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Dispatches- Britain’s Benefit scandal

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Sunnywalker · 12/01/2025 13:04

Anybody watched this? It’s made me so angry. Some highlights include a company that can’t recruit an apprentice on 26k because sickness benefits would amount to 24k so it wouldn’t be worth it. 500,000, 25-34 years old on long term sick, a woman who has never had a FT job and claims 35k in benefits, this lady would like to work but says will never achieve the same income if she worked.

This country is bankrupt, public services crumbling! What is going on? Why isn’t there an overhaul!

OP posts:
OrchardBlack · 12/01/2025 18:58

My ex husbands first ex wife said she could never get a job because 'when would I do the food shop?'.
These people walk among us and I had no idea until I met her.

Rosscameasdoody · 12/01/2025 18:58

SevenMoon · 12/01/2025 18:57

Disabled pensioners don't, they get more than that.

Possibly because living with a disability costs them more ?

Doodleflips · 12/01/2025 18:59

suburburban · 12/01/2025 18:58

Yes I think this would be better

It’s a shame based system already.
So now you want people to go and beg for their pennies, cap in hand?
If I had to go to the job centre, I’d have to pay fuel and parking, or bus fare.
what about disabled people, or those with disabled children?

dollybirdydidmedirty · 12/01/2025 18:59

OrchardBlack · 12/01/2025 18:58

My ex husbands first ex wife said she could never get a job because 'when would I do the food shop?'.
These people walk among us and I had no idea until I met her.

I know!!!! Or how would I get the children to school ?! People have zero idea!

Doodleflips · 12/01/2025 19:00

So many judgemental people.

There, but for the grace of God go I!

suburburban · 12/01/2025 19:00

@Doodleflips

Yes and be more accountable

Doodleflips · 12/01/2025 19:01

suburburban · 12/01/2025 19:00

@Doodleflips

Yes and be more accountable

Who are you to say that they aren’t?

Willyoujustbequiet · 12/01/2025 19:02

suburburban · 12/01/2025 18:58

Yes I think this would be better

Let's put them all in ghettos.

Maybe they could have a yellow star to identify them.

Unbelievable

Stirabout · 12/01/2025 19:02

TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 12/01/2025 18:53

OMG. You’re one of them.
So, given your mum started work at 14, that would indicate that the University degree you mentioned came to you courtesy of the tax payer, not at the cost of circa £47k debt as it would today, and no doubt opened up opportunities to you that many now do not have. But you think everyone should be a little more self sufficient and responsible for themselves? After receiving that kind of hand up? Christ, have some self awareness.
My irony klaxon just fucking exploded.

Yes!
I have noted my age on here
Whats your point
Everyone of my generation received grants for University. Had I for some massively bizarre reason refused the grant I couldn’t have gone to Uni and become an Architect ….so…..shock horror a postgrad masters too!!! ( which all Architects must have to gain full registration )

Paying, through loans, for a degree course wasn’t a thing then. We can’t go back in time
Meanwhile my 3 sons have those student loans but are all quite capable of taking personal financial responsibility for themselves.

Its a matter of wanting to and working towards it. ( The little amount one pays on lower starting wages doesn’t stop people working and saving )

Not a gotcha I’m afraid

SevenMoon · 12/01/2025 19:02

Rosscameasdoody · 12/01/2025 18:58

Possibly because living with a disability costs them more ?

You got it!

feellikeanalien · 12/01/2025 19:02

ABunchOfBadBitches · 12/01/2025 18:50

Financially, my life on UC is very generous.

  • 393 standard allowance
  • 1950 for rent
  • 575 for kids
  • 312 disabled kids element
  • 198 carer element

That’s every month and doesn’t include CB, DLA and maintenance from their dad. However, as you can see, I have not one but two disabled children. As much as it’s lovely to not have to worry about money. I rather not have disabled children and go back to work full time. It’s shit really but I do agree that the benefits system is very generous.

I also rather have a council property than basically 2000 going straight from the taxpayers into a private landlord’s pocket. I can’t see anything ever changing though

And when your kids turn 18 you will lose all the child related elements of your UC and will have no more maintenance coming in plus your CB will stop. You may be quite comfortable now but that is not always going to be the situation.

suburburban · 12/01/2025 19:02

Now you are being silly

Doodleflips · 12/01/2025 19:03

Willyoujustbequiet · 12/01/2025 19:02

Let's put them all in ghettos.

Maybe they could have a yellow star to identify them.

Unbelievable

Or walk along the street with people chanting shame at them.

Blades2 · 12/01/2025 19:05

Uhm.
i think we have a minimum wage issue, not a benefit one.
keep in mind , they want you turning on people on benefits.

Stirabout · 12/01/2025 19:05

Rosscameasdoody · 12/01/2025 18:58

Possibly because living with a disability costs them more ?

@SevenMoon
I didn’t mention disabled pensioners

Rosscameasdoody · 12/01/2025 19:05

Bignanna · 12/01/2025 18:36

Who was severely disabled, and eligible.

I agree, but the point is he’s a millionaire. There are posters berating others here because they have a decent income and still claim disability benefits. There seems to be no understanding of how expensive it is to live with a substantial disability, or that a working disabled person on a very high wage is the exception, not the rule. If we were to means test disability where do we draw the line on income. How do we say to people, yes you’re severely disabled and we know it costs you a fortune but we can’t help because you’re able to earn substantially. Means testing is a race to the bottom - there is always someone who will miss out on substantial amounts of help because they’re a few pounds over the limit.

Julen7 · 12/01/2025 19:06

Bignanna · 12/01/2025 18:56

Which benefits are likely to be cut?

The suggestion is PIP

Stirabout · 12/01/2025 19:07

Blades2 · 12/01/2025 19:05

Uhm.
i think we have a minimum wage issue, not a benefit one.
keep in mind , they want you turning on people on benefits.

I think it’s both …. Whether that’s amount or the number or both needs research
but with the Increased employer NI contributions by Labour I can’t see wages jumping any time soon.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 12/01/2025 19:07

Stirabout · 12/01/2025 18:48

Yes but people who rented just lived like hermits to save and / or had second etc jobs
We had no life for years trying to save
Its about taking personal responsibility
And yes I do think people should make that effort, even if it’s, no life for a period

Ah, of course. "Sorry kids, no tea today because we're living like hermits to save up for jam tomorrow - never mind that tomorrow never comes because wages and benefits don't cover the cost of living, and that in 2025 mortgages are only fir rich people. Where's the hamster? Well, because of personal responsibility, it was just plump enough to make that tablespoon of stew we shared last week. Just setting some rat traps now."

Honestly if you can't see the problems with the economy and that it's a snake eating its own tail, then no amount of explaining will help.

A second, or third job (and I've done that) doesn't pay significantly because the tax is higher. In 1999 zero hours contracts and the gig economy weren't staples of the job market. Retail wasn't dominated by the Internet. There are hundreds of reasons why pulling oneself up by the boot straps in 2025 is more difficult, not less.

But, but, technology- re-train in IT - and more jobs are automated, and fewer people are needed as AI provides cheap customer service and starts taking over things like law and accounting and medicine.

The incentive to work comes from seeing progress as you work. Many people here testify daily to the increasing struggle to keep up with the cost of living. In the meantime wealth transfer upwards continues unabated, and we're told to resent those who have the least, and treat them as sub-human.

History has taught us this doesn't end well.

Mustard3 · 12/01/2025 19:08

username299 · 12/01/2025 18:55

They're not real. People just pluck figures out of the air to demonise poor people. If you could get 5k a week because of 'anxiety', most people wouldn't work.

I agree that they’re probably not real. I think a high % of what we see on the internet is fake (including mumsnet posts), far higher than people realise.

One poster posted a screenshot of their benefits, but even screenshots can be faked.

I do suspect it might be outrage-bait. I try not to look at most social media/news websites because I know we are being manipulated in this way. But I suspect that even mumsnet is vulnerable to it.

I am certain that vast majority of people on benefits don’t take home large amounts.

ThejoyofNC · 12/01/2025 19:08

Vote reform

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 12/01/2025 19:08

Blades2 · 12/01/2025 19:05

Uhm.
i think we have a minimum wage issue, not a benefit one.
keep in mind , they want you turning on people on benefits.

How much do you want the minimum wage to be? 15, 20, 25 quid an hour?

Pollensa76 · 12/01/2025 19:09

ABunchOfBadBitches · 12/01/2025 18:50

Financially, my life on UC is very generous.

  • 393 standard allowance
  • 1950 for rent
  • 575 for kids
  • 312 disabled kids element
  • 198 carer element

That’s every month and doesn’t include CB, DLA and maintenance from their dad. However, as you can see, I have not one but two disabled children. As much as it’s lovely to not have to worry about money. I rather not have disabled children and go back to work full time. It’s shit really but I do agree that the benefits system is very generous.

I also rather have a council property than basically 2000 going straight from the taxpayers into a private landlord’s pocket. I can’t see anything ever changing though

Your situation is a bit like a friend of mine.

She gets 2.3K per month plus £350 CSA for 2 children, one with an ADHD diagnosis.

Around £1.2k goes to the private land lord.

As she said "i'd like to work but where can i get a job that pays 2.3k per month after tax?

She did a bit of temping and got £400, she declared it to DWP and they took almost 220 off her UC.

You'd half the UKs benefits bill if we had council housing and cheap rents, though you do have to build them but long term a huge saving.

Nevereverontime · 12/01/2025 19:09

Who do you think will employ someone who has been out of work on sickness benefits for at least 10 years.
If they make it to interview stage, which is unlikely, they won't be able to give answers or examples for any of the competency questions, and I'm talking supermarket jobs.

Blades2 · 12/01/2025 19:09

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 12/01/2025 19:08

How much do you want the minimum wage to be? 15, 20, 25 quid an hour?

Fair enough, you don’t want people to receive a liveable amount of money for work, how about we lower rents?

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