Narc DH and his DF are the same even down to the hurtful phrases they use. Currently GP look after DD 1 day a week. I am planning on leaving DH as I can not take the emotional abuse anymore.
Should I then cut contact with my DC GP (DH's parents). I could probably up hours at daycare to make up for lost day. It's just if it's not through me it's the only way they really see their GC. DH can hardly stand to spend any time with his DF which is ironic seeing as they are clones of each other.
I feel bad for GM as she has no clue what she is in with her DH. The things he says to her and the way he treats her is awful and I can literally see into my future watching it. Someone even said it's like she's been brainwashed to stay with him (trauma bond).
I feel like after we split I would be triggered going round there but as I said feel bad for GM and think they should still see their GC. Hopefully DH would pick this up?
Have other been through similar? Aibu to just allow maintaining contact with their GP to DH.