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Aibu? Don't want to include anyone but women

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Getthatwindowclosed · 17/01/2025 18:47

I recently took up a position at a university and will be undertaking research as part of this.

I had to propose the topic to three senior colleagues and my topic is women in my field - don't want to out myself too much here.

I was able to get almost to the end of my pitch and one of my colleagues cut me off when I said 'women' and stated that surely I meant to include non-binary and transwomen too. Felt like I was under pressure to say yes. So I did.

My field is notoriously difficult for women and I wanted to focus on this. I like to think that I'm open-minded but I just don't know how to handle this, as my colleagues seem very set on being as inclusive as possible.

Am I being unreasonable by fighting to keep my research purely about women?

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Notodrugs · 17/01/2025 23:00

Say it's for cis women. I hate that term but it should help keep your colleugues them happy. And to justify it, says it's because you belive that transwomen have their own set of issues and barriers in the industry and you didn't want those to skew the results. Can't argue with that, surely

Friendtotheanimals · 17/01/2025 23:01

@Smellslikemiddleagedspirits
'What on earth is a 'cis' woman? Do we have 'cis' any other mammals? Cis-cats? Cis-cows?

Surely you are already aware. However, as a quick google will inform you:

Cisgender is a term that is used to describe people whose gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at birth. For example, someone who was assigned female at birth (AFAB) and identifies as a woman is a cisgender woman.

The rest of your question is of course spurious.

Waitwhat23 · 17/01/2025 23:07

Friendtotheanimals · 17/01/2025 23:01

@Smellslikemiddleagedspirits
'What on earth is a 'cis' woman? Do we have 'cis' any other mammals? Cis-cats? Cis-cows?

Surely you are already aware. However, as a quick google will inform you:

Cisgender is a term that is used to describe people whose gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at birth. For example, someone who was assigned female at birth (AFAB) and identifies as a woman is a cisgender woman.

The rest of your question is of course spurious.

I mean, that's just a jumble of ideological jargon though, isn't it? Using latin prefixes co-opted by social science researchers in 1994 for the purpose of making women a subset of their own sex category is laughable. And sex is observed and recorded at birth (and often before), not assigned.

JellySaurus · 17/01/2025 23:10

No point pandering to the realityphobes by using their jargon. By their standards it's just as transphobic to exclude transwmen by saying you're only interested in 'cis' women's existence as it is to exclude them by saying you're only interested in women.

Smellslikemiddleagedspirits · 17/01/2025 23:13

assign

verb
past tense: assigned; past participle: assigned
1.
allocate (a job or duty).
"Congress had assigned the task to the agency"

designate or set (something) aside for a specific purpose.
"managers happily assign large sums of money to travel budgets"

But your word-salad arguement is based on the pretense that the sex of mammal babies is "assigned" at birth?

Google Search

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CautiousLurker01 · 17/01/2025 23:21

I’d simply state that the research subjects are women, then put a foot note in which you state that “by ‘women’ you refer to women that other literature and research may define as: ‘cis’ [ref], non-binary biological females [ref], persons AFAB [ref] and that for the purposes of your research, definition excludes TW, AMAB, etc.” and then I’d not mention it again… this is, in fact, along the lines of what I plan to do provided I can do so without sounding to arsey.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 17/01/2025 23:25

Rather than AFAB, at least follow Cass and use the less ridiculous 'registered' (or it may have been 'recorded') instead of 'assigned'.

WigglyVonWaggly · 17/01/2025 23:53

Your research is about sex, not gender identity. If you include trans women then your study is no longer about women, It’s about both sexes. So that’s what you make clear. Absolute bloody idiot colleagues of yours don’t seem to be aware that literally nobody actually changes sex and women’s challenges are just that.

LinnettdeBelleforte · 18/01/2025 00:17

bridgetreilly · 17/01/2025 18:58

You need to explain why, which shouldn’t be hard. “This study focuses on difficulties faced by cis women, to avoid confusion with complicating factors that may create different issues for non-binary and trans women.” Helps if you are going to look at things like maternity/menopause issues, for example.

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That doesn't really help because non-binary people will still have menopause and maternity issues if they are biologically female.

KimberleyClark · 18/01/2025 00:24

Azureal · 17/01/2025 19:45

In my previous university we had a presentation from a woman researching period poverty in England. She was challenged on why she hadn't included trans women. She simply replied the numbers were too small to be of statistical use. I thought that was a fantastic counter.

I think the challenger must have meant transmen, not transwomen. Transwomen are biologically male and do not have periods. It would be nonsensical to include them in research into period poverty.

justthatreallyagain · 18/01/2025 01:15

surely that would open up the topic too much - I would suggest they specifically need their own research project the results would be skewed otherwise…just you won’t be doing it

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Winterwonders24 · 18/01/2025 18:42

Trainors · 17/01/2025 20:07

Including non-binary people in research about women is nonsensical. Surely it would be offensive to a non-binary person to suggest they should take part in research about a gender they don’t identify with?

Trans women are a different kettle of fish as it could be seen to be excluding them in research on their own gender.

What kind of research? What kind of numbers? In a large quantitative survey the numbers of trans women would be far too small to skew anything and you could do a sub-group analysis if needed. For smaller numbers in qualitative research you’re unlikely to get any trans participants and if you did you could note where their experiences differ in your write up.

Sseeeeeeeexxxxxxxx!!!!it's sex!!! For God's sake, if you could 'identify out of your gender' we should probably let the women of Afghanistan ,as the Taliban would have no way of knowing who to oppress!!!

Manxexile · 20/01/2025 13:39

KimberleyClark · 18/01/2025 00:24

I think the challenger must have meant transmen, not transwomen. Transwomen are biologically male and do not have periods. It would be nonsensical to include them in research into period poverty.

I wouldn't be at all surprised if the questioner did mean transwomen...

Codlingmoths · 20/01/2025 13:44

Getthatwindowclosed · 17/01/2025 19:06

Post transition probably wouldn't matter. However, it would skew the research if not.

Post transition would definitely matter. A whole different set of inclusion issues to women, everyone would know they are male.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/01/2025 14:22

NeedToKnow101 · 17/01/2025 20:25

I'm quite active in the women's group at my work. Whenever someone brings up 'but what about traaaaaaannnssss' (and predictably someone always does) I say, 'yes, we include trans, we welcome women who identify as men or NB. Men? No.'

That's my position and I always state it, with the hope and intention that it makes others braver to state their boundaries.

Does this actually head it off? Well done 👏

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/01/2025 14:28

JellySaurus · 17/01/2025 23:10

No point pandering to the realityphobes by using their jargon. By their standards it's just as transphobic to exclude transwmen by saying you're only interested in 'cis' women's existence as it is to exclude them by saying you're only interested in women.

Exactly.

Winterskyfall · 20/01/2025 14:30

Manxexile · 20/01/2025 13:39

I wouldn't be at all surprised if the questioner did mean transwomen...

Agreed. We are living in times when apparently logic and biology don't matter. Hopefully sanity will start being restored on this side of the pond too.

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