i’m really at a loss on what the right thing to do. would i be unreasonable to leave?
my other half drinks every day. on average 4 cans of beer every night, sometimes more sometimes less. he has tried to cut down or stop but it just creeps back to the same amount. he lies about it to me and hides cans and bottles. when i’ve been pregnant i’ve had to ask him to not drink incase i’ve gone into labour - which i don’t trust he didn’t stop
he also smokes weed, which a few weeks ago i was told he was ‘done, flushing it down the toilet, hate it etc etc’ and he’s now back to smoking it
we have 2 young children, which he is absolutely great with. but me as a partner i don’t know if i can keep being lied to constantly
i worry that im breaking up a ‘happy’ family, where we both have good jobs, own our home, 2 lovely children. sometimes i wonder if his drinking is excessive enough to leave