If I gift a friend an item bought from vinted?

[Mirrormirror47]

So it's my friends big birthday.
She's always admired a bag I bought cheaply from vinted and the only way I can afford to buy her a similar bag is by buying from Vinted again.
My question is would you be offended to receive a second hand item (obviously it would have to be in good condition) not new as a gift?

Personally I wouldn't unless you're sure she would be happy with a secondhand bag or that she definitely wants that exact bag you have, otherwise better not to risk it. I don't buy from Vinted/secondhand stores so while I definitely wouldn't be offended, I likely wouldn't use the present.

Wouldnt bother me. I buy loads of stuff from Vinted. Currently coveting a mini mulberry bag that i've wanted for ages.

Just be upfront! “I did get this on vinted, with guarunteed good condition from a reputable seller. Ofc I know it’s not as good as brand new, but I could never afford that even for myself and I wanted to get you something you’d like either way.”

Hobesty every time, if she doesn’t appreciate the thought and effort and money she isn’t any kind of friend. I don’t expect gifts from any friend and would love this, also more than appreciate the vinted bargain! Eco friendly and ethical

to be honest, if you're so conflict adverse that you'd literally lie and pretend you like something but can't afford it rather than just politely decline, you probably deserve a present you don't want!

I know Brits are known for being not saying what they mean, but there doesn't have to be any conflict in this instance. There's nothing wrong with politely saying thanks but no thanks!

Unless the friend literally turns around and says "ew, no, only scabs buy second hand" then no reasonable person would ever be offended by someone saying a polite "Thanks so much for thinking of me but I'd rather save up and get a new one," or even a slight white lie "Ah thanks so much but having just ventured into my cupboard I've got way too many bags so need to get rid of some, not get any more!"