It’s mainly my kids. What I mean is, they keep track of how much food or snacks everyone eats. For instance, if we have some cookies, they’ll point out, "He’s had 2 cookies, she’s had 2, he’s had 3," and then make a big deal out of it and argue over a few snacks. This kind of thing happens all the time, and weekends are the worst for this. It feels pointless because keeping count only leads to hassle and arguments. If someone misses out, they can just have more next time or something like that.
On top of that, my kids are always shouting across the house when they want something or need me. It’s really fustrating and gets on my nerves. It’s not just that they shout, but the loud, disturbing tone they use. I’ve told them to just call or text me instead, but they say that’s lazy. Isn’t that a bit hypocritical though? Shouting across the house is lazy too. I just don’t like being shouted at from across the house, especially when I’m already on my way to them, and they’re still shouting as if I’m not coming. It really pisses me off, so sometimes I just ignore them. It’s bad for the neighbors too, because I’m pretty sure they can hear the shouting through the walls. I know this might happen in other houses, but I really don’t like it and find it incredibly fustrating like it's like breaching the peace in the house like it's some playground.