · 22/01/2025 10:04

It isn’t in her working hours.

It’s in her colleague’s working hours, but not hers.

How hard is this to understand?

This thread is clearly full of non teachers that just have no idea of the guidance. 🤦🏼‍♀️Probably would have been better posting on the staff room forum to get more helpful answers.

WearyAuldWumman · 22/01/2025 13:33

Bjorkdidit · 22/01/2025 09:00

It sounds like teaching is different in that there's a contractual expectation that part timers only attend a percentage of meetings according to their WTE as opposed to most other workplaces where if the meeting falls on your working day, you'd be expected to attend meetings, which would be scheduled to fall on as many people's working days as possible.

Plus if the meeting is very important, people who's non working day falls on that day would be expected to swap a day unless this was impossible for them.

But the bigger question seems to be why you're having meetings that never cover anything important? What a waste of time.

In my experience, the only meetings where things actually got done were dept meetings - and latterly the SLT used to try to coerce staff into having them outside the Working Time Agreement, whilst invoking the seemingly magical words “Oh, but staff will want to…”

Whole staff meetings and Extended Management Team Meetings were used to rubber stamp decisions already taken by the HT and LA.

JoelleLane · 22/01/2025 16:19

This thread is going round in circles with advice from people who are not teachers.
Department of Education has statutory guidance for Teachers Pay & Conditions. Teachers ( and expectations of teachers) are in it! - unless the teacher is in an indie or academy trust who have taken a decision not to follow it and instead the teacher would have accepted the terms and conditions of that school/trust instead).

There is no point debating it….it is here, agreed by government.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/school-teachers-pay-and-conditions

School teachers' pay and conditions

Statutory guidance on pay and conditions for teachers in England.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/school-teachers-pay-and-conditions

HoraceCope · 22/01/2025 18:03

if this question was for teachers only, why put it on AIBU
why not post in the Staff Room

HoraceCope · 22/01/2025 18:03

Onemorespoon · 22/01/2025 11:27

This thread is clearly full of non teachers that just have no idea of the guidance. 🤦🏼‍♀️Probably would have been better posting on the staff room forum to get more helpful answers.

absolutely

CasperGutman · 22/01/2025 20:34

OCDmama · 22/01/2025 09:44

But meetings are a part of your job?? What's the problem if it's on your working day??

As a manager I would not be impressed at this at all. Especially if you later started whining about not being told things. Staff meetings are one of the most important steps towards ensuring we're all in the same page.

In most lines of work the meetings would be during the working day. If you as a manager of staff in a job with regular office hours expected everyone to stay behind for meetings after the end of the working day and paid most people for the time spent on the meeting, but only paid part time staff for a fraction of the time while still expecting them to stay for the whole thing then I'm quite sure your staff would find that unreasonable.

Ewock · 22/01/2025 21:23

parrrtime · 21/01/2025 20:16

I am a teacher yes. So for example, two of my colleagues also work 0.6 but don’t work Wednesdays, so over the course of the year I am in work a lot more than they are! I don’t actually mind particularly but it does mean I would like to defend my right to skip the odd one.

I'm a teacher and work 3 days so 3 fifths. I have to attend 3 fifths of the staff meetings. I sit with the deputy towards the end of a term and plan the ones I'm attending the next term.
Same with planning meetings as I share a class we attend planning meetings every other week. So my job share would do one week and me the next.

Ewock · 22/01/2025 21:27

bournevilleismyfavourite · 21/01/2025 22:07

Urgh I’m a teacher and this gives us part time staff a bad name. I work 0.7 but go to all our weekly departmental meetings. It’s vital stuff. Yes I could read the minutes but it’s not the same. It’s real jobsworth stuff this. I also go to all the in service days. I work in an independent school and benefit from the goodwill this generates.

It benefitted no goodwill in my school. I've been part time for 7 years, attended all meeting for 5 of those and after slt screwing the staff over I had enough. So now I work my hrs.
Why on earth should me working to rule give any pt staff a bad name? If you want to do even more work for free that's up to you, be a martyr but doesn't mean we all have to.
I work to live not the other way round

Ewock · 22/01/2025 21:31

daisymoo2 · 21/01/2025 23:32

Are you suggesting FT teachers only work their contracted hours? It’s not what I hear from teaching friends who do many hours in excess of contract, same as every other profession I know. Seems odd advice to be giving about PT working.

No she isn't saying that and pt don't work just their hours. A staff meeting barely scraps the top of the extra hours of work done, however working to rule to only attend the correct number of directed hours is what should be done and is in our contract. Of course most teachers work over their directed hours but not through meetings.
Teaching contracts are unlike other work contracts and as such can be confusing but she is in the right to only attend a certain number. Other work has to be done and rarely gets finished within school opening hours so that gets done at a different time, usually at home. That's just the way teaching is.

HidingFromDD · 22/01/2025 21:34

Ok. I said yabu until I realised you were a teacher. In other professions then the meeting is in your paid hours and you attend, but essentially this is taken into account with the rest of your workload. Don’t know the specifics (lots of teachers in the family although I’m not) I think your 0.6 is made up of a number of teaching hours plus a number of directive (don’t know the term) hours. You’ll still be expected to do the right number of hours type 1 even if you do over the number of hours type 2, so you should get some form of agreement to ‘skip ‘ 1 in 3 ish

bournevilleismyfavourite · 22/01/2025 21:50

Ewock · 22/01/2025 21:27

It benefitted no goodwill in my school. I've been part time for 7 years, attended all meeting for 5 of those and after slt screwing the staff over I had enough. So now I work my hrs.
Why on earth should me working to rule give any pt staff a bad name? If you want to do even more work for free that's up to you, be a martyr but doesn't mean we all have to.
I work to live not the other way round

I’m not a martyr. I give a little bit (attend all our departmental meetings for example) which benefits me as it keeps me visible and in the loop and saves me time catching up. I bank that goodwill as I have a great head of department who is flexible and has been kind (eg covered time off when I attended the funeral of a non relative who was very dear to me). I am in the independent sector and working to rule is very frowned upon. Luckily the small classes and good behaviour and flexible management team balance it out.