I can't think straight. My husband passed away and I need to relocate back to London. I can't commute; I have to take my son out of the school he loves. We are going back to North London; my son will start Y9. Exams for all academically selective schools are over; I am not sure that he would have passed them anyway. He is very bright and academic but he is not very focused. I need to find a good academic school, either private or state, and co-ed. I don't know where to start. Please help!!!