Going crazy after being ghosted

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I’ve been seeing someone for 3 months was going so well didn’t love bomb me but we kept saying we was on the same page and could see it going somewhere, we saw eachother a lot 4/5 times a week then at weekend he blocked my number but not any social media told me Sunday he was going to ring me tomorrow (Monday) and his phone was broken this was before I realised I was blocked from calling and texting. Monday came I realised I was blocked and messaged him on social media saying I was confused as to why I’m blocked and what’s going on no reply at all and rejected my calls on WhatsApp and again this morning however he has now messaged and said I’ll call you tonight sorry and explain properly. But I’m losing my mind and I’m so annoyed I’m behaving this way I haven’t eaten in three days and I’m barely sleeping wtf is wrong with me! I can’t snap out of it. I don’t believe he will ring me tonight and I’m so anxious I need to know what’s going on
but why am I acting this way I’m looking crazy crying all the time!

This happened to me but I was seeing them for longer than 3m. He never did give me an explanation and when I bumped into him he ran from me! I had to find out from others that he'd met someone else and clearly was too gutless to tell me.

He's not who you thought he was. He's a coward. You know that now. Block him bacl and reclaim your peace

Sorry OP but he’s had enough of the relationship and can’t be bothered to tell you why. He may not even know himself. So painful for you, but you need to let him go and take really good care of yourself.

It’s bound to be a shock, you’ve known him for 10 years. I know you’ve only been in a relationship for 3 months but having known someone that long I think it’s understandable to not expect to be treated this way. I’m not trying to make you feel worse but is it possible that he hasn’t blocked you on FB as well because he doesn’t know how to. I think it would be kinder to block you on everything as it wouldn’t leave room for uncertainty about hi intentions.

Personally I think saying he will explain properly later is bullshit. Unless he’s flown out to a disaster zone or doing heart surgery he could find 5 minutes to talk to you

Could his phone have been stolen

Thank you all for your advice and kind words I just need to let go and forget. I’ve also booked a session in with a therapist as I fully believe the way I’m behaving is not normal. I have a beautiful little girl and I’m not even present when she’s trying to talk to me I’ve cried infront of her and she’s even got in my bed last night because she heard me crying and “wanted to make mummy feel better” I’m being pathetic I think it’s his bizarre behaviour that’s throwing me and making me like this

At the point of realising he'd blocked my number, I'd have blocked and deleted him and forgotten about him. You don't need this in your life. There are better people to spend time on.

It always hurts to be discarded, as long as the person who discards you still has some value to you. If you can't just forget him then focus on changing the way you think about him, managing how often you let yourself think about the situation, and keep busy until you can see your therapist.

3 months & he's behaving like a idiot

Throw him back & walk away with your head held high
Anyone who plays stupid mind games is not worth the agro

There is absolutely nothing he can say in his defence. It does drive you crazy when somebody behaves like that because your mind is constantly seeking a rationale and there isn't one.

He didn’t ring he just sent me a long message about how he’s sorry someone close to his daughter died which i believe is a lie, said he’s really sorry but he can’t stop thinking about his ex and misses her and is going to try and get back together with her. Personally think he’d seen her this weekend hence the blocking. Then finished it with but you never know if it doesn’t work out I’ll let you know 😉 hahahahaha yeah. No thanks :)

How did you respond

How old is he, 16? What an absolute shitbox.

Better than most “please don’t let me know when your already twice failed relationship with your ex fails again, I’ll come to collect my shoes tomorrow”(Louboutins) he’s actually 40 I’m 33 his ex is 41 I don’t really understand it she wears clothes that don’t suit her body shape and are too young for her extremely chavvy and he told me he ended it with her because he didn’t love her she drinks too much is always in the pub and got her boobs out because someone asked her too. But hey ho we live and learn we live and learn.
I'm not actually that bothered anymore it was just the being ghosted and having no idea what was going on that was upsetting me. But the 3 days of not eating has helped me lose 5lb taking me to 7 stone weight loss! Silver linings!