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Dispatches- Britain’s Benefit scandal

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Sunnywalker · 12/01/2025 13:04

Anybody watched this? It’s made me so angry. Some highlights include a company that can’t recruit an apprentice on 26k because sickness benefits would amount to 24k so it wouldn’t be worth it. 500,000, 25-34 years old on long term sick, a woman who has never had a FT job and claims 35k in benefits, this lady would like to work but says will never achieve the same income if she worked.

This country is bankrupt, public services crumbling! What is going on? Why isn’t there an overhaul!

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Miley1967 · 12/01/2025 17:39

I wonder if they will be making disability benefits means tested soon..Something has to change and I wonder if this will be it.

ChristmasFairy2024 · 12/01/2025 17:39

I don’t think I could even watch it. Until recently I worked full time which I recently dropped to 4 days. I have a life long chronic health condition and was denied any support. I have worked since I was 15 and not looking to give up work whatsoever. My parents had to give me a deposit to switch to a manual car as it wasn’t something I could afford after dropping my hours. I have an acquaintance who gets full disability including a car, blue badge, doesn’t work. She is very open about it all and will limp from the disabled spaces and claim she has issues with mobility yet nothing stopping her getting steaming on a weekend and uploading videos of her dancing at the pub to tiktok! Really scunners me tbh.

caringcarer · 12/01/2025 17:40

Crikeyalmighty · 12/01/2025 15:53

@caringcarer that's why I don't believe in any buy to let's over35% of a property's value and why mass investment in social and not for profit housing needed. I accept that would take a lot of time to sort - however if you genuinely can't afford to be letting out property without worrying about a months void , repairs or changing interest rates you should be selling - not renting out

I can afford to cover void periods and I have far more than 35 percent equity in my houses. I have 11 so in a better position. Most of my houses are in ltd company structure so I can write of interest against tax on those. I have a mixture of repayment and interest only. I'm just pointing out in OP's situation it sounds like she would not be in a position to cover tenant repair and maintenance costs.

Frenchtoastie · 12/01/2025 17:40

Janie1978 · 12/01/2025 17:36

Okay I’ll bite. Our situation we have a severely disabled child, I’m disabled, husband works FT, we own our house outright as we are older parents and paid it off quickly.
we get £1600 UC after deductions (no rent or housing costs) £800 DLA a month £800 PIP a month £105 Child benefit £330 carers allowance - so total like £3500 benefits.
I understand this would upset and annoy people, I’ve never claimed benefits until 7 years ago following the birth of my child and coincidentally me almost dying in child birth. I’d give anything to not be in this situation. I’d rather be working, well and not have a disabled child- believe me. But I get why people are angry.

even on here on the DLA child boards you have people trying to claim high rates of DLA for quite frankly nonsense reasons (DLA for children is very lucrative as it’s £800 a month THEN you get £500 extra on your universal credit too…) we get a lot of our Universal Credit reduced because of my husbands’ pay, it would honestly make more sense for him to not work but it’s important for us for us to feel pride and show our son what a working parent looks like.

i do feel trapped though. If I start to feel better and even want to work part time, I’d lose my carers allowance, probably some of my PIP and a lot of my UC. So what’s the answer?

Can I please ask what costs more about being disabled?
throwing no shade here genuinely I have no idea and I am interested

Tootiredmummyof3 · 12/01/2025 17:41

I don't get this. We have had to go on benefits in the past and we never had any money. DH and I used to go without eating so our DDs had enough. Didn't have anything other than basic TV package, no Sky or Netflix, no mobile, no holidays or days out. That's the reality of benefits. And, of course society looks down on you.
I never understood people on benefits who have so much, unless of course they are lying..
We were about a million times better off when we were working . Luckily we both did get jobs after being on benefits for a year. I've had to give up again and get carers allowance and DS gets DLA but DH works full time and the thought of just being on benefits again fills us both with dread.
If people are living the high life on benefits I'd love to know how but these programs tend to find the few people who are doing well on benefits and ignore the hundreds that struggle..
Although I agree wages should be higher.

caringcarer · 12/01/2025 17:41

@Crikeyalmighty I can't sell because CGT would be prohibited. I've had several of these houses for almost 20 years.

Stirabout · 12/01/2025 17:41

Janie1978 · 12/01/2025 17:36

Okay I’ll bite. Our situation we have a severely disabled child, I’m disabled, husband works FT, we own our house outright as we are older parents and paid it off quickly.
we get £1600 UC after deductions (no rent or housing costs) £800 DLA a month £800 PIP a month £105 Child benefit £330 carers allowance - so total like £3500 benefits.
I understand this would upset and annoy people, I’ve never claimed benefits until 7 years ago following the birth of my child and coincidentally me almost dying in child birth. I’d give anything to not be in this situation. I’d rather be working, well and not have a disabled child- believe me. But I get why people are angry.

even on here on the DLA child boards you have people trying to claim high rates of DLA for quite frankly nonsense reasons (DLA for children is very lucrative as it’s £800 a month THEN you get £500 extra on your universal credit too…) we get a lot of our Universal Credit reduced because of my husbands’ pay, it would honestly make more sense for him to not work but it’s important for us for us to feel pride and show our son what a working parent looks like.

i do feel trapped though. If I start to feel better and even want to work part time, I’d lose my carers allowance, probably some of my PIP and a lot of my UC. So what’s the answer?

Regular assessments maybe.
I know this is very unpopular btw.
However
The answer may be regular assessments ( or even joined up writing between gps and the benefits system ) and so if you do get better or your ability to work outside the home ( or wfh ) increases you lose certain benefits as you are fit to work.

Janie1978 · 12/01/2025 17:42

Frenchtoastie · 12/01/2025 17:40

Can I please ask what costs more about being disabled?
throwing no shade here genuinely I have no idea and I am interested

Sure, I understand. my child has a severe learning disability, he requires nappies, changes of clothes (bites through them), special food, things such as headwear chew toys and special sensory equipment etc. it also pays for us to be able to access things such as therapies swim therapy for example

Miley1967 · 12/01/2025 17:42

TheMoment · 12/01/2025 16:16

She would lose her PIP and ESA which is £1200+ 4 weekly in addition to her UC and other benefits. If DWP see she can work they will investigate and reduce/strip her PIP massively - that’s what she meant by no point working. It’s a two tier system - regular UC yes you get little, it’s tapered and you are almost always better off in work. Disability benefits - entirely different system and very generous benefit.

No one loses PIP by working and if you have the LCWRA element on UC you can still work whilst receiving that. I mean obviously if someone is on PIP and then started working as a carer or something suspicion would be raised but as long as the work does not contradict the reasons you claim PIP then most people are fine. PIP is a benefit claimed by huge numbers of people who work.

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 12/01/2025 17:42

dingledangledoos · 12/01/2025 14:15

Most benefits ar means tested.
You can't just start claiming as soon as you arrive. Unless you mean the basic stipend given to those waiting for their asylum claim to be processed. About 40quid a week on a payment card, I believe. Should they just starve?

Sorry, but I have to put you right here. Asylum seekers get free housing (a private company called Serco [look them up!] rents tens of thousands of houses direct from owners and gets funding from the government - contributing massively to the housing crises!). They get free council tax, free heating and lighting, water, and transportation. That's not £40 per week.

Unrelated38 · 12/01/2025 17:42

DaphneduM · 12/01/2025 17:25

It's actually being called a good role model - both my father and my husband's father ran their own businesses, working all hours to provide us with a reasonable standard of living. It can, and should be done. Thanks to their example both me and my husband worked - not always easy, juggling holiday clubs etc. But my daughter has had the benefit of our example and giving her boys a positive example, as well as paying tax to enable these people to take it easy. If everyone went down your route, this is what leaves the generations welfare dependent. I despair at this attitude. I hope the government do tighten up the system so it's not open to flagrant abuse.

Going to work doesn't make you a good role model. Being on benefits doesn't make you a bad person. I'm not on benefits but I'm a SAHM, am I bad role model becuase I don't work? No. My exBIL works, he also beat my sister, is he a good role model? No.

Mustard3 · 12/01/2025 17:42

LadyKenya · 12/01/2025 17:29

I do not know whether such sums are real, or not, but even if they are, it would not sicken me, as it would make no difference to my actual life!

I think it does make a difference to all our lives though, because it comes from the public purse. I am very socialist and believe in the benefits system. Everyone deserves housing, no children should go hungry.

But £5,500 is what a person on £100k a year earns. That’s wealthy beyond most people’s wildest dreams (teachers/nurses etc). That’s holidaying in Florida every year territory. Do families on benefits need to be supported by the public purse to that extent??? The NHS is in shambles and school budgets too. The money could be spent elsewhere, while STILL supporting families on benefits (just not to such an extortionate extent?).

Livelovebehappy · 12/01/2025 17:42

Simonjt · 12/01/2025 17:25

He currently is as he scored 0 at his last PIP renewal.

You said he can’t type, speak or walk. What kind of work is he doing?

Janie1978 · 12/01/2025 17:43

Stirabout · 12/01/2025 17:41

Regular assessments maybe.
I know this is very unpopular btw.
However
The answer may be regular assessments ( or even joined up writing between gps and the benefits system ) and so if you do get better or your ability to work outside the home ( or wfh ) increases you lose certain benefits as you are fit to work.

Yes agree it needs to be a taper. But my issue is also with the NHS. I’m awaiting 3 operations, one has been put back 2 years now. There’s no chance I’ll be able to work until these are done (one’s a knee replacement) so how can w fix the benefits mess until these NHS is fixed?

Locutus2000 · 12/01/2025 17:43

Livelovebehappy · 12/01/2025 17:07

Many people who work cannot afford a car. To run a car, you’ve to take account of lease cost - for a basic car this can be £200 per month, insurance can be at least £300 a year, and petrol/Mot/tax could add another £200 a month, and these figures are at the lower end. For someone on minimum wage, this would be a large chunk of their take home pay. But you think benefits should be increased to accommodate these costs? Really? Buses and trains run pretty much out of most towns and cities, so can’t be used as an excuse not to use them. Only if you live rurally might it be an issue.

Or you can run a 15yr old Aygo on around £250 a year.

SnarkSideOfLife · 12/01/2025 17:43

Frenchtoastie · 12/01/2025 17:27

In no way judging here I just have no personal experience and would like to understand what costs extra when someone is disabled?
£5500 is equivilant to earning £95000 it’s an incredible amount of money that most would never ever achieve

I know. Me and dh both have professional graduate jobs and don’t have this income! We’re in our 50s so not just starting out either!

Janie1978 · 12/01/2025 17:44

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Beekeepingmum · 12/01/2025 17:44

A benefits crack down needs to come. The sooner the better. At least it would be one positive impact of Reform building popularity moving that far to the right will see benefits slashed.

Simonjt · 12/01/2025 17:44

Livelovebehappy · 12/01/2025 17:42

You said he can’t type, speak or walk. What kind of work is he doing?

He isn’t, he is currently expected to work due to scoring 0 for his PIP renewal, he has also been served notice on his assisted living facility as they are no longer getting rent.

Frequency · 12/01/2025 17:44

Mustard3 · 12/01/2025 17:42

I think it does make a difference to all our lives though, because it comes from the public purse. I am very socialist and believe in the benefits system. Everyone deserves housing, no children should go hungry.

But £5,500 is what a person on £100k a year earns. That’s wealthy beyond most people’s wildest dreams (teachers/nurses etc). That’s holidaying in Florida every year territory. Do families on benefits need to be supported by the public purse to that extent??? The NHS is in shambles and school budgets too. The money could be spent elsewhere, while STILL supporting families on benefits (just not to such an extortionate extent?).

The NHS and schools might manage better if they were not having to pay millions in rent to multi-millionaire, tax-dodging slumlords.

Miley1967 · 12/01/2025 17:44

Stirabout · 12/01/2025 17:41

Regular assessments maybe.
I know this is very unpopular btw.
However
The answer may be regular assessments ( or even joined up writing between gps and the benefits system ) and so if you do get better or your ability to work outside the home ( or wfh ) increases you lose certain benefits as you are fit to work.

PIP & DLA can't even keep up with the numbers of people requiring assessments as it is. They struggle massively to recruit assessors and they don't stay long as it's a shit job. Re-assessments/ reviews are currently more then a year behind and people rarely report a change even if their condition does improve because they just get reliant on the money. DLA claims are taking nearly six months to process. The system is a mess.

Plastictrees · 12/01/2025 17:44

Tapofthemorning · 12/01/2025 17:36

I hate - really hate - how people have fallen for these lies perpetrated by a right wing government. You work hard, get a job, earn well, pass on the same ideals to your children. And, great, in a perfect world that happens. But it's not perfect. People get sick, have accidents, become paralysed, children are born disabled, they can't get jobs, no one wants to employ them, that creates a cycle of low self esteem so they are less likely to get a job. Anything could happen to anyone at anytime. But rather than support one another, or look at the root cause, we finger point and say "just get a job". It's not that easy, sometimes it's impossible. It's heartbreaking.

It’s too scary to admit our own vulnerabilities. It is easier psychologically to ‘other’ people as it keeps them at safe distance, we can reassure ourselves that we are so different from them, it won’t happen to us. They are lazy or lying or unmotivated - we cast moral judgements as an attempt to ignore the fact that ANY one of us could become sick, mentally unwell, disabled or otherwise vulnerable and in need of government assistance.

There is always so so much of this in these threads.

Miley1967 · 12/01/2025 17:45

Simonjt · 12/01/2025 17:44

He isn’t, he is currently expected to work due to scoring 0 for his PIP renewal, he has also been served notice on his assisted living facility as they are no longer getting rent.

PIP is nothing to do with work. It's the UC or ESA work capability assessment which would determine whether he was fit for work or not.

Janie1978 · 12/01/2025 17:45

As a genuine claimant I have no issue with ‘crackdowns’ or reforms, usually the only ones who do are the ones swinging the lead.

Locutus2000 · 12/01/2025 17:46

Janie1978 · 12/01/2025 17:45

As a genuine claimant I have no issue with ‘crackdowns’ or reforms, usually the only ones who do are the ones swinging the lead.

No, some of us have empathy for others.

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